Seems like everytime I say something my girl even remotely disagrees with this past week, it goes somewhere ugly.

Today she informed me she's going to be sitting floor level for Madonna, with her friends, on May 24th. I was very happy for her. She told me all about how Madonna's assistant called into her office (patient there) and we got all excited together. I made a comment about me going to the UFC, with my friends, and I've never seen excitement come to a more screeching halt between me and her. It went from "yay" to "why are you trying to not take me to Vegas??????"

...

I ain't tryin to cause scenes or start arguments, but this attitude of hers is gettin to be a bit much. It's to a point where she sincerely believes that my every recognition of a fault on her behalf is my way of turning an argument around, when in fact, there's no argument... nor is there really anything to "turn around".

Her last boyfriend was a ****faced ****licking backbiting ******, so I can understand where she might be coming from when it comes to a particular angle. However, the fact that I'm consistently told how good I am, how nice I am, how much of a gentlemen I am, how courteous and generous I am... doesn't really equate to me having a reason to take this **** from her, regardless of whether or not she was datin some ****** before I came along.

I'm near loss of patience on this one... it would be the first time with this girl, and we've been together for over 7 months now. Someone give me something positive to work with here.

It sounds like she just needs more reassurance. My ex got mad at me when I went to Cali for a 2 week vacation and didn't invite her, she just couldn't understand that it wasn't anything against her, it was just that this was a friends trip not bf/gf kinda thing.

Try being married... :(

Originally posted by Wushu
Try being married... :(

:( I'm headed in that sad direction. 3 more months for me.

Bwhahahahhahaha I LIVE SUCH A EASY LIFE.

Originally posted by handjobs4dollars
Bwhahahahhahaha I LIVE SUCH A EASY LIFE.

Without sex.

He has sex, just not with a partner....

Originally posted by Blue
He has sex, just not with a partner....

Oh, I see....

Five against One....

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!!111111

Well one day I will have money then I'll get the woman.

Well if you stop acting like your gonna beat them um.....

Try replacing snarling at girls with smiling at girls. Also don't give them hard looks and try to answer in a polite way way instead of ignoring them when they talk to you.

Yeah I'm just going to staple a 100 dollar bill to my zipper.

That will work exceptionally well in a whorehouse or on whatever block is popular where you live to buy crack.

Blue... hahahahahahahahahahahaha

Thanks for cheerin me up, and for the good advice. I appreciate both.

Originally posted by Blue
He has sex, just not with a partner....

Nuno is getting married. Soon he won't have a partner ethier

I'm here for you, Dave.

Feel free to snuggle against my warm Busom of Comfort.

Dave-

She loves you, and you love her.... don't ever forget that... and the minute you two decide to fight over all the small little things... you both or going to end up hurting.... give me a call sometime.. I got a new phone, so I don't have your number.

-Mina

I hear you bro. All you can really do is sit your gf down and make it clear how you feel. No arguments, no regrets. Speak from the heart and be honest. No matter which way it goes, at least then you will know you tried to do the right thing.

Originally posted by Lei Tong
I'm here for you, Dave.

Feel free to snuggle against my warm Busom of Comfort.

:(

Originally posted by DeadAngelicHeart
... give me a call sometime.. I got a new phone, so I don't have your number.

-Mina

BAM! there's yer rebound bro.

Originally posted by Purity
BAM! there's yer rebound bro.

haha. its not like him and his lady are broken up. dave's just a *****. thats all.

it's impossible to be a ***** when there's a rebound in play. it's like....i'm less likely to go to the gas station if i have a jug of gas sittin in my trunk.

so this is where he needs to have one of those googly intimate deep-hearted discussions with mina and throw out some bull**** like, "i........i just don't know what i want anymore."

talk about spooooooooooonfed

Who the **** is mina?

some hoe bag using dave to get to me.

Why would anybody want to get to you?

Originally posted by handjobs4dollars
Why would anybody want to get to you?

so she can make him jealous by rebounding with dave. the #1 thing that makes a woman attracted to you is the fact that you're jealous. that way she can be satisfied without having to **** you.

nina rules. she could play this board like a ****in chessboard.

what Purity said.

If this is the first time in 7 months you have had an impatience issue, you are doing something right bro!

Try to hold your tongue a bit here man, obvioiusly you like the girl so explain your side and keep as chilled as possible about it...but be strong about it...don't let this set a precedent.

the single life is great, you can do whatever you want, with who ever you want, WHEN EVER you want, and not awnser to anyone, ive been single for 1 month and love every minute of it.

You and Michelle will work past it Dave, shes cool as **** and not a crack head, you guys are soul mates!!!! lol

Originally posted by AgonY^x0
the single life is great, you can do whatever you want, with who ever you want, WHEN EVER you want, and not awnser to anyone, ive been single for 1 month and love every minute of it.


nice. soooooo yer saying you enjoy doing whatever you want with whoever you want whenever you want.
gotta agree with her.

