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PATO 1
07-06-2006, 07:41 PM
ok i know this is the main lounge were there are no idiots who pollute threads

ok i recently left school and now dont really talk 2 many friends now so only talk 2 people on MSN

there has been this girl who i am quite cool with we always have a laugh talkin on MSN and always say nice things about each other , flirt etc. i really like her but have never said anything about it , i always think whether i should or not but i cant get this girl out my mind and it drives me crazy sometimes we do get on real well and have stupid lil arguments and end up makin up hours later and whenver i come online she more or less instantly starts a converstaion with me she says things like messin babe, your ded nice, your ded funny,your boss your cute etc and i dont know how 2 take it which makes me a lil confused on were i stand with her

i really do like her but want to know what 2 do any help appreciated pm me if u want or post it here

THE REAL NINJA
07-06-2006, 07:44 PM
ok i know this is the main lounge were there are no idiots who pollute threads

ok i recently left school and now dont really talk 2 many friends now so only talk 2 people on MSN

there has been this girl who i am quite cool with we always have a laugh talkin on MSN and always say nice things about each other , flirt etc. i really like her but have never said anything about it , i always think whether i should or not but i cant get this girl out my mind and it drives me crazy sometimes we do get on real well and have stupid lil arguments and end up makin up hours later and whenver i come online she more or less instantly starts a converstaion with me she says things like messin babe, your ded nice, your ded funny,your boss your cute etc and i dont know how 2 take it which makes me a lil confused on were i stand with her

i really do like her but want to know what 2 do any help appreciated pm me if u want or post it here
Like I said talk to her ask her ,you only get one chance don't let some other guy get her before you can or you will really have a problem

PATO 1
07-06-2006, 07:48 PM
i know i should man but we are good friends i mean say i talk 2 her and she doesnt fell the same how do i ever look her in the face again or start a conversation with her

The Noose
07-06-2006, 08:07 PM
The Fiesty Wench is the best one to ask.
But id say that u should ask her out in a casual way.

Have u met her?

Id say girls like somone who is confident. Just say "we should meet up" Without makin a big deal out of it.

THE REAL NINJA
07-06-2006, 08:09 PM
i know i should man but we are good friends i mean say i talk 2 her and she doesnt fell the same how do i ever look her in the face again or start a conversation with her
Has she gave you any hints that she likes you in that way ?

PATO 1
07-06-2006, 08:15 PM
hard 2 tell she always gives me compliments

always sayin things like your funny, your ded cute etc an more

PATO 1
07-06-2006, 08:15 PM
yeah she used 2 go my school we recently left and only talk on msn now

THE REAL NINJA
07-06-2006, 08:26 PM
hard 2 tell she always gives me compliments

always sayin things like your funny, your ded cute etc an more
then she likes you ..she is trying to get you to make the 1st move is all .

PATO 1
07-06-2006, 08:29 PM
i dont know man i mean i cant just say something in case its not the point i used 2 be with her riend an she did always say oh you can do better than her

how do i go around sayin somnethin

THE REAL NINJA
07-06-2006, 08:35 PM
i dont know man i mean i cant just say something in case its not the point i used 2 be with her riend an she did always say oh you can do better than her

how do i go around sayin somnethin
Start telling her things like she looks good today, you know just like you would any other girl if you start to treat her different it might bother her . Just be yourself, ask her what she likes in a man to drop the hint, it's hard to tell you cuz i dont know what she's like

PATO 1
07-06-2006, 08:37 PM
well i probably won't see her for a while as we both left skool recently so we only talk on msn now

THE REAL NINJA
07-06-2006, 08:41 PM
well i probably won't see her for a while as we both left skool recently so we only talk on msn now
well then ask her to meet up . first of all how old are you ?

PATO 1
07-06-2006, 08:42 PM
17 sunday ,

THE REAL NINJA
07-06-2006, 08:46 PM
17 sunday ,
happy B-day....well if you have some of the same friends you could meet up that way.

