View Full Version : What if you found out your new girl or boy use to be a whore?


seldomTap
04-24-2003, 02:00 AM
Would you kick them out? Or would you maximise their advanced experience in the sack?

As long as it was up front and not a surprise the Dr told me about later, I would be cool with it I think

realkaps
04-24-2003, 02:01 AM
Old habits are hard to break.....

seldomTap
04-24-2003, 02:02 AM
Would you be concerned about her giving your friends $10 head jobs in the bathroom at parties?

realkaps
04-24-2003, 02:05 AM
I would be more concerned about STD's and the drug habit she probably has.....

seldomTap
04-24-2003, 02:07 AM
She may not have been a homeless person whore...but rather a high class whore...what an oxymoron that is, seriously

The Jake
04-24-2003, 02:18 AM
As long as she's charging $50 at least and I get an equal slice of the profits, then its ok.

- The Jake

The Jake
04-24-2003, 02:19 AM
I'm all about fair and equitable trading.

- The Jake

seldomTap
04-24-2003, 02:20 AM
Sharing is good for us all

The Jake
04-24-2003, 02:46 AM
Indeed!

- The Jake

ArjukanpoKarate
04-24-2003, 02:57 AM
I wouldn't care as long as they didn't still do it and don't have and STD's or drug probs.

Fallout
04-24-2003, 02:57 AM
Originally posted by The Jake
As long as she's charging $50 at least and I get an equal slice of the profits, then its ok.

- The Jake

How did you ever get married? :?:

Magic Man
04-24-2003, 03:51 AM
Originally posted by seldomTap
Would you kick them out? Or would you maximise their advanced experience in the sack?

As long as it was up front and not a surprise the Dr told me about later, I would be cool with it I think

I'd do anal on her then cut her head off.

Magic Man
04-24-2003, 03:52 AM
Originally posted by ArjukanpoKarate
I wouldn't care as long as they didn't still do it and don't have and STD's or drug probs.

Jarrod has STDs and a drug problem.

The Jake
04-24-2003, 06:56 AM
No that's you Magic.

I have proof, I've seen your homepage.

- The Jake

The Jake
04-24-2003, 06:57 AM
Originally posted by Creed
How did you ever get married? :?:

I don't know.

I don't know how anyone is prepared to put up with me being honest with you Creed, let alone commit to spending the rest of their lives putting up with it.

- The Jake

Magic Man
04-24-2003, 07:17 AM
where did you get this from:

"He lives in them...he says he is 'breaking them in' I think he likes to imagine he is Billy in some anti terrorist situation or something."

???

The Jake
04-24-2003, 08:08 AM
Seldom and I were talking about you today via. email and wierd activities which highlight your insanity.

That came up in regards to your new gloves.

- The Jake

Bzob
04-24-2003, 08:17 AM
Originally posted by seldomTap
Would you kick them out? Or would you maximise their advanced experience in the sack?

As long as it was up front and not a surprise the Dr told me about later, I would be cool with it I think

Skanks are always a skank. I would not even touch them, and if you already have wash your dick and or puss. Get checked for venerial deseases. And kick them for being nast.

VulgarTheClown
04-24-2003, 09:28 AM
bob, where is the love?


everyone needs a hug

Curly Howard
04-24-2003, 09:36 AM
http://www.alcofielen.com/pics/forumpics/gay/ghey.jpg

The Jake
04-24-2003, 10:05 AM
Originally posted by VulgarTheClown
bob, where is the love?


everyone needs a hug
http://members.optushome.com.au/thejake/sean-gay.jpg

Hasn't been a good week for you, eh?

- The Jake

Aaron Bizarre
04-24-2003, 10:44 AM
I could never trust them after finding **** out liek this. I once dated a girl who supposedly banged 13 guys in 6 monthes right after she broke up with her Bf. Of course I found this out after I dated her and by that time the damage was done. I became #35-40 and the thought of that made me sick.

someone liek this gets me thinking. A Whore is a poor option unless under sever circumstances where you have starving children.

I would say I would sever the relationship.