:-)

dammit. why ya gotta be my buddy's sister!

thats just the way this world is, i catch myself asking that same question "damn why they gotta be my brothers homies"..

**** the world

and everyone in it.

damn you ARE lovin the single life

Lol @ NOT a crackhead! that rules, maybe I should add that to my criteria for girls I date.....

hahahahhaa

Let me see the river that is falling between the 150 pigeons in your palace...

We're down to 80 pigeons. I killed and ate a few of them.

Remember that these 70 pigeons you've eaten are the bringers of rainbow...


que bueno es el aburrimiento!!!

That would explain my colorful excrement.

Yes!! Keep it into a 7up can and you'll see an okapi growing...

Originally posted by Purity
it's impossible to be a ***** when there's a rebound in play. it's like....i'm less likely to go to the gas station if i have a jug of gas sittin in my trunk.

so this is where he needs to have one of those googly intimate deep-hearted discussions with mina and throw out some bull**** like, "i........i just don't know what i want anymore."

talk about spooooooooooonfed


Tony STFU!! That would be my Cousin that he moved in with and is and having a spat with. There should be no ****ing phone calls to other girls unless My cousin knows about it! I don't want to have Dave killed in a very painful way. I love him like a brother.

Originally posted by GhosT^x0
Seems like everytime I say something my girl even remotely disagrees with this past week, it goes somewhere ugly.

Today she informed me she's going to be sitting floor level for Madonna, with her friends, on May 24th. I was very happy for her. She told me all about how Madonna's assistant called into her office (patient there) and we got all excited together. I made a comment about me going to the UFC, with my friends, and I've never seen excitement come to a more screeching halt between me and her. It went from "yay" to "why are you trying to not take me to Vegas??????"

...

I ain't tryin to cause scenes or start arguments, but this attitude of hers is gettin to be a bit much. It's to a point where she sincerely believes that my every recognition of a fault on her behalf is my way of turning an argument around, when in fact, there's no argument... nor is there really anything to "turn around".

Her last boyfriend was a ****faced ****licking backbiting ******, so I can understand where she might be coming from when it comes to a particular angle. However, the fact that I'm consistently told how good I am, how nice I am, how much of a gentlemen I am, how courteous and generous I am... doesn't really equate to me having a reason to take this **** from her, regardless of whether or not she was datin some ****** before I came along.

I'm near loss of patience on this one... it would be the first time with this girl, and we've been together for over 7 months now. Someone give me something positive to work with here.

Dave,

Your going to Vegas without her?!?! Why? You know she wants to go for her b-day. Point being that you’re trying to leave the state without her, and she's going to a concert and coming home. You guys have never been apart, big step from my look on it. I mean if maybe you planed it a bit better you both can go. Do a guys night out the same time she goes to the concert. + you have also talked about taking her to the UFC and now your not....?? ok I prob would be a bit upset too....

Originally posted by ArjukanpoKarate
Tony STFU!! That would be my Cousin that he moved in with and is and having a spat with. There should be no ****ing phone calls to other girls unless My cousin knows about it! I don't want to have Dave killed in a very painful way. I love him like a brother.

awwwww, yer blushin

Originally posted by ArjukanpoKarate
Dave,

Your going to Vegas without her?!?! Why? You know she wants to go for her b-day. Point being that you’re trying to leave the state without her, and she's going to a concert and coming home. You guys have never been apart, big step from my look on it. I mean if maybe you planed it a bit better you both can go. Do a guys night out the same time she goes to the concert. + you have also talked about taking her to the UFC and now your not....?? ok I prob would be a bit upset too....

Totally disagree. If a man wants to leave, leave. Have fun. So hes going out of state and shes going to a concert and comming home? This is the same ****ing reason I dont have a girlfriend. So he is supposed to feel bad about having a fun time because she is comming home and hes not? Give me a break. Like its "poor her" shes gonna be home and you're gonna be out having fun, GOD forbid you have fun without your loved one FOR ONCE.

And to say because they've never been apart, that its a big step that should be reconcidered is ****in bull****. If they are gonna have ANY ****ing future together they need to learn how to deal with not being together all the time, because the minute they are'nt together, shes gonna call *****in and complaining and turning the relationship into something Dave never wanted in the first place. She'll go to another UFC with him, its not like its her only and last chance... like its the end of the world. I mean cmon.... he stayed up in HB with me for a weekend while she stayed at home... she can hack it... just because its VEGAS does'nt mean **** but that he is gonna have fun. I don't take kindly to giving in over jealousy that one might have more fun than the other and sacrifice to please someone else when you do that on a daily. Sometimes, life has to be focused on yourself for you to fully enjoy it. Not that he does'nt with her, just that everyone needs that time with their friends, with family, and alone. If you don't have that, you are constantly bogged down by other's bull**** and insecurities. **** THAT.

Just my 2 cents.

thats not very nice you mean mean man!!!!

kim, really..... everything i say at this point seems to be "mean" to you. if being "mean" means being REAL and being straight up, then I am prolly the biggest ******* you're gonna ever meet.

dogg's on a roll today

dont come at me like that fool, i was joking!