PATO 1
07-06-2006, 08:49 PM
thanks :D
well im going away saturday so guess thats out the question

i gotta ask though how can you find out if a girl does like you without straight up askin her

THE REAL NINJA
07-06-2006, 08:51 PM
thanks :D
well im going away saturday so guess thats out the question

i gotta ask though how can you find out if a girl does like you without straight up askin her
ask one of her friends ;)

PATO 1
07-06-2006, 08:54 PM
well except her friend i used 2 be with i dont really talk 2 many of her friends

my friends an her friends dont really talk we were in different sets except me an her

THE REAL NINJA
07-06-2006, 08:59 PM
well except her friend i used 2 be with i dont really talk 2 many of her friends

my friends an her friends dont really talk we were in different sets except me an her
um k then you just have to ask her yourself it's the best way to do it for her and you . just tell her you always want to be friends no matter what happens and you know go on from there.

PATO 1
07-06-2006, 09:01 PM
yeah i guess its the only way just thinkin how i start the conversation an that damn i hate these situations

THE REAL NINJA
07-06-2006, 09:01 PM
tell her you have a friend that broke up with his girlfriend and now wants to date her friend...see it will be a hint to her , you can find out what she thinks about that and if she's like "i would never do that or it's not right" then you can always play it off like it was your friend the whole time

PATO 1
07-06-2006, 09:03 PM
yeah anyway im out 2 bed now thanks for your help T R N speak 2 ya tommorrow pal

SonnyG8R
07-06-2006, 10:30 PM
ok i know this is the main lounge were there are no idiots who pollute threads

ok i recently left school and now dont really talk 2 many friends now so only talk 2 people on MSN

there has been this girl who i am quite cool with we always have a laugh talkin on MSN and always say nice things about each other , flirt etc. i really like her but have never said anything about it , i always think whether i should or not but i cant get this girl out my mind and it drives me crazy sometimes we do get on real well and have stupid lil arguments and end up makin up hours later and whenver i come online she more or less instantly starts a converstaion with me she says things like messin babe, your ded nice, your ded funny,your boss your cute etc and i dont know how 2 take it which makes me a lil confused on were i stand with her

i really do like her but want to know what 2 do any help appreciated pm me if u want or post it here


Have you seen what she looks like? Are you sure it is even a she? I am not giving you a hard time. you never know who's behind the monitor on the other end unless you have a webcam or something. My advice if you like her is to tell her so and request a meeting. Computer relationships can only go so far. If she is cool in real life then you go ahead and make the next move. I know people who have met online and wound up married. I also know there are a lot of sick bastards out there pretending to be something they are not. Good luck with it. :cool:

SonnyG8R
07-06-2006, 10:36 PM
lol, ok just read the entire thread. I guess you actyually do know this chick. Well that makes it easy. You just have to summon up the courage to ask her out. I know it is tough sometimes in High School but the thing is the girls want us as much as we want them. You don't even have to call it a date. Just ask if she wants to hang out some time. Then if things seem to be going well you can go from there.

PATO 1
07-07-2006, 06:02 AM
ok this girl used 2 go 2 my school we known each other 4 years btw

PATO 1
07-07-2006, 08:37 AM
so any1 else

* FeistyWench *
07-07-2006, 11:34 AM
ok i know this is the main lounge were there are no idiots who pollute threads

ok i recently left school and now dont really talk 2 many friends now so only talk 2 people on MSN

there has been this girl who i am quite cool with we always have a laugh talkin on MSN and always say nice things about each other , flirt etc. i really like her but have never said anything about it , i always think whether i should or not but i cant get this girl out my mind and it drives me crazy sometimes we do get on real well and have stupid lil arguments and end up makin up hours later and whenver i come online she more or less instantly starts a converstaion with me she says things like messin babe, your ded nice, your ded funny,your boss your cute etc and i dont know how 2 take it which makes me a lil confused on were i stand with her

i really do like her but want to know what 2 do any help appreciated pm me if u want or post it here
i haven;t read anything other than your post, so i don't know if people have same or different advice, but it sounds good for you. sounds like she likes you. i am assuming you 2 are about the same age and that you both know each other from school and that she does not have a boy friend. i think you should just ask her if she wants to get together sometime. in the middle of a good conversation, ask her if she wants to do something specific with you (go to a movie, get some dinner, go dancing, see a band, whatever it is you young people do (lol!).
i'd be surprised if she says no. you need to go for it. but sound comfortable and casual. like you know what? we shold get together and ...(whatever you want to do for your date) and take it slow.
good luck!

