yesterday i took my kids and my nephew to the park, my son was minding his own having a good time, my nephew is gonna be 5 and is outta control, he jumped on my son thinking it was cute then kicked him right in the face, my son had a shoe mark on his face for about a hour then his eye was really red for a few hours, i told my best friend if my son gets a black eye from her crack baby im gonna give her son a black eye myself. Was that mean of me?

You beating the kid would be wrong, cause it's not your kid. However, teaching your kid how to beat him up and get revenge is the way to go. Have Dave show him a few things and he should be alright.

come on now, i wouldnt have hit him really, im asking if you all think it was mean for me to come at her like that? Oh and after that i told her we arnt gonna kick it much any more cause her son is to violent.

I had the same situation happen this wekeend. I went over to my in laws house for some swimming and a bbq. My daughter is 2 years old and she was hanging out with her cousin, Eric who's 5. Eric sees all of us throwing one another in, so he decides to toss my daughter in the pool. He throws her into 4 feet of water and I completely freak out. I yelled at him and made him cry. I didn't mean to get mad, but you tend to freak out whever something happens to your child.

Im never having kids

Originally posted by AgonY^x0
come on now, i wouldnt have hit him really, im asking if you all think it was mean for me to come at her like that? Oh and after that i told her we arnt gonna kick it much any more cause her son is to violent.

Protecting your son? No, you didn't over-react. If it was my Son I wouild of done the same

Originally posted by Wushu
I had the same situation happen this wekeend. I went over to my in laws house for some swimming and a bbq. My daughter is 2 years old and she was hanging out with her cousin, Eric who's 5. Eric sees all of us throwing one another in, so he decides to toss my daughter in the pool. He throws her into 4 feet of water and I completely freak out. I yelled at him and made him cry. I didn't mean to get mad, but you tend to freak out whever something happens to your child.



oh man i hate that feeling, last summer me and my kids were in the pool and i was taking my daughter out of the pool to go with my mom and i turn around to get my son and he is not there i look in the 8 feet deep and there goes my son 3 years old thinking he can fly, i guess he saw my step brother under water so he jumped in after him, i swear i thought i was gonna have a heart attack, i was crying my eyes out screaming on the top of my lungs, then finally i get him out he is ok, and then there i go throwing up all over the place. WORST FEELING EVER!!!!!!!

If your friend is known for NOT disciplining her kid, then I'd say you were in line is saying what you said. Otherwise, I would have given her the chance to scold and teach her son how wrong it was to do what he did. I've dropped friends like a hot potato because of their lack of discipline with their kids. It's so easy for your kids to do what other kids are doing and NOT understand that it's not okay just because they're doing it when their parents don't stop them.

I feel for you Wushu and Agony. It's so frightening when your kids are young. Been there, know how you feel.

My two stories.....(funny now, but not then)

Daughter #2 hated little brother when we brought him home from the hospital. After about two weeks she realized he was there to stay (she was 20 months) so while I'm paying bills at the coffee table, the baby was on the couch right next to me being cute and making soft noises......daughter is at the table playing with two pennies. Next thing I know, I hear baby choking. I immediately knew what had happened. I flipped him upside down and did the four hits on the back in an upward motion, reached in and pulled out two pennies. Daddy was about to blow a gasket, but I VERY calmly told our baby girl that only mommy can feed the baby. She was frightened enough by it all and didn't need to be yelled at.......although I understand how easy it is to yell when you're frightened.

