ok guys, serious answers only please...i gotta problem...

a guy i work w/and i flirt all the time...im a flirtacious person...i didn't really think anything about it until he asked me if i wanted to go out w/him sometime. Actually thought he was just kidding but when i went in today to get my check he asked me again this time a lil more serious...thing is hes been dating this chick for 3 years and they're in a serious relationship. so yea hes an ******* for willing to cheat on his girl but im not looking for anything serious, just wanted to get out and have fun w/someone and get my mind off some things....so would it be wrong of me to take him up on this?

I'm hungry : - !

its not wrong, just dont kiss, sexually touch, or **** him. if you do, imagine what it would be like if you had a boyfriend and he cheated on you. :)

Let him stick it in the pooper.

Mr. Stain, why in the hell would you go out with a chick if is not to kiss, ****, or sexually touch her?

I say you **** that **** out of that guy, young lady...Have fun and enjoy life.

depends if you're willin to hook up with him. if yer willing to give it a shot then i say go for it. BUT don't ever consider that dude for relationship material. obviously he's not.

if yer just wanting to go out and hang with a buddy then i would find someone who just wants to be yer buddy. otherwise yer just gonna ****tease him.

Originally posted by Stain
its not wrong, just dont kiss, sexually touch, or **** him. if you do, imagine what it would be like if you had a boyfriend and he cheated on you. :)

i do kinda feel sorry for her....but i dont have to worry about sex or anything like that...i dont think he has the balls...i think i kind of intimidate him. :lol1:

Originally posted by Stain
its not wrong, just dont kiss, sexually touch, or **** him. if you do, imagine what it would be like if you had a boyfriend and he cheated on you. :) Agreed. You'e the man Stain

Make sure you let him put it in your butt.... or let me put it in your........

Hmm I should shut up now.

Use him like a sexual instrument, without feelings...

If you do go out with this guy, and something does happen, you can never get mad at anyone for cheating ever again. Because your being a part of it in this situation

Originally posted by Purity
depends if you're willin to hook up with him. if yer willing to give it a shot then i say go for it. BUT don't ever consider that dude for relationship material. obviously he's not.

if yer just wanting to go out and hang with a buddy then i would find someone who just wants to be yer buddy. otherwise yer just gonna ****tease him.

well, im not looking for a relationship simply because im more interested in someone else, just can't be with them right now so i'd kinda rather just have fun w/the guys here w/no real intentions of anything serious.

if i was looking for something serious i deffinetly wouldn't consider it because i would feel guilty. even tho he shouldn't be doing what hes doing, i wouldn't want to be a part in helping him **** over his girlfriend like that.

Originally posted by Purity
Otherwise yer just gonna ****tease him.

Preach on!

threesome everybody wins

Originally posted by Gman
threesome everybody wins

I concur.

Yet you still have not disregard the possibility of giving the cooter up. I think that just by the tone of your writing, you do want him since you know he has a relationship and it will be only something for right here and now.

You have to make your own personal and adult choice if you want to go out with him or not.

He might not be intimidated by you just playing it safe since you 2 do work together.

Originally posted by Exotica
well, im not looking for a relationship simply because im more interested in someone else, just can't be with them right now so i'd kinda rather just have fun w/the guys here w/no real intentions of anything serious.


that's cool but i'm just saying that you shouldn't go out with him unless you're willing to hook up with him. if you go out with him then he'll have it dialed in his head that he's gettin some that night.

Exotica, if you ever move to portland, I'm sure I'll be tipping you in no time....

Originally posted by Gman
threesome everybody wins

Espically if there is a video camera and digital camera invovled. The female rotties forum is kind of slow

Originally posted by Purity
that's cool but i'm just saying that you shouldn't go out with him unless you're willing to hook up with him. if you go out with him then he'll have it dialed in his head that he's gettin some that night.

if he has those intentions then hes just going to be letting himself down because i have told him many times that its not like that.