Bzob
04-24-2003, 10:50 AM
Originally posted by VulgarTheClown
bob, where is the love?


everyone needs a hug

NO-No love for the whores here. I hate whores.

Curly Howard
04-24-2003, 10:51 AM
hi

Whoremaster B
04-24-2003, 10:52 AM
Do things with her that you could never do to sum 1 you care about. get the use out of her and move on.

GhosT^x0
04-24-2003, 10:54 AM
Originally posted by seldomTap
What if you found out your new girl or boy use to be a whore?

Been there, done that.

More than once.

Zen
04-24-2003, 10:55 AM
I hate any woman who has ****ed more people than I have. All women whom this applies to might as well die in my eyes. I need to find me a tight lipped virgin, cause Zen don't love dem hoes.

lil'surfer girl
04-24-2003, 10:55 AM
So, should I take "Become an Escort" off of my to-do list?

Zen
04-24-2003, 10:57 AM
If you'll pay my bills no, if not yes.

Whoremaster B
04-24-2003, 10:58 AM
I hate any woman who has ****ed more people than I have



most women do. Thats life dude.

seldomTap
04-24-2003, 11:00 AM
Originally posted by lil'surfer girl
So, should I take "Become an Escort" off of my to-do list?

It could reduce the amount of PM's you get from this crowd

Magic Man
04-24-2003, 11:00 AM
why are you up???

seldomTap
04-24-2003, 11:02 AM
Whay are you up young man???Surely you were tucked in hours ago?

I just watched Smashing Machine...thanks for the copy. That is an awesome doco

lil'surfer girl
04-24-2003, 11:07 AM
Originally posted by Zen420
I hate any woman who has ****ed more people than I have. All women whom this applies to might as well die in my eyes. I need to find me a tight lipped virgin, cause Zen don't love dem hoes.


Holding someone accountable for things they did in the past just highlights your own insecurities.

We've all done stupid things we regret, but if a person learned from it and moved on with their lives then it should be irrelevent.

seldomTap
04-24-2003, 11:12 AM
I think you should never have any regrets in life about your past, it is a waste of emotion.

Also, you should never have regret for another persons actions. I use to date a girl who had a daughter and proudly owned up to the fact that she had been with way more people than I had, mind you I was 18, she was 22...and I learnt not to have issue with it

Zen
04-24-2003, 11:14 AM
Originally posted by lil'surfer girl
Holding someone accountable for things they did in the past just highlights your own insecurities.

We've all done stupid things we regret, but if a person learned from it and moved on with their lives then it should be irrelevent.

Actually beautiful, I was being quite sarcastic. But I believe what you've done in your past, in most cases will determine your behavior in the future. For the most part, I don't think people change. My soon to be ex-wife had a questionable reputation when we got together, but I tried to look past that and it ended up burning me in the long run. So I sure as **** do have some personal insecurities, I've been hurt, and I'm gonna do everything I can to make sure it doesn't happen again. So, my personal preference will be women that don't toss themselves @ the first guy to smile and say hi.

seldomTap
04-24-2003, 11:17 AM
Originally posted by Zen420
Actually beautiful, I was being quite sarcastic. But I believe what you've done in your past, in most cases will determine your behavior in the future. For the most part, I don't think people change. My soon to be ex-wife had a questionable reputation when we got together, but I tried to look past that and it ended up burning me in the long run. So I sure as **** do have some personal insecurities, I've been hurt, and I'm gonna do everything I can to make sure it doesn't happen again. So, my personal preference will be women that don't toss themselves @ the first guy to smile and say hi.


Dude that is sad to hear...but at least you found out...a lot of guys never do.

Curly Howard
04-24-2003, 11:19 AM
:) Hi

Zen
04-24-2003, 11:22 AM
Originally posted by seldomTap
Dude that is sad to hear...but at least you found out...a lot of guys never do.

**** happens. I'm actually feeling better about life now than I have in along time so everything is working out for the best. I just want to get everything all settled so I can really begin to move on with my life.

seldomTap
04-24-2003, 11:24 AM
Sounds like a good plan. Leave it all behind, move on. A new chapter will start and it will become ancient history

Magic Man
04-24-2003, 11:29 AM
I tried to leave behind the genital warts, but they pop in every few months to say a reverberating "HELLO!!!"

