This girl I know gor roughed up by her B/F and constantly *****es about him and says she got rid of him thousands of times but i keep seein them together.

this is the conversation i had with her today (taken in progress).

(I edited her name)

estionie: why?
Diablo9719: you know!
estionie: sorry im in love..
Diablo9719: last week you hated the fool
Diablo9719: now your in love
Diablo9719: jesus
Diablo9719: how sad
estionie: no..ive been with him for 2 years..
estionie: we have had our times
Diablo9719: and that means what, when he is controlling abusive and you consistantly complain about him?
estionie: we have worked things out..
Diablo9719: i'll believe it when i see it
Diablo9719: sounds like **** to me
Diablo9719: just to put it out there, when **** goes sour again i'm not even gonna offer to rough him up cause now your doin it to yourself.

you are officially inflicted with battered wife's syndrome. br proud you will be happily abused for the rest of your life

Originally posted by VulgarTheClown
This girl I know gor roughed up by her B/F and constantly *****es about him and says she got rid of him thousands of times but i keep seein them together.

this is the conversation i had with her today (taken in progress).

(I edited her name)

estionie: why?
Diablo9719: you know!
estionie: sorry im in love..
Diablo9719: last week you hated the fool
Diablo9719: now your in love
Diablo9719: jesus
Diablo9719: how sad
estionie: no..ive been with him for 2 years..
estionie: we have had our times
Diablo9719: and that means what, when he is controlling abusive and you consistantly complain about him?
estionie: we have worked things out..
Diablo9719: i'll believe it when i see it
Diablo9719: sounds like **** to me
Diablo9719: just to put it out there, when **** goes sour again i'm not even gonna offer to rough him up cause now your doin it to yourself.

you are officially inflicted with battered wife's syndrome. br proud you will be happily abused for the rest of your life

Easier said than done to escape a situation like that. She got in that position by being dominated by him and she still is dominated by him. She has to work up the courage to leave or fix it for good. Like I said, easier said than done.

How'd I know this was going to be an AIM conversation before I opened it?

cause your psychic

lol @ kaps!!

she's got low self esteem and is co-dependent. that doesn't mean she's stupid but she could still use a good dose of smartness. the thing is, is that you (nor anyone else) won't be the one to kick it into her. she just needs to get ****ed up enough until it's undeniable. only time and tolerance will dictate that.

until then just be cool and either hunt for 1) a good rebound **** or 2) a good friend to be there for.