Yet you still have not disregard the possibility of giving the cooter up. I think that just by the tone of your writing, you do want him since you know he has a relationship and it will be only something for right here and now.

hes not getting any...he knows this...i've made it a point to tell him that. besides hes a virgin, im not going to have that kind of pressure on me even if i DID want him. im not that kind of girl. and i would make SURE he understood if we went out it wasn't going to be like that.



Exotica, if you ever move to portland, I'm sure I'll be tipping you in no time....

i will never degrade myself to the point of being a stripper, sorry

well then i say that you should go out and party with him and his girlfriend. that way you can still have fun but yer not gonna feel guilty about doin **** behind this chick's back.

He's been going out with the same chick for 3 years and he's still a virgin?!

WTF is wrong eith the kids today?

Him being a virgin really doesn't matter. How the **** will he know if it was bad or good. Plus you reach a point when he will be so glad that it finally happened he won't care.

The virgin thing sound like bull****.

Originally posted by Purity
well then i say that you should go out and party with him and his girlfriend. that way you can still have fun but yer not gonna feel guilty about doin **** behind this chick's back.

i have a feeling he wont go for that

He's been going out with the same chick for 3 years and he's still a virgin?!

yea we had a big discussion about this. he says she has 'morals' and refuses to even talk about it.

then i wouldn't go out with him. even if he's a fun guy and all, i don't recommend surrounding yerself with people who like doing **** behind their loved one's backs for their own selfish gain.

He has morals and he is asking you out well having a girlfriend.

Originally posted by Gman
The virgin thing sound like bull****.

Originally posted by Gman
He has morals and he is asking you out well having a girlfriend.

everyone has their own degrees of morals. nobody's God and nobody's Satan. i think it's best for people to surround themselves with people who have either the same degree, or a higher degree of ethics than you.

I guess.

IF the virgin thing is true then that explains why he's asking you out. In this day and age, 3 years with no play equals bye-bye relationship. I think he's looking for a change and wants to try before he buys.......

Originally posted by Purity
then i wouldn't go out with him. even if he's a fun guy and all, i don't recommend surrounding yerself with people who like doing **** behind their loved one's backs for their own selfish gain.

i dont really feel great about it...but i know that nothing would happen from this, itd just be he and i hanging out but i think he would think more of it than i would. and honestly if hes wanting to just get laid than he should have the balls to break up with her.

IF the virgin thing is true then that explains why he's asking you out. In this day and age, 3 years with no play equals bye-bye relationship. I think he's looking for a change and wats to try before he buys.......

i have a feeling youre right but i know and he SHOULD know by now that im not like that and hes not getting **** from me.

Originally posted by Exotica
and honestly if hes wanting to just get laid than he should have the balls to break up with her.


bingo. too many people out there never wanna do what seems hard on the surface so they just drag out a bunch of lies. eventually he's going to break up with her and it'll be a LOT more dramatic then if he would just ****can her right now.

How old is the kid?

If you really ahve to ask our opinions, what does that tell you?? It seems like your conscience (sp.) is telling you the right thing to do. Get another guy, there'a a billion of us out there. Not me though, I'm married and my wife likes it in the pooper

Originally posted by Wushu
I'm married and my wife likes it in the pooper

Word, those are the ones to marry.......


:fart:

Originally posted by Nuno
How old is the kid?

hes 20

bingo. too many people out there never wanna do what seems hard on the surface so they just drag out a bunch of lies. eventually he's going to break up with her and it'll be a LOT more dramatic then if he would just ****can her right now.

i really feel sorry for this girl. i've talked to her, shes really sweet...little ditzy, but a 'good' girl. the weird thing is, is it seems like he honestly cares a lot about her. he talks about her a lot. its just...i dont know. i think hes just wanting some ass but he knows i wont give it to him but yet he just wants to try.If you really ahve to ask our opinions, what does that tell you?? It seems like your conscience (sp.) is telling you the right thing to do. Get another guy, there'a a billion of us out there. Not me though, I'm married and my wife likes it in the pooper

:lol1: awww and i had my hopes up....

