View Full Version : Advice on what to do if someone is dissing you and hitting on you girlfriend.


boxer13
09-29-2010, 07:23 AM
Hello all, I'm trying to learn about what to do in this general type of situation:

If you are a mellow person who doesn't like fighting over stupid things and are already secure and comfortable with your gf and its not the fact that the guy is hitting on your gf cause it doesn't matter if you trust her but if hes disrespecting you in front of her and being a moron. What would you do in a situation like this? Also add that you don't know if you will win cause its a guy you don't know.

In my case as a person who doesn't know mma so if the guy turns out to be trained in it and which case I'd be at a disadvantage. What are your views on this?

Sorry if its been asked before or if this is the wrong forum.

BIg Smoke
09-29-2010, 07:28 AM
Well..

I'd personally beat his ass.

But if he's makin a fool out of you in front of your girl then you should beat his ass...

I mean if you have any type of boxing exp you should be able to KO him with a jab and a straight right (or left).

Spartacus Sully
09-29-2010, 07:30 AM
Go some where else?

alb829
09-29-2010, 07:36 AM
Everybody wants to be a tough guy....but reality is people end up dead over similarly dumb situations. If you you are secure in who you are and aren't bothered by it and the other guy hasn't physically touched/threatened you, then why fight in the first place? I can't think of any positives from fighting. You risk getting locked up, hurt or shot(where I'm from fights lead to somebody going to the trunk, it rarely ends w/ just a fight). Not to mention that recently there was a 1 punch fight that led to the death of the other combatant. The guy that threw the punch was jailed and charged with manslaughter. My advice is grow up and keep the fighting in the ring.

One more round
09-29-2010, 07:45 AM
Depends what he is doing....

If he is just having a go, tell him to back the **** off.


If he doesn't back off, or if he is being really sleazy or abusive or whatever in the 1st place, wipe him out. three or four straight punches to the head.

Although do be careful, sometimes you have to pick your fights. You could hit him and take care of him, but he could have a whole lot of backup when it's just you and your gf. Not saying to ***** out though, always be assertive, but use discretion, assess the siuation.

BG_Knocc_Out
09-29-2010, 07:47 AM
Pull out a strap on dat trick azz hoe.

DiLLiNGER
09-29-2010, 07:49 AM
Well..

I'd personally beat his ass.

But if he's makin a fool out of you in front of your girl then you should beat his ass...

I mean if you have any type of boxing exp you should be able to KO him with a jab and a straight right (or left).

stfu you would do sh** internet hero aahahahahahhahhha

you sit on boxingscene all day how the fcuk u gonna find a girl :rofl:

and a big LOL on u trying to sound "ghetto"

what a loser hahahahahahhahhaha :lol1:

DiLLiNGER
09-29-2010, 07:50 AM
Hello all, I'm trying to learn about what to do in this general type of situation:

If you are a mellow person who doesn't like fighting over stupid things and are already secure and comfortable with your gf and its not the fact that the guy is hitting on your gf cause it doesn't matter if you trust her but if hes disrespecting you in front of her and being a moron. What would you do in a situation like this? Also add that you don't know if you will win cause its a guy you don't know.

In my case as a person who doesn't know mma so if the guy turns out to be trained in it and which case I'd be at a disadvantage. What are your views on this?

Sorry if its been asked before or if this is the wrong forum.

well if u think like that then dont even bother

either u hit him in the mouth or u just leave it.

bernardotelo
09-29-2010, 07:57 AM
Hello all, I'm trying to learn about what to do in this general type of situation:

If you are a mellow person who doesn't like fighting over stupid things and are already secure and comfortable with your gf and its not the fact that the guy is hitting on your gf cause it doesn't matter if you trust her but if hes disrespecting you in front of her and being a moron. What would you do in a situation like this? Also add that you don't know if you will win cause its a guy you don't know.

In my case as a person who doesn't know mma so if the guy turns out to be trained in it and which case I'd be at a disadvantage. What are your views on this?

Sorry if its been asked before or if this is the wrong forum.


it's pretty easy since i can see your a wimp...get him from behind when hes alone and no one is seeing and knock his ass out then wink at me with a bad ass face when you see him...lawl.

.:PRINCE:.
09-29-2010, 08:20 AM
Tell him straight

- Say that you really don't like him disrespecting you and tell him to stop

- Say that you will be willing to fight one on one to settle your differences

If your not bothered then just walk away or shrug it off, he'll notice that and will eventually stop doing it. But if you are, then just fight for what your worth. It may not be the best option, but fighting solves alot of things.

BIg Smoke
09-29-2010, 08:46 AM
stfu you would do sh** internet hero aahahahahahhahhha

you sit on boxingscene all day how the fcuk u gonna find a girl :rofl:

and a big LOL on u trying to sound "ghetto"

what a loser hahahahahahhahhaha :lol1:

I'm guessing that job search didn't go so well homie..

:nonono:

BIg Smoke
09-29-2010, 08:49 AM
stfu you would do sh** internet hero aahahahahahhahhha

you sit on boxingscene all day how the fcuk u gonna find a girl

and a big LOL on u trying to sound "ghetto"

what a loser hahahahahahhahhaha :lol1:
And if you're gonna try and bag on me at least do it right...

