Kempo Chris
07-26-2003, 04:08 PM
Ok so I have a friend
She is an amazingly beautiful, smart, funny, and nice girl
But she has this problem, she worries about what everyone else thinks of her way too much.
She isn't a shallow person, but she cares so much about the way people percieve her appearance. I think she is just insecure.
She feels if she's not the best, she isn't anything.
Now at her job there is a new girl and all the guys are drooling over her, as they used to her, so now she feels really bad about herself. She is very depressed about all this.
What should i say to her and what do you's think of all this?
Curly Howard
07-26-2003, 04:12 PM
She'll out grow that soon. Just let her know how you feel about her. Let her know that there will always be someone a little better at something than she is but that's no reason to think there's something wrong with her.
Purity
07-26-2003, 04:15 PM
sounds like she's manically depressed. first off, if you just be her friend she'll walk all over you and take yer kindness for weakness. so treat her like **** and then she'll listen to your advice. plus you'll probably get laid out of it.
Try and score a date with the hotter chick from her work, this will bring your friends self esteem even lower. Than, take your friend out,because she's vulnerable, **** her , then never talk to her again. That should fix everything.
Curly Howard
07-26-2003, 04:16 PM
Dammit Purity don't sugar coat it
Kempo Chris
07-26-2003, 04:17 PM
actually shes my girlfriend
astroboy
07-26-2003, 06:16 PM
tell her to ****ing stop thinking about what everyone else thinks.... cause the reality is everyone isnt looking at her as much as she would like.... and honestly no one gives a **** if shes walking down the street .... not that many ppl care that much and look that much most are to wrapped up in their own things to bother.
tell her to get over herself and her bull**** attention seeking
Originally posted by Christopher Chaos
Ok so I have a friend
She is an amazingly beautiful, smart, funny, and nice girl
But she has this problem, she worries about what everyone else thinks of her way too much.
She isn't a shallow person, but she cares so much about the way people percieve her appearance. I think she is just insecure.
She feels if she's not the best, she isn't anything.
Now at her job there is a new girl and all the guys are drooling over her, as they used to her, so now she feels really bad about herself. She is very depressed about all this.
What should i say to her and what do you's think of all this?
slap her in the face and tell her to grow up. tell hher that she is not and never will be the best at anything, and the sooner she realises that the sooner she will stop feeling like crap.