never mind, it was stupid anyway.

nada.

hell no she aint wrong for turning him away! even if there wasn't the issue of the younger brother mixup.

here's the thing. people are different. some are motivated, some are lazy. some are very generous while others are more on the self-centered side. some make lots of money while others live paycheck to paycheck. some are happy while some lead ****ty & depressed lives.
but none of those traits should reflect on how we treat them. if you are broke, depressed, and lazy but still show respect and don't try to make other people's lives miserable then you're all good in my book.
yet you could be rich, motivated, and outgoing but if you try to selfishly pass on your pains to others then you aint no ****in friend of mine. that also goes for relationships and family members too. it doesn't make a difference.

life is challenging enough for everyone. the last thing you should do is surround yourself with someone who just tries to make you more miserable. kick em to the curb. if you never loved them then it's no loss.
if you did then just understand that, in the long run, you're doing them a favor. and if you DON'T end up doing them a favor and they never get their **** together then you would've never changed them anyways. you'da just made yourself more miserable by keeping their company. either way, siya-****in-nara.

I think she's doing the right thing. Tuff love may be the wake up call he needs. She has to protect her family even if it means turning her back on him. Just tell him he'll be welcomed back once he gets his life straitened out.
















Now where's the **** at?

she is correct!