* FeistyWench *
07-07-2006, 11:36 AM
The Fiesty Wench is the best one to ask.
But id say that u should ask her out in a casual way.

Have u met her?

Id say girls like somone who is confident. Just say "we should meet up" Without makin a big deal out of it.
exactly.
be like, i think you are so cool and i enjoy talking to you.
you're not saying i am in love with you or anything.
friends get together too...
just feel her out (see how she reacts to you asking her out and if she does go out, how she reacts once you are out)...and take it slow

* FeistyWench *
07-07-2006, 11:39 AM
thanks :D
well im going away saturday so guess thats out the question

i gotta ask though how can you find out if a girl does like you without straight up askin her
there are no guarantees and you are not asking her on a date exactly, just to meet up and do someting together.
if she says yes, you can always try the honest, good guy approach and tell her you like her but you don;t want anything to screw up your firendship with her. ask her what she thinks. it's a tough move, but usually worth it in the end, especially if she flirts with you. plus, if you can;t ask any of her friends, that's all you can do.

PATO 1
07-07-2006, 02:24 PM
ok thANKS !!!!!!!!

PATO 1
07-08-2006, 04:43 PM
cool thanks peeps :boxing:

* FeistyWench *
07-08-2006, 05:41 PM
u gonna follow any of the advice?

The Noose
07-08-2006, 06:13 PM
And tell us wat happens.


I wana hear all the juicey details!

* FeistyWench *
07-08-2006, 06:34 PM
And tell us wat happens.


I wana hear all the juicey details!
yeah! we wanna know!

K-DOGG
07-08-2006, 06:44 PM
Have you seen what she looks like? Are you sure it is even a she? I am not giving you a hard time. you never know who's behind the monitor on the other end unless you have a webcam or something. My advice if you like her is to tell her so and request a meeting. Computer relationships can only go so far. If she is cool in real life then you go ahead and make the next move. I know people who have met online and wound up married. I also know there are a lot of sick bastards out there pretending to be something they are not. Good luck with it. :cool:

I'm with Sonny on this. Maybe I'm too old or past it for my words to mean ANYTHING on this subject; but this is a cyber-person and can be ANYBODY. I never have understood people meeting folks on internet and then going after them; but maybe I'm just not that adventurous. I just remember this woman I used to work with who became infatuated with somebody she met on the internet and left her husband for teh guy one weekend. To be concise, "he" wasn't the man she thought he was.....and a sick part of me giggles when I think about the stupid *@#! and how she lost it all over a fantasy.

Anyway, roll the dice. There's plenty of people around you; but I suppose any avenue in this day of technology and information superhighway is open for travel. What the hell do I know? I'm old school.

* FeistyWench *
07-08-2006, 06:46 PM
I'm with Sonny on this. Maybe I'm too old or past it for my words to mean ANYTHING on this subject; but this is a cyber-person and can be ANYBODY. I never have understood people meeting folks on internet and then going after them; but maybe I'm just not that adventurous. I just remember this woman I used to work with who became infatuated with somebody she met on the internet and left her husband for teh guy one weekend. To be concise, "he" wasn't the man she thought he was.....and a sick part of me giggles when I think about the stupid *@#! and how she lost it all over a fantasy.

Anyway, roll the dice. There's plenty of people around you; but I suppose any avenue in this day of technology and information superhighway is open for travel. What the hell do I know? I'm old school.
you oldschoolers need to read all the posts before responding. lol! he went to school with the girl. :p ;)

K-DOGG
07-08-2006, 07:00 PM
you oldschoolers need to read all the posts before responding. lol! he went to school with the girl. :p ;)

Oh. :o Oops. Well, as Ms. Emily would say, "Nevermind." :D

* FeistyWench *
07-08-2006, 07:05 PM
Oh. :o Oops. Well, as Ms. Emily would say, "Nevermind." :D
lol! if he didn't know her, i would definitely agree with you & sonny.