2 cents? dude that's more like a dollar

Originally posted by prime cut
dogg's on a roll today

I just sold 2 huge deals, my first deals at that. MAD commissions. I'm preaty happy today. :)

Originally posted by AgonY^x0
dont come at me like that fool, i was joking!

You know I love you, sweetheart..


Originally posted by Purity
2 cents? dude that's more like a dollar

hahahahahaha. **** you.

Originally posted by DOGGx0
You know I love you, sweetheart..

:-)

Originally posted by DOGGx0
Totally disagree. If a man wants to leave, leave. Have fun. So hes going out of state and shes going to a concert and comming home? This is the same ****ing reason I dont have a girlfriend. So he is supposed to feel bad about having a fun time because she is comming home and hes not? Give me a break. Like its "poor her" shes gonna be home and you're gonna be out having fun, GOD forbid you have fun without your loved one FOR ONCE.

And to say because they've never been apart, that its a big step that should be reconcidered is ****in bull****. If they are gonna have ANY ****ing future together they need to learn how to deal with not being together all the time, because the minute they are'nt together, shes gonna call *****in and complaining and turning the relationship into something Dave never wanted in the first place. She'll go to another UFC with him, its not like its her only and last chance... like its the end of the world. I mean cmon.... he stayed up in HB with me for a weekend while she stayed at home... she can hack it... just because its VEGAS does'nt mean **** but that he is gonna have fun. I don't take kindly to giving in over jealousy that one might have more fun than the other and sacrifice to please someone else when you do that on a daily. Sometimes, life has to be focused on yourself for you to fully enjoy it. Not that he does'nt with her, just that everyone needs that time with their friends, with family, and alone. If you don't have that, you are constantly bogged down by other's bull**** and insecurities. **** THAT.

Just my 2 cents.

Dogg has caught the correct.

Couples aren't always going to do things together, and sometimes a man is going to want to go hanging out with his buddies, just as a woman is going to hang out with hers. You don't see men crying when we get left out of window shopping with the ladies.

Ghost, whichever way this goes, just have a chat to your gf. I think the big thing is that you two need to talk until you can both agree with the solution.

If you can't find that middle ground, then stand firm to what you want to do. At that point,nobody will be able to change anyones mind but at least if she can understand the why you made your decision, she will respect it all the same - even if she disagrees with it.

No ****...it is downright unhealthy for a couple to be together 24/7...or even 12/7.

Everyone needs some time on their own now and then, and living together makes this more important IMO.

Making a fuss and trying to stop people doing their own thing is what causes a lot of relationship drama

This thread owns

yes...it does.

BOOM.

Originally posted by seldomTap
No ****...it is downright unhealthy for a couple to be together 24/7...or even 12/7.

Everyone needs some time on their own now and then, and living together makes this more important IMO.

Making a fuss and trying to stop people doing their own thing is what causes a lot of relationship drama



why move in at all? **** I'm cool seeing my man once or twice a week IF THAT maybe once a week, NOW thats health, you dont fight and if you do you got probblems and when you see each other after a few days its always good cause it gives you time to miss each other.

Women are more emotional and men are more logical. As soon as you learn that, it's easier to deal with.

You can't change the other person, but you can change how you react to the situation.

no

Originally posted by AgonY^x0
no

Agreed. Men=logical and women=emotional is one of the topics I will nevver believe in. Each person is a world...

I agree with MCM and PANIKO. Its common phsycology to know that women are naturally emotional, more so than men. However, everyone is different and as weird as it sounds, everyone is a world, a world of their own. Example: Gays & Lesbians(not that they are the only ones, they are just an example that is "out of norm"). Not everyone can be based on what the common is, if everything and everybody was so common, this world would be mad boring.

It goes both ways.... just depends on the person.

Let it burn

Originally posted by DOGGx0
...., if everything and everybody was so common, this world would be mad boring.


Correct. And this is one of the things I search in persons, an example: Spanishwoman is very emotional and say all that she wants without keep it inside but she thinks a lot about some things like money, our future life in common...I'm very absurd, ilogical, a bit weird and freaky but I try don't hurt people with my words and I don't know if it is a handicap or an adventage...

Its definately an advantage. As long as you know what you're doin.

Originally posted by DOGGx0
I agree with MCM and PANIKO. Its common phsycology to know that women are naturally emotional, more so than men. However, everyone is different and as weird as it sounds, everyone is a world, a world of their own. Example: Gays & Lesbians(not that they are the only ones, they are just an example that is "out of norm"). Not everyone can be based on what the common is, if everything and everybody was so common, this world would be mad boring.

It goes both ways.... just depends on the person.

All true but people often forget why stereotypes hold true... it's because more often than not, they remind us of the facts.

Lets be real here, very few stereotypes are unfounded. And women being illogical is probably one of the largest truisms I've ever encountered.