In my neighborhood, girls want gangstas. I could go up to a girl and tell her how beautiful she is, how much of a nice person she is, and tell her I want to make her life so great, and she would say thank you and move on. If I give her an attitude instead, show up wearing RocaWear and Fubu, kick her fathers ass, she would swoon. I'm a total ***** when it comes to girls. She started disliking me cuz I wasn't doing all that gangsta ****. She stopped respecting me, and eventually broke up with me. By and large, girls abhor prosperity. It's a double edged sword. Girls do not know what they want. Can I get an amen?

I think youve posted **** about this before and Im going to say the same thing again. Dont **** with girls like that man!! Find a nice girl. Maybe one that goes to a Catholic school or something that isnt in to all that thug bull****. Dont think just because they arent "down" that they dont get down if you know what I mean. Nice looking, "good girls" are often the most freaky and you dont have to deal with a bunch of bull**** that surrounds girls who are into that thug type of life style.

I think youve posted **** about this before and Im going to say the same thing again. Dont **** with girls like that man!! Find a nice girl. Maybe one that goes to a Catholic school or something that isnt in to all that thug bull****. Dont think just because they arent "down" that they dont get down if you know what I mean. Nice looking, "good girls" are often the most freaky and you dont have to deal with a bunch of bull**** that surrounds girls who are into that thug type of life style.
There are no "nice girls" in my neighborhood. I live in Duncan Projects in Jersey City. It's increasingly harder now that I'm not in High School anymore. Catholic school girls hate Ryan. Plus, the people I hang with don't exactly know good girls.

There are no "nice girls" in my neighborhood. I live in Duncan Projects in Jersey City. It's increasingly harder now that I'm not in High School anymore. Catholic school girls hate Ryan. Plus, the people I hang with don't exactly know good girls.

Take a bus to the mall or something outside of your town. Try talking to some girls you think are cute down there. The only thing is you have to be able to change your game depending on who your talking to. You cant you the same lines on nice girls that you can on the gangster hoes.

Take a bus to the mall or something outside of your town. Try talking to some girls you think are cute down there. The only thing is you have to be able to change your game depending on who your talking to. You cant you the same lines on nice girls that you can on the gangster hoes.
I know how to talk to good girls and ****. The thing is that a girl will cheat on you if you don't live in the immediate area. Believe me, you don't know what goes on when the man ain't around. Guys are dogs. I remember every girl in the group home I was in when I was 15 had a man, and I fooled around with most of them. I work at the biggest mall in the area, so I see alot of girls, but most of them are thug *****es.

In my neighborhood, girls want gangstas. I could go up to a girl and tell her how beautiful she is, how much of a nice person she is, and tell her I want to make her life so great, and she would say thank you and move on. If I give her an attitude instead, show up wearing RocaWear and Fubu, kick her fathers ass, she would swoon. I recall when I was 15 I was going out with this girl Katherine. I was drinking alot and arguing with her constantly. She sat me down and told me that I should get some help. I was initially reluctant, telling her to chill, but I enrolled in a drug and alcohol outpatient rehab place called Giant Steps in Hoboken. I started getting clean, went back to school, and stopped doing all the crazy **** I was doing. I started trying to make up for all the **** I put her through by writing her poems, buying her flowers, telling her how much I loved her. But apparently, when I'm not drinking and breaking into cars, I'm a total ***** when it comes to girls. She started disliking me cuz I wasn't doing all that gangsta ****. She stopped respecting me, and eventually broke up with me. By and large, girls abhor prosperity. When I am doing all the crazy **** I do, I can get girls easy. When I'm sober and really want to treat a girl right, I'm seen as a total *****. It's a double edged sword. Girls do not know what they want. Can I get an amen?

I wont even take the time to read all you expert's opinions and theories on girls....ya'll will figure us out about the same time we figure you out! :p
But, a little advice from, thats right, a REAL LIVE girl?? ;)
It's not you, or anyting you are or are not doing. It's the girls. Young girls like the dangerous, dont take home to daddy types (I sure did) but grown WOMEN prefer the good ones (the one's you consider *******). They like the manly-man, oh definately, but being a nice, considerate person is a turn on to the right age bracket. Wasting that kind of energy on the younger population is a waste of time. You'll notice the difference when you get older and start to like the older gals....I promise! :)

I wont even take the time to read all you expert's opinions and theories on girls....ya'll will figure us out about the same time we figure you out! :p
But, a little advice from, thats right, a REAL LIVE girl?? ;)
It's not you, or anyting you are or are not doing. It's the girls. Young girls like the dangerous, dont take home to daddy types (I sure did) but grown WOMEN prefer the good ones (the one's you consider *******). They like the manly-man, oh definately, but being a nice, considerate person is a turn on to the right age bracket. Wasting that kind of energy on the younger population is a waste of time. You'll notice the difference when you get older and start to like the older gals....I promise! :)
I like older girls, they just think I'm too young. Girls my age want 25 year old ex-cons, when the ones their age would be madly in love with them. The thing is, because I look so young, I can't really cash in on the "older guy" advantage. What figuring out guys? Guys are exactly as they appear, girls have hormones that make them do stupid ****. I'd be sitting there watching tv and my girl would be like "Are you mad at me?" What makes you think I'm mad at you?! When my ex Katherine told me that her ex-man was calling her up saying crazy ****, I confronted him right in front of her. I said "are you harrassing her?" He said "No I would never do something like that." I asked her and she said "No". If she would've said yes, I waould've beaten the living **** out of him right there. So I caught him going home from school and beat the **** out of him and she was happy. Why couldn't she have saved some time and just tell me yeah?

There's a key to every girls heart. All you gotta do is find it. Of course you gotta be interessting in the first place but if you don't look like **** and act a lil intelligent there are other ways besides the gangsta thing to attract girls. One day you'll find your Ms. Right, take the chance and live a good life. Until then you better have your fun. ;)

uhh stupid guys says that your problem is you live in jersey city... what do you expect

There's a key to every girls heart. All you gotta do is find it. Of course you gotta be interessting in the first place but if you don't look like **** and act a lil intelligent there are other ways besides the gangsta thing to attract girls. One day you'll find your Ms. Right, take the chance and live a good life. Until then you better have your fun. ;)
Yeah, it makes alot of sense. I can't have fun unless I do all that crazy **** I usually do. Right now, I'm behaving myself, which means I can't mack like I used to.

uhh stupid guys says that your problem is you live in jersey city... what do you expect
Huh? Whats that mean?