PATO 1
07-08-2006, 07:16 PM
LOL

yeah i probably will do somethin but it wont be like asking her out anywere ill just come out and say somethin

* FeistyWench *
07-09-2006, 05:06 PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! :birthday:

good k given and 1000000.00 points donated to El Temible successfully!

PATO 1
07-09-2006, 05:09 PM
thanks !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you the man


(oh **** i mean woman)

The Coagulator
07-10-2006, 11:39 AM
LOL

yeah i probably will do somethin but it wont be like asking her out anywere ill just come out and say somethin

via internet ask her what are the top 5 things she looks for in a man...this way you will see what her answers are and then see if you have any of those 5 things...if you are all 5...your in...if you only match 1...stay friends.....

RAESAAD
07-10-2006, 11:42 AM
yeah she used 2 go my school we recently left and only talk on msn now
You only live once.....tell her how you feel it seems likely she feels the same way......Don't let her go if you really like her or someday you may regret it.

PATO 1
07-10-2006, 01:48 PM
yeah maybe

juggernautburn
08-09-2006, 04:51 AM
so, whatever happened man? i know this thread is a month old, but if i can chime in with my experiences, i used to like a girl a lot in high school, but i was so shy, and i mean, my confidence was at it's all time lowest, that i never let her know how i felt. it feels so bad to let that girl walk right out of your life only to have some guy who has more confidence, sweep her up. it's been two years since graduation and i have not seen her once after that day. so pretty much, go in for the kill, or chances are, you will never see her again, or some overly confident bastard will get her, either way, your aren't riding off into the sunset with her. if you like a girl, and i mean really like a girl, either get with her as soon as possible, or let it go. those are the only choices in todays world if you do not want to be hung up on the resolution.

PATO 1
08-09-2006, 06:10 AM
so, whatever happened man? i know this thread is a month old, but if i can chime in with my experiences, i used to like a girl a lot in high school, but i was so shy, and i mean, my confidence was at it's all time lowest, that i never let her know how i felt. it feels so bad to let that girl walk right out of your life only to have some guy who has more confidence, sweep her up. it's been two years since graduation and i have not seen her once after that day. so pretty much, go in for the kill, or chances are, you will never see her again, or some overly confident bastard will get her, either way, your aren't riding off into the sunset with her. if you like a girl, and i mean really like a girl, either get with her as soon as possible, or let it go. those are the only choices in todays world if you do not want to be hung up on the resolution.
i dont really have a confidence problem , other way round really i mean im a very confident person

i aint said nothin but we aint spoke much either , she on holiday right now , but i mean i guess il have to say somethin , or il be in the friend zone

juggernautburn
08-09-2006, 06:17 AM
oh, i didn't mean to say you had a confidence problem, i guess i was going on my experience and trying to give you a little advice. i had the confidence problem though.

PATO 1
08-09-2006, 06:22 AM
oh, i didn't mean to say you had a confidence problem, i guess i was going on my experience and trying to give you a little advice. i had the confidence problem though.
its cool :cool:

MANGLER
01-07-2010, 02:17 AM
ok i know this is the main lounge were there are no idiots who pollute threads

ok i recently left school and now dont really talk 2 many friends now so only talk 2 people on MSN

there has been this girl who i am quite cool with we always have a laugh talkin on MSN and always say nice things about each other , flirt etc. i really like her but have never said anything about it , i always think whether i should or not but i cant get this girl out my mind and it drives me crazy sometimes we do get on real well and have stupid lil arguments and end up makin up hours later and whenver i come online she more or less instantly starts a converstaion with me she says things like messin babe, your ded nice, your ded funny,your boss your cute etc and i dont know how 2 take it which makes me a lil confused on were i stand with her

i really do like her but want to know what 2 do any help appreciated pm me if u want or post it here

Hope you just went ahead and let her know what wasup. Seems like she was feelin you too.