:nonono:

You shoulda said "you wouldn't do sh**"

:nonono:

And remember... I'm not just an internet hero...

I'm an internet hero with a job.

:fing02:

DiLLiNGER
09-29-2010, 09:07 AM
And if you're gonna try and bag on me at least do it right...

:nonono:

You shoulda said "you wouldn't do sh**"



And remember... I'm not just an internet hero...

I'm an internet hero with a job.

:fing02:

shoulda is not a word retard ahahahahahaa

wow another "job" joke ,you're using your masters lame jokes :rofl:

way to go "internet ghetto boy" :wave:

Uturn
09-29-2010, 09:44 AM
You got a gun? That will save your ass.

putaloco
09-29-2010, 10:25 AM
how is he hitting on her? how secure are you with youre woman? it usually takes two to tango homie. no disrespect but you should check your lady before you check anyone else.
CAN'T SHE JUST TELL HIM TO STOP CUZ SHE HAS A MAN?

TheRealTruth321
09-29-2010, 10:31 AM
shoulda is not a word retard ahahahahahaa

wow another "job" joke ,you're using your masters lame jokes :rofl:

way to go "internet ghetto boy" :wave:

That little Vid at the bottom is EPIC!!! You ****1ng Legend!!!!

Where did you find it bro?

Aperion
09-29-2010, 11:35 AM
Don't fight, unless violence from this other guy is immanent. In that case, hit first, straight punches, then leave immediately.

I know I could have easily been in a few street scraps, jail and death are the two reasons why I've never been in a fight on the street. My wife is black, and I'm a typical looking white guy, this basically means a lot of black people hate us here and have no problem staring and saying ignorant **** - people who do things like this are insecure passive aggressive babies - look them in the eye, most cowards will not meet your gaze, and if they do, they back off because only an ignorant pathetic coward wants to hurt another human being for no cause. So far that's been my experience, but be prepared to fight if necessary, stay lose, not angry so your judgement isn't clouded.

TheRealAshland
09-29-2010, 11:37 AM
Give him your best crazy look

SugarRayCurtain
09-29-2010, 11:42 AM
Hello all, I'm trying to learn about what to do in this general type of situation:

If you are a mellow person who doesn't like fighting over stupid things and are already secure and comfortable with your gf and its not the fact that the guy is hitting on your gf cause it doesn't matter if you trust her but if hes disrespecting you in front of her and being a moron. What would you do in a situation like this? Also add that you don't know if you will win cause its a guy you don't know.

In my case as a person who doesn't know mma so if the guy turns out to be trained in it and which case I'd be at a disadvantage. What are your views on this?

Sorry if its been asked before or if this is the wrong forum.

be a man and tell the guy to stop disrespecting you, if he doesnt stop fight him.

rockymarciano1
09-29-2010, 11:50 AM
This has nothing to do with training, nor does it have anything to do with nutrition. Take your business elsewhere squire.

isiahmike
09-29-2010, 11:58 AM
yo dog if hes doing that in front of you. he obviously thinks you soft and has no respect for u. how u think your girl feels about u not doing anything. if i were u i would confront him and if he tries to play himself just put it on him. if hes bigger than u bring brass knuckles or a knife. but whatever u do u got to man up and fight for whats yours homie.

mushahadeen
09-29-2010, 12:53 PM
Hello all, I'm trying to learn about what to do in this general type of situation:

If you are a mellow person who doesn't like fighting over stupid things and are already secure and comfortable with your gf and its not the fact that the guy is hitting on your gf cause it doesn't matter if you trust her but if hes disrespecting you in front of her and being a moron. What would you do in a situation like this? Also add that you don't know if you will win cause its a guy you don't know.

In my case as a person who doesn't know mma so if the guy turns out to be trained in it and which case I'd be at a disadvantage. What are your views on this?

Sorry if its been asked before or if this is the wrong forum.

Always ask yourself: WHAT WOULD OSCAR DO?

He would walk away.

Cuz you're asking for trouble. Guy kills you, or you kill the guy, or you end up in jail...not worth it.

mushahadeen
09-29-2010, 12:56 PM
yo dog if hes doing that in front of you. he obviously thinks you soft and has no respect for u. how u think your girl feels about u not doing anything. if i were u i would confront him and if he tries to play himself just put it on him. if hes bigger than u bring brass knuckles or a knife. but whatever u do u got to man up and fight for whats yours homie.

omg that is a recipe for time served + probation.

Bullrush
09-29-2010, 01:01 PM
drop him if he crosses the line thats it, doesnt matter if he knows mma or any of that stupid ****. if you catch him first its over. were not talking about official sanctionized boxing fights here, skill doesnt really matter all that much in a street fight if your punch lands first you already have the momentum and if you know how to punch you'll basically always win if you land first

with guys like that you never know they usually dont know how to fight. real fighters dont walk around acting like idiots looking for trouble

boxer13
09-29-2010, 05:47 PM
Thanks guys! Some good replies here.

how is he hitting on her? how secure are you with youre woman? it usually takes two to tango homie. no disrespect but you should check your lady before you check anyone else.
CAN'T SHE JUST TELL HIM TO STOP CUZ SHE HAS A MAN?

she makes it clear that shes taken but there are just some guys who still don't quit and then start talking **** on her man to try and persuade her. You know those types..

it's pretty easy since i can see your a wimp...get him from behind when hes alone and no one is seeing and knock his ass out then wink at me with a bad ass face when you see him...lawl.