If you got butt pics, we can talk :)

Originally posted by Exotica
the weird thing is, is it seems like he honestly cares a lot about her. he talks about her a lot. its just...i dont know.
well i do. he just wants to have his cake and eat it too. he doesn't love her. just because you talk a lot about someone, stick with em for a long time, and act affectionate with em doesn't mean that you love em.

love is sacrifice. nothing more.

he's not willing to stick with just her so he doesn't love her. he just likes her when it's convenient for him.

Originally posted by Exotica
i think hes just wanting some ass but he knows i wont give it to him but yet he just wants to try.

everyone loves a challenge. it makes it more exciting if & when you actually get some ass. plus he works with you so all he can do is look you up n' down 8 hours a day.

Originally posted by Purity
well i do. he just wants to have his cake and eat it too. he doesn't love her. just because you talk a lot about someone, stick with em for a long time, and act affectionate with em doesn't mean that you love em.

love is sacrifice. nothing more.

he's not willing to stick with just her so he doesn't love her. he just likes her when it's convenient for him.


everyone loves a challenge. it makes it more exciting if & when you actually get some ass. plus he works with you so all he can do is look you up n' down 8 hours a day.

love is evil, i will never let myself fall in love.

i am completely w/u, hes the epitome of a ****ty boyfriend. he should honestly be ashamed of himself. i dont see why shes still with him, she has to know hes like this if shes been w/him for 3 years.

if i didn't work with him i think i'd play w/him, just for pure meanness...just tease the **** out of him and then not let him so much as touch me. he would deserve it.

...but i have too much of a conscience for that...i'd feel guilty cuz his girl...

Originally posted by Exotica
love is evil,

not at all. emotionally insecure people make it that way.


Originally posted by Exotica

i dont see why shes still with him, she has to know hes like this if shes been w/him for 3 years.

somehow i have a feeling that she doesn't subscribe to the self-esteem fan club

Originally posted by Exotica
i will never let myself fall in love.


"Never" is a strong word...

I think you meant to say:

"I wont fall in love 'till after college and all my drunken years, which is like 25"

plus you cant control that...unless you run from your true feelings and purposely sabbotage relationships to not fall in love.

and your 20, tomorrow your out look on life will be totally different

LOVE is the best thing one human can experience.

Originally posted by Wushu
If you got butt pics, we can talk :)

dude. seriously.... you ****ing rule!!@$!$!

Tell him what you actually think. Sounds like there is a lot fo games getting played there and that **** goes nowhere. cut to the chase, let him know exactly where you stand and tell him you think he shouldn't be chasing stuff with you if he has a girl he has had for 3 years. He may get ****ty, but at least it saves you making a ****tease out of yourself...

And any butt pics, feel free to share with more than just Assmaster Wushu

You are a pretty smart girl, if you are asking if you should, you shouldn't. No matter how many times you tell a guy "friendship only" he's going to try for more at that age. Most guys don't give up that easily. They do get better as they get older though.:)

Originally posted by madcrewmom
he's going to try for more at that age. Most guys don't give up that easily. They do get better as they get older though.:)

Naaaaah, We try at that age...we are just quicker to leave it alone lol

Originally posted by The Ensanity
Naaaaah, We try at that age...we are just quicker to leave it alone lol :lol2:

He's 20 and a virgin, let's quit pretending this guys not a total ***. He wants to go shopping with you, try on tight jeans, and the two of you can giggle at all the cute boys together. Having a girlfriend for 3 years is further proof that this cat is a colon cowboy. You have a better chance of ****ing his girlfriend than him. Don't forget the pics.

If by chance, he's not gay, it's not necessarily wrong to go out with him. It's all about his and your intentions. Some people are mature enough to have friends of the opposite sex and still maintain a healthy relationship. If he wants to hit it, and you have no intentions but to hang out as friends, he is in the wrong, not you.

Originally posted by Purity
everyone has their own degrees of morals. nobody's God and nobody's Satan. i think it's best for people to surround themselves with people who have either the same degree, or a higher degree of ethics than you.
And yet I continue to post here for some reason. Ah yes I remember. It's because I wouldn't hesitate to rape and murder a 13 year old if the situation presented itself......Yeah I remember clearly now.