I like older girls, they just think I'm too young. Girls my age want 25 year old ex-cons, when the ones their age would be madly in love with them. The thing is, because I look so young, I can't really cash in on the "older guy" advantage. What figuring out guys? Guys are exactly as they appear, girls have hormones that make them do stupid ****. I'd be sitting there watching tv and my girl would be like "Are you mad at me?" What makes you think I'm mad at you?! When my ex Katherine told me that her ex-man was calling her up saying crazy ****, I confronted him right in front of her. I said "are you harrassing her?" He said "No I would never do something like that." I asked her and she said "No". If she would've said yes, I waould've beaten the living **** out of him right there. So I caught him going home from school and beat the **** out of him and she was happy. Why couldn't she have saved some time and just tell me yeah?

Guy's are not exactly as they appear! You're trying to sell that line of bs to a 35 yr. old woman who's heard it all honey. :D dont even try that with me...it may work elsewhere, but not with me. Like I said, youre not the problem, that girl in particular is a problem though. I've never respected any girl that will pit two guy's against each other to boost her ego. That's just wrong, and I'm teaching my daughter that very fact....never play 2 guy's against each other til they fight over you! :rolleyes:

Guy's are not exactly as they appear! You're trying to sell that line of bs to a 35 yr. old woman who's heard it all honey. :D dont even try that with me...it may work elsewhere, but not with me. Like I said, youre not the problem, that girl in particular is a problem though. I've never respected any girl that will pit two guy's against each other to boost her ego. That's just wrong, and I'm teaching my daughter that very fact....never play 2 guy's against each other til they fight over you! :rolleyes:
Alright, if I say I want a sandwich, that pretty much means I'm hungry. If I tell a girl I love her, that means I love her, unless I'm trying to make her stay with me. But with girls, I find that if they have big egos, they cheat. I tried to make all the girls I went out with feel better about themselves, and then some went and upgraded I guess. It's a lose-lose situation. But how are guys not exactly as they appear. When I see a girl get played, I'm thinking "Is she really that stupid?". It's sometimes like that. The thing is, If I'm nice to a girl, she'll leave me or lose respect for me. If I'm an *******, then she wants to stay with me. I find thats how it works. All the girls I went out with that I didn't really like were madly in love with me. The ones I genuinely loved and took real good care of thought I was the biggest ***** in the world and left me.

I think girls like respect that a tough guy gets, Just because you dont jack cars and **** doesnt mean you should lose respect, The ***** sounds worthless anyway!!

My girl likes the fact i'm strong and can beat on other guys pretty easy but thats it, she doesnt want me doing it for no reason!! She just likes to know i could if we ever get in trouble!

You gotta think about like this, is a girl worth going to jail for? is she worth getting shot for? NO!! just **** a pro, :)

Alright, if I say I want a sandwich, that pretty much means I'm hungry. If I tell a girl I love her, that means I love her, unless I'm trying to make her stay with me. But with girls, I find that if they have big egos, they cheat. I tried to make all the girls I went out with feel better about themselves, and then some went and upgraded I guess. It's a lose-lose situation. But how are guys not exactly as they appear. When I see a girl get played, I'm thinking "Is she really that stupid?". It's sometimes like that. The thing is, If I'm nice to a girl, she'll leave me or lose respect for me. If I'm an *******, then she wants to stay with me. I find thats how it works. All the girls I went out with that I didn't really like were madly in love with me. The ones I genuinely loved and took real good care of thought I was the biggest ***** in the world and left me.

Both girls and boys cheat and lie, til they find someone that they care enough about that they dont want to do those things....Guy's arent any better than girls, they do that **** too!
Like I said, the problem is your age bracket, and the location from what youve said so far. If there are no nice girls in your neighborhood, then you wont find one there, right? Spread out into different areas, and hopefully you'll find on that wont care about your location too much ;)

I think girls like respect that a tough guy gets, Just because you dont jack cars and **** doesnt mean you should lose respect, The ***** sounds worthless anyway!!

My girl likes the fact i'm strong and can beat on other guys pretty easy but thats it, she doesnt want me doing it for no reason!! She just likes to know i could if we ever get in trouble!

You gotta think about like this, is a girl worth going to jail for? is she worth getting shot for? NO!! just **** a pro, :)
My friends wanted to get me a prostitute, but thats the thing. I don't believe in condoms. So no dice for Sensation. Girls like that gangsta ****. They just don't want Ryan getting caught. When I started beef with them 60th Street cats, I started getting mad girls. Now, that I'm all peaceful and smoking instead of drinking, they're all like "He's a *****." When I was 13 a girl told me that she wouldn't go out with me because I was too nice. Too Nice? *****, I will kill you! :mad: Thats the problem I have. Because I'm 17 but look 15, I have to keep doing gangsta **** to maintain my respect.

i think we are animals. look at documentarys , there is always an alpha male who rules the pack. he is alpha because he is above the other males , not because the females find him more attractive.

so at a young age , gangstas are on top of the food chain , so they are kind of alpha. when you grow old , money and social situation put you above the rest of the pack , so girls wants rich guys.

it s all about instincts , they are looking for a male who can take protect her and the childrens from other males and any other dangers. being funny or handsome is a plus , not a fundamental.

sad but true .

i think we are animals. look at documentarys , there is always an alpha male who rules the pack. he is alpha because he is above the other males , not because the females find him more attractive.

so at a young age , gangstas are on top of the food chain , so they are kind of alpha. when you grow old , money and social situation put you above the rest of the pack , so girls wants rich guys.

it s all about instincts , they are looking for a male who can take protect her and the childrens from other males and any other dangers. being funny or handsome is a plus , not a fundamental.

sad but true .

Not necessairly! I cant speak for the entire female population, but money and cars, etc... mean nothing to me! Actually, being rich would be a down fall with me, no kidding! Rich guy's usually have big ego's and that is my #1 turn off!

Man, would you please stop crying. You keep telling yourself that you have to be a gangster to attract women. That's just bull****. Most women like strong men but that doesn't mean that you have break in cars. Be cool, try to figure out what a girl you have an eye on likes and play all your charme. Be selfconfident and intelligent. That's it.

