astroboy
06-06-2003, 12:24 AM
You know how you fall in love and its all good, but then one breaks up with the other.... and your single and being single can be fun and all but the only reason you go out all the time is cause sub conciously your looking for that same feeling over again.
And you say to yourself well if its meant to happen it will happen and fall in my lap(no pun intended although i laughed) but reality is if your not always changing before and during a relationship its doomed to fail.... so you cant just "be yourself all the time"
without change and adaptation within a relationship it goes no where and you both dont change to make things better between each other,
when your single if your not adapting to the situations or environments your in 90% of the time you wont be happy where you are.
Which brings me to this if you cant change or are stuborn and even if your not stuborn and want to take the right steps???
what the **** is the first NEXT solid step to take on any path in any direction.... other then being patient youll never know ..... and that sucks ass
if any of you have the answer to this please shed light....
And you say to yourself well if its meant to happen it will happen and fall in my lap(no pun intended although i laughed) but reality is if your not always changing before and during a relationship its doomed to fail.... so you cant just "be yourself all the time"
without change and adaptation within a relationship it goes no where and you both dont change to make things better between each other,
when your single if your not adapting to the situations or environments your in 90% of the time you wont be happy where you are.
Which brings me to this if you cant change or are stuborn and even if your not stuborn and want to take the right steps???
what the **** is the first NEXT solid step to take on any path in any direction.... other then being patient youll never know ..... and that sucks ass
if any of you have the answer to this please shed light....