Curly Howard
04-24-2003, 11:34 AM
Originally posted by Magic Man
I tried to leave behind the genital warts, but they pop in every few months to say a reverberating "HELLO!!!"

ribbed for her pleasure

Aaron Bizarre
04-24-2003, 11:40 AM
Holding someone accountable for things they did in the past just highlights your own insecurities.

We've all done stupid things we regret, but if a person learned from it and moved on with their lives then it should be irrelevent.

If you found out that the guy your dating has cheated on every girlfriend he has ever had in the past could you just forget that little fact? If you knew and stayed with him and he cheated on you isnt it just as much your fault?

GhosT^x0
04-24-2003, 11:50 AM
Originally posted by lil'surfer girl
Holding someone accountable for things they did in the past just highlights your own insecurities.

We've all done stupid things we regret, but if a person learned from it and moved on with their lives then it should be irrelevent.

If you were anyone else sweetheart, this right here woulda set you up for a Grade A, blow-torch-quality, x0 roast. You're not supposed to highlight the insecurities of others based on their chauvenistic demeanor. That's a definitive sign of either empathy for the subject being mocked, or awkward relation to the subject being mocked... both of which set you up to be ripped apart by anyone having a bad day.

Ice is thin in some spots out here. Thank GhosT^x0 later for being underneath it to catch you when it breaks.

Bzob
04-24-2003, 12:35 PM
Thanks Ghost

lil'surfer girl
04-24-2003, 01:04 PM
Originally posted by Aaron Misery
If you found out that the guy your dating has cheated on every girlfriend he has ever had in the past could you just forget that little fact? If you knew and stayed with him and he cheated on you isnt it just as much your fault?

There is no way it would be my fault if he cheated on me simply because he is predisposed to do so. Those are his issues, not mine.

There is a double standard here. A guy who sleeps around excessively is not necessarily looked upon as a "whore"...even his cheating, as long as it is with a hotter chick, is accepted by most. Man whores are not looked upon as dirty sluts to be used and cast aside, as someone stated they would do with a female whore.

Perhaps this is why I am so lax on this topic. Someone's past is not really an issue with me unless it affects his present, as well.

casp3r
04-24-2003, 01:09 PM
The last ***** I messed with, I could pretty much tell someone was up with her, I knew her for 1 day and she was already kissing the snake, and engaged at the same time =/ I have always thought of myself to have high morals, and always despised the man that would mess with a taken girl, but when your actually in the situation and the chick is a looker, i doubt anyone would say "no" Unless of course you were looking at the new chick and her lips were just oozing herpes or something like that.

lil'surfer girl
04-24-2003, 01:18 PM
Originally posted by GhosT^x0
If you were anyone else sweetheart, this right here woulda set you up for a Grade A, blow-torch-quality, x0 roast.

So pretend I am someone else and fire it up. I am not fragile nor do I appreciate your chauvinism in thinking I need to be "caught" when I wade out beyond the safety net. I spend a lot of time in the deep end, mostly taking on water, but not detered in the least.

Prince
04-24-2003, 01:35 PM
i dont care.

GhosT^x0
04-24-2003, 01:39 PM
Originally posted by lil'surfer girl
So pretend I am someone else and fire it up.

Nope.

lil'surfer girl
04-24-2003, 01:41 PM
Damn you...what happened to the old ghost?
He'd never snub a challenge for a debate..NEVER!

Bluecifer
04-24-2003, 02:12 PM
I've gone out with some strippers and full on self admitted super sluts. It was a lot of fun and I never held it against them. As long as a chick is hot and treats me well, I don't care what she's done in the past. Also, if someone cheats on me, I don't get all huffy and hurt, I just leave.

Lei Tong
04-24-2003, 02:33 PM
Male or female, whores should die of gonorrhea, and rot in hell.