My friends wanted to get me a prostitute, but thats the thing. I don't believe in condoms. So no dice for Sensation. Girls like that gangsta ****. They just don't want Ryan getting caught. When I started beef with them 60th Street cats, I started getting mad girls. Now, that I'm all peaceful and smoking instead of drinking, they're all like "He's a *****." When I was 13 a girl told me that she wouldn't go out with me because I was too nice. Too Nice? *****, I will kill you! :mad: Thats the problem I have. Because I'm 17 but look 15, I have to keep doing gangsta **** to maintain my respect.

If your 17 its hard, I'm in my mid twentys and dont feel the need to prove anything anymore.

I got in a lot of trouble a few of years ago, i was in and out of court and beat on a lot of the area's tough guys, i did some terrible things to people and some of my friends were scared of me for it, i was lucky enough to avoid prison and moved out of the area, now there isnt many people who know the old me and i'm glad i dont get that sort of respect anymore!! Try to be smart and keep out of to much trouble, especially with all the gun violence now.

i think we are animals. look at documentarys , there is always an alpha male who rules the pack. he is alpha because he is above the other males , not because the females find him more attractive.

so at a young age , gangstas are on top of the food chain , so they are kind of alpha. when you grow old , money and social situation put you above the rest of the pack , so girls wants rich guys.

it s all about instincts , they are looking for a male who can take protect her and the childrens from other males and any other dangers. being funny or handsome is a plus , not a fundamental.

sad but true .

Its strange how things are the same all over the world!

My friends wanted to get me a prostitute, but thats the thing. I don't believe in condoms. So no dice for Sensation. Girls like that gangsta ****. .

C'mon Asian you can't be this stupid. Not only prostitues can infect you with sth. Do you really want to put your future on the line anytime you have a one night stand or get busy with a girl you don't know for a long time?

And do you really want to take the risk to become a father this young? With a mother you just slept with because you had too many drinks? Think about it pal. And I can assure you that condoms don't affect your fun to the point were they wouldn't be worth it.

By the way, prostitues are for losers anyway. Every man with decent body, face and brain can get a girl for a night.

Every man with decent body, face and brain can get a girl for a night.

Or if you go out on a friday or Saturday night ANY man can get a girl for a night, beer is an ugly mans best friend!!!

Or if you go out on a friday or Saturday night ANY man can get a girl for a night, beer is an ugly mans best friend!!!

Lol, right. I didn't want to tell him to get a girl that is about to vomit anytime soon though. ;)

I think you just have bad luck man, I've always been the Gentleman, good values, romantic type when it comes to girls. I've always been respected by my peers most who were the gangster/dealer type. And i've never had a problem with a girl cus i didnt beat her or disrespect her. On the contrary i had a bunch of girls chasing me because of those good qualities.

Maybe you went over-board on the softness, and thus she didnt feel secure and protected anymore. I find my personality works great, because while im romantic, nice, charming (modest arent I) etc etc I still take no **** from anyone. Dignity is the only thing in life that cant be taken away from you and thus i guard that with my life and i think it brings a sense of security to a woman.

asian , if you cant be gangsta , be rich.

or you may wanna try this :

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In my neighborhood, girls want gangstas. I could go up to a girl and tell her how beautiful she is, how much of a nice person she is, and tell her I want to make her life so great, and she would say thank you and move on. If I give her an attitude instead, show up wearing RocaWear and Fubu, kick her fathers ass, she would swoon. I recall when I was 15 I was going out with this girl Katherine. I was drinking alot and arguing with her constantly. She sat me down and told me that I should get some help. I was initially reluctant, telling her to chill, but I enrolled in a drug and alcohol outpatient rehab place called Giant Steps in Hoboken. I started getting clean, went back to school, and stopped doing all the crazy **** I was doing. I started trying to make up for all the **** I put her through by writing her poems, buying her flowers, telling her how much I loved her. But apparently, when I'm not drinking and breaking into cars, I'm a total ***** when it comes to girls. She started disliking me cuz I wasn't doing all that gangsta ****. She stopped respecting me, and eventually broke up with me. By and large, girls abhor prosperity. When I am doing all the crazy **** I do, I can get girls easy. When I'm sober and really want to treat a girl right, I'm seen as a total *****. It's a double edged sword. Girls do not know what they want. Can I get an amen?

AMEN! They don't know what they want. And no matter if you think a girl is different you're wrong, they are all the same when it comes to making decisions. It's almost like it's part of their DNA structure or what not. Girls love challenge and from my experience, they just yearn to suffer. Nice guys DO finish last so you you gotta know how to handle them. Beeing too sweet and too caring no girl can handle that. I'll neevr understand them but hye, if they want to be treated like ****, fine by me....

AMEN! They don't know what they want. And no matter if you think a girl is different you're wrong, they are all the same when it comes to making decisions. It's almost like it's part of their DNA structure or what not. Girls love challenge and from my experience, they just yearn to suffer. Nice guys DO finish last so you you gotta know how to handle them. Beeing too sweet and too caring no girl can handle that. I'll neevr understand them but hye, if they want to be treated like ****, fine by me....

Thats bull....everyone is different. That's like saying I'm the same as any other girl and that is definately not true. Decision making is something that I'm pretty good at, when you have a child being silly in that regard isnt an option. We all have similarities in alot of different areas, but no 2 people are exactly the same ;)

I feel like I'm in the wrong place at the wrong time. The chicks who live where I live (South Florida) are the same way. They want the bad boys just so they could have a drama filled relationship to talk to their home girls about. I find myself constantly being judged by what the next guy would do, and I'm not anything like any other guy around here..I also find myself having a big problem with trusting any fenale (on a relationship basis) , not from having my trust betrayed in a previous relationship, but the fact of the matter is, I know the mindset of most of these females. I'm very nonchalant towards them...I need to get a way from around here. I use to think these girls were the kind of girls I wanted until I started getting with them...From now on I'm only going to talk to the girls who meet my expectations (not just physically..)

