Today at work I was thinking about how much I'd like to bang the **** out of these 2 little hotties at work.

This got me to thinking, is it possible for a man to look at a fine women without lust, or passing judgement(would I hit it or not)? I'm a happily married man, but when I see a fine piece of ass, I think damn, I'd like to tap that ass.

This made me think, I would really like if I could look at a fine woman and not think I want to **** you. It's distracting. After bried consideration, I decided it would be pretty much impossible for me not to think about how bad I want to **** a beautiful woman.

Is this sate of Zen achievable, where you can focus 100% on 1 woman? If so how may I attain it? If you do attain, are you romo, or enlightened?

I don't think it could be 100% because of human nature, but I'm sure some could get close.

Originally posted by Zen


Is this sate of Zen achievable, where you can focus 100% on 1 woman? If so how may I attain it? If you do attain, are you romo, or enlightened?

Not with out castration or homosexuality being introduced it to the equation

Yep unless your gay. Don't even bother.

In a sense you can. You most likely know that your wife is pretty much your anchor. When you get to thinkin of ****in other women its perfectly natural. Its a built in primordeal urge. But when you come down from that thought of tappin another girls ass. You soon realize that your wife completes you and you couldn't be without her. So, in the end you really do have that
100% devotion. Can't blame a man for daydreaming.

I can't look at any decent looking woman without having primordeal urges. :(

Thats why we have **** guys. Its our means of cheating without cheating.