Aaron Bizarre
04-24-2003, 02:33 PM
There is no way it would be my fault if he cheated on me simply because he is predisposed to do so. Those are his issues, not mine.

There is a double standard here. A guy who sleeps around excessively is not necessarily looked upon as a "whore"...even his cheating, as long as it is with a hotter chick, is accepted by most. Man whores are not looked upon as dirty sluts to be used and cast aside, as someone stated they would do with a female whore.


for the cheating part I mean that staying with somebody you know is a cheater and having him hurt you by cheating is partially your fault. You should have seen it coming. You had the warning in other words. This is going back to your "forget thier past" statement. As with my example I wanted nothing to do with that girl. I found out she cheated on her Bf with me and has cheated on others before. Why would I be any differant? why bother sitting around to wait to see if I become the next victim.


As for Manwhorism, Alot of things cant be explained about societies "collective conscience". Double standards exist for both and this is one that is pro man. I understand how you feel about this as I feel similar everytime I see a girl kicking the **** out of her Bf or date and a circle of guys ready to beat his ass if he defends himself. Go Figure. I dont like man or women whores.

Zen
04-24-2003, 02:46 PM
After giving this some more thought this is what I've decided. If a person, man or woman, sleeps around, I have no problem with that. I like sex, and would like to have it more often, with more people. On the other hand, I already have a child with a woman I can't stand, and STD's are a frightening reality that I'd prefer not to have to deal with. Therefore, I'm very careful when it comes to selecting partners for myself. Sex is one of the greatest things in the world, and in a perfect world we could have it whenever, wherever and with whoever. But it's not a perfect world, there's STD's, pregnancy and more often than not feelings that get involved. If someone is a whore, male or female, that's cool, I'd prefer to be a male **** star or a male escort than doing the job I have now, but just be honest about who you are, that's all that I can and would ask of anyone. 100% truth, 100% of the time.

Bluecifer
04-24-2003, 02:48 PM
My name is Blue Bulldogge; and I am a whore.

lil'surfer girl
04-24-2003, 02:59 PM
Originally posted by Aaron Misery
for the cheating part I mean that staying with somebody you know is a cheater and having him hurt you by cheating is partially your fault. You should have seen it coming. You had the warning in other words. This is going back to your "forget thier past" statement. As with my example I wanted nothing to do with that girl. I found out she cheated on her Bf with me and has cheated on others before. Why would I be any differant? why bother sitting around to wait to see if I become the next victim.




I understand exactly what you are saying, but I can't say I agree with it. People who cheat make that decision on their own whether they have cheated in the past or not. Knowing someone cheated in the past and them using that as a defense against their cheating in the present is not acceptable nor can it be construed as the non-cheating partners fault. Certainly the warning signs were there and the non-cheating partner knew the risk, but the cheater is the only one who is at fault. Everyone has the ability to change if they choose to. I, for one, would be willing to take that risk if I truely cared for the person.

AgonYx0
04-24-2003, 03:03 PM
Originally posted by GhosT^x0
Nope.



SUCKER

lil'surfer girl
04-24-2003, 03:07 PM
No kidding agony! You fight better than he does!

Lei Tong
04-24-2003, 03:09 PM
Some people just don't deserve the benfit of the doubt.

Like most of my Ex's.

AgonYx0
04-24-2003, 03:10 PM
hahahahahaahaaa I guess today is one of his good days

Bluecifer
04-24-2003, 03:10 PM
This thread is rapidly becoming anti-hetero...

Lei Tong
04-24-2003, 03:13 PM
Don't you mean the antithesis of hetero?

Bluecifer
04-24-2003, 03:15 PM
Something like that...

Whoremaster B
04-24-2003, 03:50 PM
Once a cheater.............

Aaron Bizarre
04-24-2003, 04:12 PM
Certainly the warning signs were there and the non-cheating partner knew the risk, but the cheater is the only one who is at fault. Everyone has the ability to change if they choose to. I, for one, would be willing to take that risk if I truely cared for the person.

I hear you, but people who cheat are usually selfish and getting them to change is probably highly unlikely. Why take the chance,plenty of fish in the sea.