Thats bull....everyone is different. That's like saying I'm the same as any other girl and that is definately not true. Decision making is something that I'm pretty good at, when you have a child being silly in that regard isnt an option. We all have similarities in alot of different areas, but no 2 people are exactly the same ;)

lol I'm just speaking from experience tracy. I went out with these 2 girls who are sooooo different in personality but *sigh* in the end, they both could not for the life of them figure out what they want. Never happy which is sad because I got so pissed off I had to break it with one of them. The other one just didn't
know what she wanted, always changing her mind and I got sick of it too.

It's pretty unfair to label girls like that but I see it everywhere. I talk to a lot of girls and I'm ususally their "go to" friend whenever they need to talk. And everytime it's the same old story how unhappy they were with their respective boyfriends and they come crying on my shoulder and stuff. I find it stupid because EACH one of them has at least 2-3 decent guys who would treat them right running after them but they want nothing to do with them. So to this day the tears keep flowing and I just don't get it.

I partially blame it on the age maybe since these girls are mostly teenagers 17-20 year olds. I'm 20 so HOPEFULLY I would meet women who are more mature and would be assertive in knowing what they want. Because if they stay confused even when they are older and still don't know what they want, my way of thinking will never change.

lol I'm just speaking from experience tracy. I went out with these 2 girls who are sooooo different in personality but *sigh* in the end, they both could not for the life of them figure out what they want. Never happy which is sad because I got so pissed off I had to break it with one of them. The other one just didn't
know what she wanted, always changing her mind and I got sick of it too.

It's pretty unfair to label girls like that but I see it everywhere. I talk to a lot of girls and I'm ususally their "go to" friend whenever they need to talk. And everytime it's the same old story how unhappy they were with their respective boyfriends and they come crying on my shoulder and stuff. I find it stupid because EACH one of them has at least 2-3 decent guys who would treat them right running after them but they want nothing to do with them. So to this day the tears keep flowing and I just don't get it.

I partially blame it on the age maybe since these girls are mostly teenagers 17-20 year olds. I'm 20 so HOPEFULLY I would meet women who are more mature and would be assertive in knowing what they want. Because if they stay confused even when they are older and still don't know what they want, my way of thinking will never change.

Hey, I hear ya....17-20 yrs is a weird, dangerous time :D Have faith, when they're older MOST of them will remove their head from their asses, I promise! ;) MOST, but not all!! :D

just be nice to the women and you'll be ok.

think with the big head, not the little one

In my neighborhood, girls want gangstas. I could go up to a girl and tell her how beautiful she is, how much of a nice person she is, and tell her I want to make her life so great, and she would say thank you and move on. If I give her an attitude instead, show up wearing RocaWear and Fubu, kick her fathers ass, she would swoon. I recall when I was 15 I was going out with this girl Katherine. I was drinking alot and arguing with her constantly. She sat me down and told me that I should get some help. I was initially reluctant, telling her to chill, but I enrolled in a drug and alcohol outpatient rehab place called Giant Steps in Hoboken. I started getting clean, went back to school, and stopped doing all the crazy **** I was doing. I started trying to make up for all the **** I put her through by writing her poems, buying her flowers, telling her how much I loved her. But apparently, when I'm not drinking and breaking into cars, I'm a total ***** when it comes to girls. She started disliking me cuz I wasn't doing all that gangsta ****. She stopped respecting me, and eventually broke up with me. By and large, girls abhor prosperity. When I am doing all the crazy **** I do, I can get girls easy. When I'm sober and really want to treat a girl right, I'm seen as a total *****. It's a double edged sword. Girls do not know what they want. Can I get an amen?
i'm personally not feeling the 'gansta' thing... :confused:

Chris Byrd is no gangsta, damn good boxer though!

Or if you go out on a friday or Saturday night ANY man can get a girl for a night, beer is an ugly mans best friend!!!


damn straight! i can vouch for this one, i'm an ugly man, and proud of it, and i've had nothing but fine women

just be nice to the women and you'll be ok.

think with the big head, not the little one

Excellent advice! ;)

C'mon Asian you can't be this stupid. Not only prostitues can infect you with sth. Do you really want to put your future on the line anytime you have a one night stand or get busy with a girl you don't know for a long time?

And do you really want to take the risk to become a father this young? With a mother you just slept with because you had too many drinks? Think about it pal. And I can assure you that condoms don't affect your fun to the point were they wouldn't be worth it.

By the way, prostitues are for losers anyway. Every man with decent body, face and brain can get a girl for a night.
With condoms, I don't feel anything. Then I go harder and I bust too quick.

asian , if you cant be gangsta , be rich.
I can be a gangsta, I'm just trying not to because I need to go to college and ****. I'm as poor as anyone could be.

" i used get feels on the *****, now i wear shields on the dick cause of the HIV **** " Notorious B.I.G.

i'm personally not feeling the 'gansta' thing... :confused:
Yeah, but you don't live in Duncan Projects. Too bad, I'd still not go out with a Byrd lover, my rooting for Vitali would be problematic. I'm supposed to be training at work now.

I think you just have bad luck man, I've always been the Gentleman, good values, romantic type when it comes to girls. I've always been respected by my peers most who were the gangster/dealer type. And i've never had a problem with a girl cus i didnt beat her or disrespect her. On the contrary i had a bunch of girls chasing me because of those good qualities.

Maybe you went over-board on the softness, and thus she didnt feel secure and protected anymore. I find my personality works great, because while im romantic, nice, charming (modest arent I) etc etc I still take no **** from anyone. Dignity is the only thing in life that cant be taken away from you and thus i guard that with my life and i think it brings a sense of security to a woman.
Thats my problem. By nature, I'm the nicest guy you could ever meet. It's only when I'm drinking all the time I get respect. When I'm sober, I do everything for girls. Thats when I lose respect.