Same daughter, years later, she's 4 now. She walks in and says "Daddy? Is little *ucker a bad word?" He literally came flying out of his chair to punish her....I jumped up and put my hand up and asked her where she heard that. I was babysitting two boys at the time and one of them called our son that name. He's only two/three at the time. I looked at the older brother who was in the same room as us and he said, "Oh my mother calls him that all the time" Outta of the mouths of babes. As soon as their mother came to pick them up, she said their dad says it. I asked if she was going to do anything and she said no. I said find another sitter. ONLY you should be that big of an influence to your kids. It's hard, so good luck.

my nephew has NO disapline, he is in preschool and his teacher told my friend her son can not go on any field trips with the clas anymore because he hits the little girls to much and she is in a parent conferance twice a week because he doesnt listen, the teacher already told her that she doesnt think he is ok to go off to kendergarden and if they keep him back in preschool he can not go back to that school, so you tell me, he is a bad ass kid, and when he does **** like that all the mom does is say that wasnt nice honey, and he does it again.

He needs a good sound spanking.

Kids need to be told, they know no better.

Some parents need to be beaten around the ears as they don't care to know any better.
I wouldn't have threatened to blacken the kids eye, I would have aimed it at the mother for having no idea and basically no right to have kids in the first place...having a cunt and ovaries don't make you a naturally good mother apparently

Very true Seldom. The child definitely needs to be disciplined. The other option is also having the child checked out for any kind of disorder like ADHD. That can make a kid very unruly, but if there isn't any discipline, then that is the first place to start.

When daughter #2 was about two years old, our apt. neighbor has a little girls close to the same age. They didn't believe in spanking because "a child under the age of 3 could not understand the word NO" BS in my book, but who was I to say anything. Little Tiffany decided pulling my daughter's hair was fun. Her daddy kept saying "no no Tiffy" in a passive voice. After the 6-7th time, my daughter's head hit the pavement. Little Tiffy got picked up, taken inside and then we heard her getting spanked (the windows were open) and she behaved better after that. At least there was no more hair pulling.

Wow I wish my parents were like you guys maybe I would have a many scars as I do now. My dad broke my foot when he dropped a cinder block on it when I was three. He was making a dog kennel at the time.

Originally posted by madcrewmom
Very true Seldom. The child definitely needs to be disciplined. The other option is also having the child checked out for any kind of disorder like ADHD. That can make a kid very unruly, but if there isn't any discipline, then that is the first place to start.

When daughter #2 was about two years old, our apt. neighbor has a little girls close to the same age. They didn't believe in spanking because "a child under the age of 3 could not understand the word NO" BS in my book, but who was I to say anything. Little Tiffany decided pulling my daughter's hair was fun. Her daddy kept saying "no no Tiffy" in a passive voice. After the 6-7th time, my daughter's head hit the pavement. Little Tiffy got picked up, taken inside and then we heard her getting spanked (the windows were open) and she behaved better after that. At least there was no more hair pulling.

Spanking is fine as long as its not done while your angry. My Mom spanks me once, cried after, and I never forgot that

I didn't spank much. Only when repeated attempts in other ways to get the kids to stop doing what they weren't supposed to do didn't work. Spanking was always my last resort.....still is, but mine are rather large for spanking......not that two of them need it.

Originally posted by AgonY^x0
yesterday i took my kids and my nephew to the park, my son was minding his own having a good time, my nephew is gonna be 5 and is outta control, he jumped on my son thinking it was cute then kicked him right in the face, my son had a shoe mark on his face for about a hour then his eye was really red for a few hours, i told my best friend if my son gets a black eye from her crack baby im gonna give her son a black eye myself. Was that mean of me?

A good parent would have kicked your nephew the second he harmed your kid.

A Texan would have shot them on sight!

Originally posted by Deacon Frost
A good parent would have kicked your nephew the second he harmed your kid.

A Texan would have shot them on sight!


well i dont hit my kids why would i hit hers, all i no he is sad because last night we went out for a minute and i left my kids with grandpa, and my nephew was sad cause i told him he is to mean and he wont be seeing my son for a long time, then he said sorry and i told him sorry doest always fix things.



I also told my friend never have another kids with a mexican, only because there kids are a waste of sperm, Russians and mexicans make horrible kids

Tell your nephew that next time he gets the treatment. Kids only behave because they fear punishment.