Wow that's ****ed up.

Chris says NO

Originally posted by HockeyFighter
And yet I continue to post here for some reason. Ah yes I remember. It's because I wouldn't hesitate to rape and murder a 13 year old if the situation presented itself......Yeah I remember clearly now.

if i didn't know you better i would be scared, but i am just going to laugh cuz i know you're full of ****. :)

Originally posted by Exotica

yea we had a big discussion about this. he says she has 'morals' and refuses to even talk about it.

Go out with him; the guy is a closet homo.

He won't do **** with you. **** you could prolly go out and pick up on another guy while "partying" with him.

3 years and no sex = ****** or Future Child Molester

yea, i think ive decided to not go out w/him. could only cause problems. i'm still going to continue to joke around w/him at work though, no harm in that.

besides, i have someone new in mind now anyway :cool:

Originally posted by Exotica

besides, i have someone new in mind now anyway :cool: :lovers:

Originally posted by Nuno
:lovers:

:baby:

...but only if u promise to only speak in portuguese. then we're all good.

Originally posted by Nuno
:lovers:

Nuniho, don't play with stranges, you're mine....

Originally posted by Exotica
:baby:

...but only if u promise to only speak in portuguese. then we're all good.

:love: Ta bem bonita....

Originally posted by PANIKO
Nuniho, don't play with stranges, you're mine.... :boohoo:

I still think you should give up some cooter Exotica.... :P

Originally posted by HockeyFighter
And yet I continue to post here for some reason. Ah yes I remember. It's because I wouldn't hesitate to rape and murder a 13 year old if the situation presented itself......Yeah I remember clearly now.

HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHHAAHH

Originally posted by Nuno
:love: Ta bem bonita....

awww, so sweet ;)

Eu vou-te foder no cu.....;)

Originally posted by Nuno
Eu vou-te foder no cu.....;)

that one didn't translate :(

Originally posted by Exotica
that one didn't translate :(


hehehehhehe......I wonder why.......

LOL, what'd u say??

Originally posted by Exotica
LOL, what'd u say??

um, nothing hehe....:noangel:

Originally posted by Nuno
Eu vou-te foder no cu.....;)

Translation: WHATS UP WITH THE BUTT NAKED PARTY WITH YOU, ME, AND SOME HOMEGIRLS!

Originally posted by Nuno
um, nothing hehe....:noangel:

please? eu te amo?

Originally posted by The Ensanity
Translation: WHATS UP WITH THE BUTT NAKED PARTY WITH YOU, ME, AND SOME HOMEGIRLS!

Well, something like that.......

Originally posted by Nuno
Well, something like that.......


:?!:

this guy sounds worse off than me, except he has a girl that wants to **** him

Cesaro is the man

Originally posted by Exotica
please? eu te amo?

Entao, se tu me amas, nao ha nenhum problema amor.....

i give up :(

I like to think we helped somebody here today? and I don't think often.

Originally posted by Exotica
i give up :(

I'm sure you would like the way it sounds if you heard me, but you would have no clue what I was saying....

Originally posted by Nuno
I'm sure you would like the way it sounds if you heard me, but you would have no clue what I was saying....

that could be kinda hot in a way.

i've always wanted to have some crazy mad passionate sex w/a hot guy who talked dirty to me in some other language. kinda thing where neither of you knew what the other was saying.

course in my dream the guy was actually Italian

Originally posted by Exotica
that could be kinda hot in a way.

i've always wanted to have some crazy mad passionate sex w/a hot guy who talked dirty to me in some other language. kinda thing where neither of you knew what the other was saying.

course in my dream the guy was actually Italian

I can speak to you in ebonics...you wouldnt understand ****

"AWWWWW FASHIGGADEL!!!! THAT NAPPY DUGOUT BE SOME GOOOOD ****!!! YOU BE LIKEIN' HOW IM THUGGED OUT IN THAT PIECE?"