Thats my problem. By nature, I'm the nicest guy you could ever meet. It's only when I'm drinking all the time I get respect. When I'm sober, I do everything for girls. Thats when I lose respect.


young girls don't like nice guys, they like *******s with confidence... all you have to do is be a little bit of an *******, jjust enough to be unpredictable... don't go overboard and into the motha****in' gangsta ****

young girls don't like nice guys, they like *******s with confidence... all you have to do is be a little bit of an *******, jjust enough to be unpredictable... don't go overboard and into the motha****in' gangsta ****
No more cutting 60th St. Dominicans? Damn! You really hit the nail on the button. I'm usually not into getting into trouble, but girls don't respect me when I'm myself.

you gotta be yourself Ryan / half asian_sensation, just not so much of yourself!

you gotta be yourself Ryan / half asian_sensation, just not so much of yourself!
I know, but to get attention with the girls if you aren't in high school is doing crazy ****.

nah, you just need the weed, girls love weed as much as they love *******s... if u're an ******* with weed, u got it made

nah, you just need the weed, girls love weed as much as they love *******s... if u're an ******* with weed, u got it made
Thats the thing, I got lots of weed, I just can't be an *******. I'm too articulate and nice. I enunciate. I'm ****ed!

try talking like tedy atlas... man, i feel like i'm corrupting a minor here

try talking like tedy atlas... man, i feel like i'm corrupting a minor here
Mush mouthed and confrontational? I really can't be an ******* for some reason.

if u can't be an *******, wait til u go to college, then it just becomes about how good you look and how hard you party for a while, then when you leave college it's just about money / status

if u can't be an *******, wait til u go to college, then it just becomes about how good you look and how hard you party for a while, then when you leave college it's just about money / status
I'm going to Community College to take Computer Science, though.

if u become a programmer, u'll get all the ***** u want, they make the big bucks, i know one who's time was billed out at over $90 per hour, and that was a few years ago!

if u can't be an *******, wait til u go to college, then it just becomes about how good you look and how hard you party for a while, then when you leave college it's just about money / status

from what I've seen college girls are exactly like high school girls, just easier lol

from what I've seen college girls are exactly like high school girls, just easier lol

the ones i remember are a lot easier!

I wont even take the time to read all you expert's opinions and theories on girls....ya'll will figure us out about the same time we figure you out! :p
But, a little advice from, thats right, a REAL LIVE girl?? ;)
It's not you, or anyting you are or are not doing. It's the girls. Young girls like the dangerous, dont take home to daddy types (I sure did) but grown WOMEN prefer the good ones (the one's you consider *******). They like the manly-man, oh definately, but being a nice, considerate person is a turn on to the right age bracket. Wasting that kind of energy on the younger population is a waste of time. You'll notice the difference when you get older and start to like the older gals....I promise! :)
that's cuz when girls get older, they can no longer get the gangsta type guys and the older girls wanna settle down cuz they all wrinkly and stuff

uhh stupid guys says that your problem is you live in jersey city... what do you expect

I can't believe I'm saying this but techn9ne has a point. :p

Thats my problem. By nature, I'm the nicest guy you could ever meet. It's only when I'm drinking all the time I get respect. When I'm sober, I do everything for girls. Thats when I lose respect.

Hmm sounds like you might need to stand your ground more often. Some girls will pull a fast one on you right at the beginnig when ur trying to get at them and ask you something that would require you to stand down to a certain point.. dont do that. Stand your ground, they'll come to their senses and appreciate that ur the kind that doesn't like to back down, and that ur speaking ur mind and beliefs not just saying whats gonna give u a better chance at getting at them.

That will help u establish urself as a dominant (which is what most people are confusing between a bad boy and a dominant male) yet romantic male.

Thats my problem. By nature, I'm the nicest guy you could ever meet. It's only when I'm drinking all the time I get respect. When I'm sober, I do everything for girls. Thats when I lose respect.

I had the same problem, till a chick screwed me up then I started not giving a ****. And THEN the chicks started rolling in. Then I became nice again and got screwed again lol. So now I'm back to not giving a **** and I'll be staying here a while. It's funny how the chick I was the meanest against is the one that's most attached to me until now.

There are no "nice girls" in my neighborhood. I live in Duncan Projects in Jersey City. It's increasingly harder now that I'm not in High School anymore. Catholic school girls hate Ryan. Plus, the people I hang with don't exactly know good girls.

I see your signature is of a rap song. Here's some advice from a rap song by Chuck D of Public Enemy: "If I can't change the people around me, I change the people around me."

Hmm sounds like you might need to stand your ground more often. Some girls will pull a fast one on you right at the beginnig when ur trying to get at them and ask you something that would require you to stand down to a certain point.. dont do that. Stand your ground, they'll come to their senses and appreciate that ur the kind that doesn't like to back down, and that ur speaking ur mind and beliefs not just saying whats gonna give u a better chance at getting at them.

That will help u establish urself as a dominant (which is what most people are confusing between a bad boy and a dominant male) yet romantic male.

ultimate , youre so damn right. you could have been an heartbreaker if that wasnt for that bad karma.

girls doesnt sleep with red karma guys.

that's cuz when girls get older, they can no longer get the gangsta type guys and the older girls wanna settle down cuz they all wrinkly and stuff

More 'wisdom' :rolleyes: Glad that's not true, and that you dont have a clue what youre talking about. Older women have it all over the younger 'girls'....you just dont know it! ;)

More 'wisdom' :rolleyes: Glad that's not true, and that you dont have a clue what youre talking about. Older women have it all over the younger 'girls'....you just dont know it! ;) Yeah, that's why we like to keep 'em young and dumb(lol)!

More 'wisdom' :rolleyes: Glad that's not true, and that you dont have a clue what youre talking about. Older women have it all over the younger 'girls'....you just dont know it! ;)

She's right.

Really the only "problem with girls" is that they can close their legs. :p

Yeah, but you don't live in Duncan Projects. Too bad, I'd still not go out with a Byrd lover, my rooting for Vitali would be problematic. I'm supposed to be training at work now.
ah well...i wouldn't want to go out with a jersey boy anyways ;p

ultimate , youre so damn right. you could have been an heartbreaker if that wasnt for that bad karma.

girls doesnt sleep with red karma guys.

woohoo i got blue karma now.

I'm not into the whole "gangster" thing. If someone I was going out with now was an ******* all the time, broke into cars, and things like that I would beat the **** out of him myself, right on the spot.

Listen to Tracy Ry, she knows what she's talking about.

I'm not into the whole "gangster" thing. If someone I was going out with now was an ******* all the time, broke into cars, and things like that I would beat the **** out of him myself, right on the spot.