Lol... it has nothing to do with me being a wimp, although I'd be instantly pissed I'm rational enough to think things through logically. I just don't see the point of getting into pointless fights over words from some guy who I'd already look down on and could careless about.

The main issue is the disrespect. But to fight or not to fight is a double edged sword in both ways. If I fight him I might seem insecure and a douche/bully if I don't fight him I might seem like a coward to some people.

I guess in conclusion I'd just start off by being assertive verbally and if it escalates to a fight oh well?

boxer13
09-29-2010, 05:49 PM
oops sorry I just figured out that this thread would have been more appropriate in the boxing scene lounge section? my apologies to anyone who is offended.

supRa
09-30-2010, 02:24 AM
Everybody wants to be a tough guy....but reality is people end up dead over similarly dumb situations. If you you are secure in who you are and aren't bothered by it and the other guy hasn't physically touched/threatened you, then why fight in the first place? I can't think of any positives from fighting. You risk getting locked up, hurt or shot(where I'm from fights lead to somebody going to the trunk, it rarely ends w/ just a fight). Not to mention that recently there was a 1 punch fight that led to the death of the other combatant. The guy that threw the punch was jailed and charged with manslaughter. My advice is grow up and keep the fighting in the ring.

i agree man.... i just dont wanna put my record on the line, ive done so good throughout life not 2 fck up and i aint gonna let some idiot screw me over! just have a serious talk with the guy, be professional about it and trust me the dude will bug off, i used to get this since ima small dude (130 pounds skinny) and were am from its basically kinda ghetto full of low lifes so go figure! and usually people who do that kinda sht are dudes that are like 170 pounds and it really sucks lol... i know i could fck som1 up but i hate 4 the fact that they got like 50 pounds over me uughh! lol

i hate...i fckin hate dudes that r like that man...thats fcked up 4real... i know i didnt hit on girls that had a bf....thats just me...am really respectful when it comes to those kinda of things...

supRa
09-30-2010, 02:27 AM
Don't fight, unless violence from this other guy is immanent. In that case, hit first, straight punches, then leave immediately.

I know I could have easily been in a few street scraps, jail and death are the two reasons why I've never been in a fight on the street. My wife is black, and I'm a typical looking white guy, this basically means a lot of black people hate us here and have no problem staring and saying ignorant **** - people who do things like this are insecure passive aggressive babies - look them in the eye, most cowards will not meet your gaze, and if they do, they back off because only an ignorant pathetic coward wants to hurt another human being for no cause. So far that's been my experience, but be prepared to fight if necessary, stay lose, not angry so your judgement isn't clouded.

wooooooorrrrrrrrrrrrrrddddddddddd

Neutral Corner
09-30-2010, 03:19 AM
Personally, I wouldn't do anything.

I wouldn't let some dick control how I feel.

josh-hill
09-30-2010, 07:17 AM
look man. i just started boxing and i can tell you straight off that if he has any fighting experience he will win. hands down. (unless you are a boxer. didnt mention if you have fighting experience under your belt but id guess not). first shadowboxing session i had i got my ass whuped by a kid half my size just cus i had no idea what to do and my reactions where terrible. :smashfrea

i see posts like this all over the internet. point is if you want to be a tough guy then get boxing. but its probably a better idea to steer clear of fights. esspecialy if you dont like them.

Soju
09-30-2010, 10:55 AM
^how do you get your ass whooped shadow boxing?? Are you sure you weren't just hitting yourself in the head and tripping balls?

josh-hill
09-30-2010, 11:20 AM
well it was light sparing for working on reactions. the trainer called it shadow boxing. but i was under the impression that shadow boxing was on your own. but that is not important.

icedog11
09-30-2010, 02:15 PM
Really your girl should say something unlesss she is intimidated then its your job to say something.

I have a hot wife and guys constantly hit on her in front of me, rarely if ever does it bother me unless I see its bothering her.

Quite often the situation can be diffused with words I will often tell guys who are getting a little to forward in no uncertain terms "you can't afford her and she will be leaving with me so try your luck else where". usually thats enough. There is no need to be cofrontational.

Golden-Gloves
10-01-2010, 11:59 PM
When a guy looks at me or my girl in a disrespectful manner, I instantly get an adrenalin rush, my heart starts pounding, blood starts flowing. I dont mind confrontations, and its pretty easy to get me motivated for one.

But I'm tired of going to Jail an attending Assault 4 trials, ****s up my time and money. And I'm tired of ****ing up my hands, my hands are more valuable then some dudes words.

My best advice is to smirk at the dude and laugh in his face, they usually feel like an idiot.

La Zorrita
10-02-2010, 01:30 AM
tell em... maybe i.... zuck ya ***?