Originally posted by Exotica
that could be kinda hot in a way.

i've always wanted to have some crazy mad passionate sex w/a hot guy who talked dirty to me in some other language. kinda thing where neither of you knew what the other was saying. :lovers:
































:blow:
























:smoke:

Originally posted by The Ensanity
I can speak to you in ebonics...you wouldnt understand ****

"AWWWWW FASHIGGADEL!!!! THAT NAPPY DUGOUT BE SOME GOOOOD ****!!! YOU BE LIKEIN' HOW IM THUGGED OUT IN THAT PIECE?"

o...m...g...im in a puter lab at school and just busted out laugh...20 people in here are staring at me like im retarded. thanks.

that wouldn't be kewl tho...i'd be laughing the entire time. laughing=****ty sex

Hey nuno when are you getting married to your girlfriend again?









****block

Originally posted by Gman
Hey nuno when are you getting married to your girlfriend again?









****block

looks like someone is jealous :fu:

Originally posted by Gman
Cesaro is the man

soon to be the man training with the man who trained with sakurai. this is very good for team kenny loggins.

and as i was scrolling up to quote this post i saw a lee murray quote in someones signature, i'd like to see that removed immediately.

I'll speak canadian to you

"Hey baby what's up eh? You want to go to the hockey game and do it in the men's room. Well pick up a 2 4 on the way home and I'll make you feel good eh."

Originally posted by Exotica
that could be kinda hot in a way.

i've always wanted to have some crazy mad passionate sex w/a hot guy who talked dirty to me in some other language. kinda thing where neither of you knew what the other was saying.

course in my dream the guy was actually Italian

Im italian but I can't speak it...:boohoo: :boohoo:

Originally posted by Exotica
o...m...g...im in a puter lab at school and just busted out laugh...20 people in here are staring at me like im retarded. thanks.

that wouldn't be kewl tho...i'd be laughing the entire time. laughing=****ty sex Trust me....If IM ****ing you, you'll be TOO busy screaming, moaning and scratching my back to laugh at what Im saying.

Originally posted by Gman
Hey nuno when are you getting married to your girlfriend again?









****block

Cala-te idiota. Estas a estragar todo....

Don't be speaking that **** with me.

Alright, eh! Dohn't get mad aboot it, eh!!

Originally posted by Gman
I'll speak canadian to you

"Hey baby what's up eh? You want to go to the hockey game and do it in the men's room. Well pick up a 2 4 on the way home and I'll make you feel good eh."

:lol1: redneck canadians

Im italian but I can't speak it...

you should learn it. i think italian is a beautiful language.

Originally posted by Nuno
Cala-te idiota. Estas a estragar todo....

:rofl: hes killin ur game, nuno

Originally posted by Exotica
i think italian is a beautiful language.

Bella ragazza, mangiare la mia salsiccia. ;)

Originally posted by Nuno
Alright, eh! Dohn't get mad aboot it, eh!!

"eh" can only be used as a question or at the end of one.

Originally posted by Exotica
:lol1: redneck canadians



you should learn it. i think italian is a beautiful language.

took that and french for three years can't speak a lick of either one..

Originally posted by Nuno
Bella ragazza, mangiare la mia salsiccia. ;)

rofl...no

Originally posted by Exotica
:rofl: hes killin ur game, nuno

No. My game is unbreakable!!!

Originally posted by Exotica
rofl...no

:- l

Originally posted by Gman
"eh" can only be used as a question or at the end of one.

Whatever, eh.....

Hey nuno did you ever get over that case of vd you had?

Originally posted by Nuno
:- l

would still sound sexy tho. its just something about it...

Originally posted by Exotica
would still sound sexy tho. its just something about it...

Lei ha qualunque portoghese in lei?

if JFK's accent turns you on then im your man.

Lei ha qualunque portoghese in lei?

:lol1: not the last time i checked

Originally posted by Exotica
i will never degrade myself to the point of being a stripper, sorry

I would. They make good money.

Many here in portland make up to $500 in an hour.