Listen to Tracy Ry, she knows what she's talking about.

why thank ya girlie!! I hate to say I've been around long enough to have learned a thing or two....oh God, I'm ancient!! :(

Nah, not ancient, just medieval. Hahah j/k

Nah, not ancient, just medieval. Hahah j/k

oh HELL, that's worse!!! :eek: bite my medieval ass :p :D

haha, you left the door wide open mom, I had to say something.

haha, you left the door wide open mom, I had to say something.

yep, you got me there!! :o Actually, that would have been the right time to say "no,no, no Tracy....youre still young and have your whole life ahead of you...you beautiful creature you, blah, blah, blah...God, I'm making myself sick!!! :D

Older women are great. They dont play nearly the amount of head games younger girls do.

Hey I don't play head games.

Aww Tracy you know that, you don't need us to tell you. You sexy young thing you!

Well in my experience, girls fall for attention, romance and kindnes.

And yes im talking about the young ones.

Not so much is needed either, a couple of weeks ago i was at a party, with my girl, i bought her e a rose one the way and gave it too here on the party, i have seldom seen such happy eyes.

And she is 16, so that young girls just like *******s is bs, here ex was an assole and thats why he is here ex, i wouldent have a relationship with any girl who like beeing treated bad, its not my thing, being an *******.

Yes girls like boys that are something, that are respectet, that are tall, strong and handsome.

But what kind of girls like gangsters, you should move.

Older women are great. They dont play nearly the amount of head games younger girls do.


That's true MOST of the time, but u can still get burned

I feel like I'm in the wrong place at the wrong time. The chicks who live where I live (South Florida) are the same way. They want the bad boys just so they could have a drama filled relationship to talk to their home girls about. I find myself constantly being judged by what the next guy would do, and I'm not anything like any other guy around here..I also find myself having a big problem with trusting any fenale (on a relationship basis) , not from having my trust betrayed in a previous relationship, but the fact of the matter is, I know the mindset of most of these females. I'm very nonchalant towards them...I need to get a way from around here. I use to think these girls were the kind of girls I wanted until I started getting with them...From now on I'm only going to talk to the girls who meet my expectations (not just physically..)
I have a very similar problem. I grew up in suburban Hoboken, and moved to Sugarland, TX for a few years. I had never really lived in an urban area until I was 13, when I moved back with my mom in Jersey City. I had no idea what the hell I was in for when I started dealing with these girls.

Well in my experience, girls fall for attention, romance and kindnes.

And yes im talking about the young ones.

Not so much is needed either, a couple of weeks ago i was at a party, with my girl, i bought her e a rose one the way and gave it too here on the party, i have seldom seen such happy eyes.

And she is 16, so that young girls just like *******s is bs, here ex was an assole and thats why he is here ex, i wouldent have a relationship with any girl who like beeing treated bad, its not my thing, being an *******.

Yes girls like boys that are something, that are respectet, that are tall, strong and handsome.

But what kind of girls like gangsters, you should move.
In my neighborhood, if you ain't a thug, girls keep walking when you try to talk to them. Since I'm the only person in my neighborhood who graduated high school, it's tough to be seen as bad when you're 5'5 and everyone in you're neighborhood is 6'3. People got short memories and ****.

I had the same problem, till a chick screwed me up then I started not giving a ****. And THEN the chicks started rolling in. Then I became nice again and got screwed again lol. So now I'm back to not giving a **** and I'll be staying here a while. It's funny how the chick I was the meanest against is the one that's most attached to me until now.
Thats exactly what I'm saying. My point at the end of the day, is that girls abhor, have this heartfelt disdain, for prosperity. It turns out that when I'm always drinking and acting like an idiot, my luck seems to be alot better.

Older women are great. They dont play nearly the amount of head games younger girls do.


right right right , jose is right

no disrepsect guys this will change when you get to your mid / late twenties then the chicks want a dude that can have the dark past/side but still be prosperous and successful..


take my word on it. ;) :cool:

no disrepsect guys this will change when you get to your mid / late twenties then the chicks want a dude that can have the dark past/side but still be prosperous and successful..


take my word on it. ;) :cool:
Thats exactly why I'm racking up my stories as a teen. I'm 17, and already I've sold and transported weed, broken into cars, robbed people, cut people, been a boxer, did time in juvie, broken into houses, etc. It sounds alot worse than it really is.

**** dued some of that is heavy stuff but does happen to folk i guess, if its any comfort Ive been stabbed, threatened with an infected syringe, spent two nights ina police cell on two different occasions, put my brother in hospital cos he kept getitng drunk and giving me a dig, he doesnt anymore, and been in more fights than i care to mention and lost only one (when i got stabbed).

THERES MORE BUT IM NOT PREPARED TO GO TO PRINT! :eek:

I keep myself out of trouble these days though, im 32 now time to just reign it in.

**** happens huh. Just be careful mate.

**** dued some of that is heavy stuff but does happen to folk i guess, if its any comfort Ive been stabbed, threatened with an infected syringe, spent two nights ina police cell on two different occasions, put my brother in hospital cos he kept getitng drunk and giving me a dig, he doesnt anymore, and been in more fights than i care to mention and lost only one (when i got stabbed).

THERES MORE BUT IM NOT PREPARED TO GO TO PRINT! :eek:

I keep myself out of trouble these days though, im 32 now time to just reign it in.

**** happens huh. Just be careful mate.

That's a trip!! I've been to juvie, and to jail, but somehow i JUST missed the infected syringe!! :D

**** dued some of that is heavy stuff but does happen to folk i guess, if its any comfort Ive been stabbed, threatened with an infected syringe, spent two nights ina police cell on two different occasions, put my brother in hospital cos he kept getitng drunk and giving me a dig, he doesnt anymore, and been in more fights than i care to mention and lost only one (when i got stabbed).

THERES MORE BUT IM NOT PREPARED TO GO TO PRINT! :eek:

I keep myself out of trouble these days though, im 32 now time to just reign it in.

**** happens huh. Just be careful mate.
Its all **** I did when I was 15 and ****. My mom put me in a group home for bad kids and ****. It was amazing though! A bunch of girls there! My mom put me in Bergen Pines hospital for cutting myself and ****. I was in a drug and alcohol rehabilitation place when I was 14. I was a bad ass kid. But all the crimes I commited above were tainted in the sense that I didn't really do them for a reason. It was trouble I got into because the kids around me were doing it. To be honest, I never considered myself a criminal. My mom used to be like "What the **** is your problem?". My problem was that she kept sending me away to family members who were never home and had to stay with my drug addicted cousins and ****. I ain't never did nothing I didn't have to.

