Ever been in love?

Did you tell them first?

Discuss.

I'm getting married July 3rd next year......she told me first......

Congrats man. Glad to hear that.

My sister is getting married oct 16 of next year.

ANd to answer my question...i have never been in love, but right now i have a great girlfriend and things are working out really good.

Hopefully one day you may come to realize that you love her......


Now cut out this lovey dovey stuff before Bub deletes it........

Twice. First time, I told her first. The second time, she told me first.

Yeah. It was along time ago and I can't remember. Now I say love you at the end of every sentence.

Once, I told her

It'll happen again hockey ****ey, and you'll get raked over the coals again,again and again. Each time though, it hurts less and less until you feel nothing at all. I hope that helps.

I have thought I have been in love 5 times now...but on closer inspection it has just been that I liked them a lot.

I think my definition of 'love' is ever evolving. For instance, my current girl and me have been together 4 long, tiresome years. 2 years ago I was certain I loved her blah blah blah, we had just gotten back together after a 3 month split and things were going really well.
Now, she can't walk in the same room as me without my skin starting o crawl and I pull a face like I just smelt someone elses fart.

I am sure I will meet someone else and go throuhg the same tearful process.

Love sucks people, don't fall into the trap of 'looking for MR/Ms Right...they don't exist. there is only the one for now, not 'The One'...

Neo is The One

Originally posted by Blue Dawg
It'll happen again hockey ****ey, and you'll get raked over the coals again,again and again. Each time though, it hurts less and less until you feel nothing at all. I hope that helps.
No that does not help a single bit. In fact it is even more depressing. If you truely love someone it should always hurt went you have to split up. Not feeling pain, to me, would mean that the love was not real.

Naw, think of it more like scar tissue, and love is a razor blade. Friendly, wonderful scar tissue that acts as a defense mechanism young mang. I think you'll find that there is a lot of qualities to love in many people, while at the same time no one is 100% great, only parts of them are.

women are evil that is all I have to say

this thread has gotten more attention then i expected...

Originally posted by Nuno
I'm getting married July 3rd next year......she told me first......

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Hahahahaha...best pic ever.

I have been in love... and I think in all honesty marriage and living with one another kills the fire...

uh oh the fire for bzob has gone out

lol, no, its reality, every day issues weaken the spirit,

yah i understand that everyday bull**** just kills my mood everyday

Kato, my love! Hello!

There were a couple of times I thought I was in love, but when I look back on it, I'm not so sure. Maybe I'm just bitter.
However, I met someone recently who's extremely cool to hang out with.. and he digs me.. so we'll see how that goes.

Hey Bella darling...nice doo... I like it

I think we all get infatuated and it feels like love and maybe it is, its when we set our expectations and we get let down by our own image of what a relationship should be that the awwww feeling fades and we feel that we are no longer in love...


I think its inevitable to loose that feeling though so to think it will always be present in marriage is definetly fiction

Thanks, Kato.

And I know what you're saying. Makes me never want to marry.... lol. Is that bad?

no...its wise, listen...when we are growing up its hard to live with our parents and siblings and hell they have been with us all of our lives...now imagine having to live with someone that shares a whole different way of thinking...

Yeah, I can only imagine.

once, I told her first

yah but who wants to live with someone that thinks the same things you do it makes it boring

I guess I should've said "customs" rather then thinking

oh ok yah that is hard to adjust

how long did it take for yas to fall in love?

Kato hates me

What's love got to do, got to do wit it

I love Spanishwoman...and this monday we're goind to do two years of relationship, this is my largest relation at the moment

Hi Bzob!!....

I can say for sure that I have been in Love 3 times. It's great. I wouldn't take back anything I've done, or to not experience the things that I have.

Marriage is wonderful, hard at times, and there are some times you just feel like killing each other, but I still wouldn't want to be without him. It's great to have someone you can trust, and count on no matter what. It does take a lot of effort to keep the fire going, but you just put another log on, and it flares up again.

Damn!! when Spanishwoman talks to me about marriage I feel like if I were upon an abyss....uuuuuuffff...what a serious thing...

Just make sure you really know a person before you get married, in fact I think you should live together before marriage.

ArjukanpoKarate hates Jake

That is normal...I hate Jake also!

Nope.

Originally posted by Bzob
ArjukanpoKarate hates Jake

Don't be jealous bzob :-p


I love The Jake.


:fu:

I have been in love once. I will never leave myself that vulnerable again.

Next chick I fall in love with will be my wife so I am not having a girlfriend for at least 6 years :)


Hardcore dammit hardcore!!!!

Originally posted by Tom
how long did it take for yas to fall in love?
After being friends for many years we began talking alot more on the net and on the phone. I'd say it took a month of serious talking and thinking about her before I realized I loved her. But it probably would have been alot different if we were never freinds for so long before.