I would be a stripper as soon as somebody will pay.

in my area you cant even touch them and if your a rude ******* to them some guido with no neck will throw your ass out on the girl's whim.

Originally posted by Blue Dawg
Many here in portland make up to $500 in an hour.

Hey blue are u a blazers fan???

Originally posted by Exotica
:lol1: not the last time i checked

Lei amerebbe alcuni? :)

Originally posted by Bella
I would. They make good money. Web Cam girls make alot too...Get a site and give me free membership for give you the idea

Morality is dead.

I would jerk off for lonely housewives for 500$ a night. all you got to do is dance.

Originally posted by nickeboy9
Hey blue are u a blazers fan???

No. I'm a Cali transplant so I'm a full on Lakers fan. I can't say that out loud though because Portlander's are RABID blazer fans. I do find it amusing that the "BLAZERS" keep getting busted on marijuana charges lol!

Originally posted by Aaron Bizarre
in my area you cant even touch them and if your a rude ******* to them some guido with no neck will throw your ass out on the girl's whim.

Same here. But if you spend thousands of dollars, sometimes they ask you out.

Originally posted by Nuno
Lei amerebbe alcuni? :)

wanna make babies?

Originally posted by Exotica
wanna make babies?

Sì! Certo, bella ragazza!

Avremo bello bambini.

Originally posted by Nuno
Sì! Certo, bella ragazza!

Avremo di bei bambini.

awesome but....

"We will have of european investment bank children."



:?:

Shel, did you go out with the guy?

Originally posted by Exotica
awesome but....

"We will have of european investment bank children."



:?:

:?!: hehe...I thought it said Beautiful children....

Raining blood!
From a lacerated sky!
Bleeding it's horror!
Creating my structure now I shall reign in blood!

But, yeah it is wrong. Being cheated on is the worst feeling ever. It makes you wanna find the person he/she ****ed and disembowel the person with a KFC spork, and feed it to your guinea pig. The bowels not the spork, of course.

And I can't imagine the blue balls this guy must have. Three years with no sex! I mean, does she give the poor guy head or anything? It's cruel.

Originally posted by Bella
Shel, did you go out with the guy?

nah, i think i work w/him tanight though, it should be interesting. hes still a pathetic sex deprived loser but hes fun to goof off w/and tease. makes work go by faster.

hehe...I thought it said Beautiful children....

rofl....poor nuno. beautiful children sounds much better.

Originally posted by Nuno
Avremo bello bambini.

There, I fixed it.

lol much better. the investment bank thing kinda freaked me out. thought u had a money fetish.

Originally posted by Exotica
lol much better. the investment bank thing kinda freaked me out. thought u had a money fetish.

Eu sei que tu queres o meu paio.....

Originally posted by Nuno
Eu sei que tu queres o meu paio.....

lol u speak much better portuguese than italian

and dammit no i dont!

Originally posted by Exotica
lol u speak much better portuguese than italian :)

and dammit no i dont!... :(

:?:

Just give him anal...the butt doesn't count

Originally posted by Exotica
:?:

What'd I say?

Semen????....Nah, Nonu is a gentleman, he would say sperm...

Originally posted by Nuno
What'd I say?

nothing

perhaps im just blonde and didn't get it

that happens quite frequently actually

Originally posted by Exotica
nothing

perhaps im just blonde and didn't get it

that happens quite frequently actually

:?: Riiiiight....

Originally posted by Nuno
:?: Riiiiight....

yea, so tell me something else...







NOW!:whipped:

Vai pro caralho amor. Eu su o homen, e tu fazes o que eu digo. Tu es a minha escrava de amor.....

Buenoooooo, algo entendí...

Originally posted by Nuno
Vai pro caralho amor. Eu su o homen, e tu fazes o que eu digo. Tu es a minha escrava de amor.....

did you just call me ur love slave???

Originally posted by Exotica
did you just call me ur love slave??? Maybe, hehe...

rofl, awesome

You should here it spoken.....

Anyway time to go home....later y'all...

one day....

;) byee