I've cleaned up my act alot thanks to religion. It gives me a form of hope that has always kind of eluded me.

But the 60th Street beef was something I got into because my boy Flip told me that he would hook me up if I jumped this kid Pablo.

got it locked down like that huh?:)

Ry, you are such a nice guy! Seriously you're a sweetheart, you will find a girl that's worth it sometime. Those girls there are morons.

Ry, you are such a nice guy! Seriously you're a sweetheart, you will find a girl that's worth it sometime. Those girls there are morons.

they sure do have him all twisted up from the sounds of it :confused:

I feel so bad for him, seriously. Dude he is such a nice kid! I hate girls like that.

That's a trip!! I've been to juvie, and to jail, but somehow i JUST missed the infected syringe!! :D


you did time???? holy ****!!! i never would have guessed that, i've got really close a few times but never had the bad luck to go inside, so far.

I feel so bad for him, seriously. Dude he is such a nice kid! I hate girls like that.

Yeah, it sounds like he's been trying to please the "unpleasable" types...and I cant stand them either!!

you did time???? holy ****!!! i never would have guessed that, i've got really close a few times but never had the bad luck to go inside, so far.

I got busted for possession once, but I never went to prison. The cop that busted me did an illegal 'search and seizure' so basically I walked with a yr's probation ;)

Tracy, you look like such a sweet angel, i never would have guessed

Tracy, you look like such a sweet angel, i never would have guessed

Well thank you, but I was a pretty wild teen ;)

Well thank you, but I was a pretty wild teen ;)


maybe i should call you wildchild :)

maybe i should call you wildchild :)

I think so too, sounds appropriate lol. We all know the truth now mom!

maybe i should call you wildchild :)

You can, I've been called much worse :D
Nikki is the wild child now...I'm just a mom and cant do stuff like that anymore ;)

I think so too, sounds appropriate lol. We all know the truth now mom!

Oh I was hell on wheels, thats for sure! By the time I was of legal age to drink I no longer wanted to :confused:

You can, I've been called much worse :D
Nikki is the wild child now...I'm just a mom and cant do stuff like that anymore ;)


Tracy, i just thought of the perfect name for you, i'm going to call you Yummymommy!

Tracy, i just thought of the perfect name for you, i'm going to call you Yummymommy!

Okay, if you want to. :o

It's not as fun when it's legal. Its so much more fun to do it when you're not allowed lol.

I think you should move Ry. Those girls are horrible.

In my neighborhood, if you ain't a thug, girls keep walking when you try to talk to them. Since I'm the only person in my neighborhood who graduated high school, it's tough to be seen as bad when you're 5'5 and everyone in you're neighborhood is 6'3. People got short memories and ****.

Okay beeing the same size as my mom makes harder, but seriously you need to move, living with criminal friends and bithces who wants to be treated as *****es.

That your 17 and been to jail dont say it all, move man, move.

That's a trip!! I've been to juvie, and to jail, but somehow i JUST missed the infected syringe!! :D

was in newcastle an attempted mugging sick huh, they smacked me down a flight of steps and grabbed my arm and placed a sryinge up against it, saying ive got hiv give me your money, scary ****, !!! I couldnt get at wallet without standing up and in that moment the needle was away from my arm. Cue go ape**** and get away. they got my fone that was it.
I was pumped after that one i can tell ya, adrenaline pumping round like no tomorrow. I also compacted my knuckle so bad it took ten days to go down, i basically have a flat knuckle on my third finger of my left hand, (im a southpaw :D ), not sure how long it took for the geezers face to go down but i hope it was permanent.
:mad:

was in newcastle an attempted mugging sick huh, they smacked me down a flight of steps and grabbed my arm and placed a sryinge up against it, saying ive got hiv give me your money, scary ****, !!! I couldnt get at wallet without standing up and in that moment the needle was away from my arm. Cue go ape**** and get away. they got my fone that was it.
I was pumped after that one i can tell ya, adrenaline pumping round like no tomorrow. I also compacted my knuckle so bad it took ten days to go down, i basically have a flat knuckle on my third finger of my left hand, (im a southpaw :D ), not sure how long it took for the geezers face to go down but i hope it was permanent.
:mad:

Dayyyymmmnnnn..that's the kind of **** they put in movies man :eek:

I'd have pissed myself! That would freak me out to no end. I've never been mugged and I don't think I'd care for the experience.

I'd have pissed myself! That would freak me out to no end. I've never been mugged and I don't think I'd care for the experience.

Now THAT wouldnt have been pretty :p (sorry, couldnt resist)..gotta lighten the mood of this thread somehow..its depressing as hell. :(

I'd have pissed myself! That would freak me out to no end. I've never been mugged and I don't think I'd care for the experience.


IT WAS PRETTY BAD NEWS BUT I ESCPAED WITH LESS DAMAGE THAN THEY SO.....ive had worse.

getting my face (chin) spliced was much worse, that was the only kicking ive ever had and i was on a train so couldnt get off or away i had to wait til someone stepped in and then more or less collapsed on the platform, claret everwhere..

this isnt bull**** by the way. Im not some geek trying to make out im a hard man. **** happens on the street everwhere.

all you gotta be, as in this instance is in the wrong place at the wrong time.


thanksfully I got tested and no needle broke the skin, as for the train incident, Ive got a decent scar on my chin but its at an angle you cant really see it unless i tilt my head up,and the missus reckons i look rugged. ;)

win win! :cool:

these days id rather get a cab home or enjoy a bottle of wine at home with friends im done with the street life bull****........

