Bodi just beat the snot out of a kid.............. he called me & told me he's hurting right now & he's telling his older brother!

well he can tell his older brother :-)

haha, I thought of that too.........

This made no sense to me.

- J.

OK, heres what happened, This guy told Bodi's g/f that he was cheating on her with 2 other girls.........

So she was mad at him & wouldn't talk to him. Bodi waited for him, & beat the snot outta him......


then he calls me, tells me he's telling his older brother, & he's hurting, cause Bodi didn't stop punching him...


Now, our later, the older bro jusy left, asked Bodi what brought this on, Bodi told him to put a muzzle on his bro, the guy finally left, yada yada yada, lol

LOL. Yay for Bodi.....too much time on kids' hand out there to cause trouble for others. Shame on Bodi's girl for talking to him first about it. If someone told me that, I'd question my guy first. Then give him the cold shoulder if he deserved it.....hope she learned her lesson. BTW, who was the other kid??? Someone I know?

Pass this onto Bodhi for me -

People choose to believe the worst in someone before they believe the best.

A woman will always give her guy the cold shoulder if she even gets a whiff that he cheated, even if he didn't cheat on her - for that very reason. She'd rather assume the worst than accept that it could be bull**** or deal with it logically.

You can take that to the bank.

- J.

Originally posted by The Jake
Pass this onto Bodhi for me -

People choose to believe the worst in someone before they believe the best.

A women will always give her guy the cold shoulder if she even gets a whiff that he cheated, even if he didn't cheat on her - for that very reason.

You can take that to the bank.

- J.

Not true....I'd be beating the crap outta my guy if I got a whiff of him cheating. And he knows it.:)

Originally posted by madcrewmom
Not true....I'd be beating the crap outta my guy if I got a whiff of him cheating. And he knows it.:)

The defence rests.

- J.

Originally posted by The Jake
The defence rests.

- J.

What?? you said that a woman would give the man a cold shoulder......I wouldn't. He'd get a hot and fast left and then right.

As far as the first part, I choose to believe the best versus the worst.....I should have said that if I had evidence that he was cheating....sorry. I'm tired tonight.....

Originally posted by madcrewmom
What?? you said that a woman would give the man a cold shoulder......I wouldn't. He'd get a hot and fast left and then right.

As far as the first part, I choose to believe the best versus the worst.....I should have said that if I had evidence that he was cheating....sorry. I'm tired tonight.....

You just said that if someone went and told you he cheated you would beat the **** out of him, BEFORE you even chose to talk to him about it first.

That is what I am talking about. A woman will not assume a logical course of action, she will assume a completely irrational one and take action on it. Frighteningly enough it will make all the sense in the world to her.

- J.

this falls under the act first ask questions later category

Originally posted by DragonZero
this falls under the act first ask questions later category

Unless you have hard evidence, no it doesn't.

- J.

Originally posted by The Jake
You just said that if someone went and told you he cheated you would beat the **** out of him, BEFORE you even chose to talk to him about it first.

That is what I am talking about. A woman will not assume a logical course of action, she will assume a completely irrational one and take action on it. Frighteningly enough it will make all the sense in the world to her.

- J.

That's not how I meant it to sound. Sorry.... I am very tired and don't really sound right tonight.....I've been told I'm a bit off today. Let me start over.

If I discovered he was cheating........I would require proof if someone accused him....one: he's not the type to actually do that. Two: someone did accuse him once.....it was kinda funny how it happened. Someone called me on Valentine's day to tell me that he and her had some personal biz to discuss....I said I'm his wife, you can tell me. She alluded to her being pregnant..... I laughed in her face.....She called and asked for him by his full first name. He doesn't go by that.....and in addition to that I could just tell she wasn't being honest....a gut feeling if you will. I called hubby at work and he laughed. Apparently this woman had finally gotten around to him....someone had been calling wives for the last month claiming the same thing with each hubby. I was the ONLY wife to react the way I did. All the others flipped out on their hubbies. Told mine I'd beat the crap out of him if I ever did learn of him doing something like that....of course, that was BEFORE he learned all those self-defense moves.....hmmmm......lol. Seriously though, I trust him. I let him have lunch with his high school gf a few years ago, even though I suspected she was hubby hunting.....he said no she's not....turns out, she was. :lol1: Hubby has learned that I have killer instincts when it comes to him......I am the jealous type....I freely admit that.

Originally posted by The Jake
Unless you have hard evidence, no it doesn't.

- J.

I agree

More power to you MCM.

Party on everyone.

- J.

party? where where?

Originally posted by The Jake
More power to you MCM.

Party on everyone.

- J.

Thanks for putting up with my flubbing tonight....stressed out from hubby being gone and son being......um...well, a PITA! (pain in the a**) Only three more days without him and then we celebrate 18 yrs on Sunday.

well happy early anniversary mom