Here is a purely hypothetical question. Please give me your input.

We have Person A and Person B

Person A - A 20 year old male, who is in community college, into sports, trains and competes in sports. He doesn't party often, because he is so into training. Now he only drinks occasionally. He used to party alot, his first 2 years of college, drinking, doing drugs, etc. He did lots of drugs in HS and first 2 years of college, but has gotten away from that type of life and is a much happier person. Person A sucks with sluts and hasnt had a girlfriend in many moons.

Person B - A hot 19 year old chick who used to pretty much be in love with Person A. She's a great girl and used to be good friends with Person A and almost more. She hasnt hung out with Person A in a while (few years) but just recently expressed major interest in dating Person A. All seems well and dandy except she is still in "Party mode", doing lots of drinking, pot smoking, yayo-sniffing(a big no-no in person A's book) and that type of ****. She is in school but Person A has a feeling she might **** up.

ANyway let me stop blabbering. My question is that do you think Person A can change Person B into a better person? He likes her alot as a person but he fears getting caught back up in a life of drugs and partying. He doesn't want to wash his training down the drain. He wants to start dating this chick but not if she's gonna be smoking and snorting stuff all the time.

Again this is purely hypothetical. Serious answers would be appreciated. Thanks.

Chance only comes from those who want it. You can't change people.

true...the want for her to change has to be there

Originally posted by handjobs4dollars
Chance only comes from those who want it. You can't change people.

Such wise words.

**** the hypothetical crap lefty. you shoulda nabbed her when you had yer chance. the above 3 posts are right. the only posts that will say differently are from cheeseballs who don't know worth a ****.

so here are yer only 3 choices:
1. be her friend and don't try to change her. constantly wonder what it'd be like to tap that ass.
2. try to be more, don't try to change her because you accept that she won't change for the time being, put up with her life. **** her brains out and get yer rocks off before too many other dudes do it.
3. think that love has a chance and try to change her. instantaneously become her scapegoat and get all her problems while other dip****s half as good as you get her solutions.

lemme tell you somethin about younger chicks that party- they're stupid. hands down. there's no way around it and there are no exceptions. don't let them drag you into their bull**** logic. you can either **** her or not. make sure you pretend you don't care. trust me. not only will SHE thank you for it, you'll thank yourself.

Originally posted by handjobs4dollars
You can't change people.

but you can change some of the things he/she does like smoking, sniffing, drinking...

incorrect. all you can do is perfect them on how to do it behind your back.

I'm disagreed with you Purity, and I speak for my experience: Spanishwoman smoked and when she started to go with me she left it cause I help her to do it, now she doesn't smoke...I say you can change this "little" things but not the personality or ideas from him/her, at least I wouldn't do it, I want authentic people who avoid the trends and have their own ideals. Perhaps you're so different from me but I'll never change your mind and your ideals...

Don't ever go into a relationship with the intent to change someone. It never works.

Thanks for the tips, people. I am such a *****...... whipped already

don't worry lefty. relationships aren't relationships unless one person is whipped & gettin ****ed over. so yer bitin the bullet this time. it's all good man; next time another girl will come into your life and get crushed by your assholish ways. back n forth dude.

kinda reminds me of that "wheel in the sky" song. i can play the drums to that jam.

i wish i could play the drums

just start with tappin yer feet to a basic beat. then use yer left hand to create a snare beat.

i used to play the snare drum. i bought a drumset and ****ing sucked at it. maybe i'll play the bass guitar. i heard thats easy as ****

You have your own highlight video. Why aren't you pulling fighter groupies yet?

good point. if hermes can do it, lefty can do it!

Hermes doesnt need a video.

how come you don't have hermes posters hangin in yer pad yet?

Originally posted by Allison
Hermes doesnt need a video.

You seem a little obsessed with Hermes Franca. You are probably one of thoses women that end up stealing his underwear and trying to murder his wife. Seek help.

Get rid of her. Party girls are only fun for the short term and will always wind up disappointing you. You'll be better off if you just move on and find someone in the same place as you.

if he hasn't gotten the short term benefit from her yet, then why would he get rid of her?

Where's my highlight video it can feature me training because that seems to be all I do.

Originally posted by Bluecifer
Get rid of her. Party girls are only fun for the short term and will always wind up disappointing you. You'll be better off if you just move on and find someone in the same place as you.


I got the impression that he was considering her for a relationship. If he just wanted to bang her, than he would and just forget about it without asking us our opinions.


Ooops, I meant to quote Purity.

yeah that's true.

relationship has started. im doomed.

oh and i will never pull fighter groupie chicks because i suck

Originally posted by Stain
relationship has started. im doomed.


you guys haven't said the L word yet, have you?

**** no

good cause you were about to get that avatar revoked.

im gonna sock her one good tonight

HAHAHA!!! atta boy!