Now THAT wouldnt have been pretty :p (sorry, couldnt resist)..gotta lighten the mood of this thread somehow..its depressing as hell. :(

nah not depressing really, the incident in newcastle stopped me taking unecessary risks man, especially when im alone and not on my patch if you see what i mean. I took a short cut, drunk in a town i didnt know and paid the price.

it was stupid really.

sorry fdont mean to appear like a manic depressive here, this incident really did help me sort my attitude and life out, i was into far too many things for my own good, trust me.

im a good lad now. ;) :)

IT WAS PRETTY BAD NEWS BUT I ESCPAED WITH LESS DAMAGE THAN THEY SO.....ive had worse.

getting my face (chin) spliced was much worse, that was the only kicking ive ever had and i was on a train so couldnt get off or away i had to wait til someone stepped in and then more or less collapsed on the platform, claret everwhere..

this isnt bull**** by the way. Im not some geek trying to make out im a hard man. **** happens on the street everwhere.

all you gotta be, as in this instance is in the wrong place at the wrong time.


thanksfully I got tested and no needle broke the skin, as for the train incident, Ive got a decent scar on my chin but its at an angle you cant really see it unless i tilt my head up,and the missus reckons i look rugged. ;)

win win! :cool:

these days id rather get a cab home or enjoy a bottle of wine at home with friends im done with the street life bull****........

Hey I didnt think for one min. that it was bull**** ...it's just too crazy to make up! Guess in a way you got lucky cause they could have killed you...but that must have been scary, freaky and a whole lot of other things! :eek:

haha mom, I guess I had that one coming lol.

Well I'm glad you weren't hurt!!

haha well yeah gotta take positives form negative things in retrospect i was pretty freaked for a while though, didnt go out alonhe for a while which isnt the manly thing to admit but sod it its true. took me a few months to travel on trains at night on my own after the train incident.

the newccastle thing, was just one of those things you know.

I also tried to get my ass out of this country, nearly got transferred abroad with my job but wasnt to be.


thing is in a weird way i needed somink horrific like that to happen cos i had to change. its all good, everything that has happened to me makes me who i am and I like me, my friends like me, may family and most my workmates do too, ive mad a fair few mates through boxing and attending shows and chatting to folk, somethign i never would have done a few years back, so you take these experiences and use them for the better good. It just sometimes takes time to be able to do so.

here endeth me preaching and being a bit pompous :eek:
thanks for chatitng though hope i havent bored ya too much :D

haha well yeah gotta take positives form negative things in retrospect i was pretty freaked for a while though, didnt go out alonhe for a while which isnt the manly thing to admit but sod it its true. took me a few months to travel on trains at night on my own after the train incident.

the newccastle thing, was just one of those things you know.

I also tried to get my ass out of this country, nearly got transferred abroad with my job but wasnt to be.


thing is in a weird way i needed somink horrific like that to happen cos i had to change. its all good, everything that has happened to me makes me who i am and I like me, my friends like me, may family and most my workmates do too, ive mad a fair few mates through boxing and attending shows and chatting to folk, somethign i never would have done a few years back, so you take these experiences and use them for the better good. It just sometimes takes time to be able to do so.

here endeth me preaching and being a bit pompous :eek:
thanks for chatitng though hope i havent bored ya too much :D

youre not boring me...I'm sure blood child finds it interesting too ;) It great that you were able to make some good come out of it all....coming abroad doesnt necessairly mean you'd be safer though. I hate to admit it cause I'm American, but we got some crazies over here that you just wouldnt believe. :eek:
The finicial hardship of coming over alone is scary!

tracylee, check your inbox

We do have crazy's here, like that guy in Waco a few years back, who thought he was the son of god. The FBI bombed his house or set it on fire or something. David Kiresh or something like that.

NO you're not boring at all! I love reading stuff like that, it makes me more aware of the fact that it can happen to anybody.

cheers guys! yeah i know well aborad was Singapore or Barbados with work (singapore trading - bbdos shipping)
but i didnt get hte job next time maybe, though now im pretty settled, and yeah im a firm believer in trying to turn adverse situations into positive experiences.

after all you cant change the past only the future. ;)

AMEN to that!

I would give you karma too JPW but mine's a bastard.

I would give you karma too JPW but mine's a bastard.

It let me give some to JPW but wont let me give to you again Bloodchild...not yet. But, I'll spread it around and keep trying ;)

IT FREAKS OUT SOMETIMES DUNNO WHAT ALL THATS ABOUT, I DONT MIND ITS JUST A BIT OF FUN AND APPRECIATION YOU CAN SHOW! NO BIGGIE THANKS THO LADIES! :cool: ;)

by the way tracey theres the a link to the latest write up on the british heavyweight clash in global scene under LONG SKELTON if you are interested!!!

my fone was ghoing mad as didnt sit in the press bit wnet and sat with the refs behind the timekeeper and bell was on sky tv all night long :) :)

crafty heh!

IT FREAKS OUT SOMETIMES DUNNO WHAT ALL THATS ABOUT, I DONT MIND ITS JUST A BIT OF FUN AND APPRECIATION YOU CAN SHOW! NO BIGGIE THANKS THO LADIES! :cool: ;)

by the way tracey theres the a link to the latest write up on the british heavyweight clash in global scene under LONG SKELTON if you are interested!!!

my fone was ghoing mad as didnt sit in the press bit wnet and sat with the refs behind the timekeeper and bell was on sky tv all night long :) :)

crafty heh!

very crafty!! thanks for the 'hook up'...I'm definately interested and will check it out soon as I can!

In my neighborhood, girls want gangstas. I could go up to a girl and tell her how beautiful she is, how much of a nice person she is, and tell her I want to make her life so great, and she would say thank you and move on. If I give her an attitude instead, show up wearing RocaWear and Fubu, kick her fathers ass, she would swoon. I recall when I was 15 I was going out with this girl Katherine. I was drinking alot and arguing with her constantly. She sat me down and told me that I should get some help. I was initially reluctant, telling her to chill, but I enrolled in a drug and alcohol outpatient rehab place called Giant Steps in Hoboken. I started getting clean, went back to school, and stopped doing all the crazy **** I was doing. I started trying to make up for all the **** I put her through by writing her poems, buying her flowers, telling her how much I loved her. But apparently, when I'm not drinking and breaking into cars, I'm a total ***** when it comes to girls. She started disliking me cuz I wasn't doing all that gangsta ****. She stopped respecting me, and eventually broke up with me. By and large, girls abhor prosperity. When I am doing all the crazy **** I do, I can get girls easy. When I'm sober and really want to treat a girl right, I'm seen as a total *****. It's a double edged sword. Girls do not know what they want. Can I get an amen?
hmmmmmm you were in rehab and I'm the **** up? Hmmmmm

hmmmmmm you were in rehab and I'm the **** up? Hmmmmm
For weed, not crack and ecstacy :D