Bitchy tutors make out its an excuse my friends mom died and he aint been focused and just depressed and its 6 years on now..

I thinkin what else i can do for him or say?

is he using it as an excuse? im sure thats not right for his tutor to say!!??:ugh:

6 years. Get over it.

Bitchy tutors make out its an excuse my friends mom died and he aint been focused and just depressed and its 6 years on now..

I thinkin what else i can do for him or say?

is he using it as an excuse? im sure thats not right for his tutor to say!!??:ugh:

if it is actively effecting your friend, he/she needs therapy. you will always miss the person and may have days that are tough but to constantly be depressed and unfocused - therapy is needed or some meds.

My Mom passed 5 years ago......To be honest tho the death that had the biggest affect on me was when my best friend overdosed when we were 18.......It set me up for future experiences and now I deal with death much better than I did that first time it really hit home.Bottom line is it's a fact of life and theres no way around it.Try to be happy for people that lived a happy full life after they pass because thats what they would want.....And while it's very tragic for someone to die young it's part of life as well and everything happens for some reason whether it seem fair or not.

My Mother was 46 when she passed and my best friend was 18 and I was 17 when it happened........They say the good die young.

My Mom passed 5 years ago......To be honest tho the death that had the biggest affect on me was when my best friend overdosed when we were 18.......It set me up for future experiences and now I deal with death much better than I did that first time it really hit home.Bottom line is it's a fact of life and theres no way around it.Try to be happy for people that lived a happy full life after they pass because thats what they would want.....And while it's very tragic for someone to die young it's part of life as well and everything happens for some reason whether it seem fair or not.

My Mother was 46 when she passed and my best friend was 18 and I was 17 when it happened........They say the good die young.

My mates dad died at 48 too, he was 15 at the time.. :puppy_dog

When a loved one dies, a person misses him/her 6 years later just as much as that perons missed him/her in the first year, which is the hardest part. Like someone suggested though, if you actively show your depression about it, you need some kind of therapy.

When a loved one dies, a person misses him/her 6 years later just as much as that perons missed him/her in the first year, which is the hardest part. Like someone suggested though, if you actively show your depression about it, you need some kind of therapy.

everybody's different, some people are "weaker" than others. if they were really close, he could still be depressed about it. maybe the dude though his mother was the only person who would ever really love him. elvis presley was kind of like this, he was still bummed about his momma's death years later, some people never get over the death of someone they love

My Mom passed 5 years ago......To be honest tho the death that had the biggest affect on me was when my best friend overdosed when we were 18.......It set me up for future experiences and now I deal with death much better than I did that first time it really hit home.Bottom line is it's a fact of life and theres no way around it.Try to be happy for people that lived a happy full life after they pass because thats what they would want.....And while it's very tragic for someone to die young it's part of life as well and everything happens for some reason whether it seem fair or not.

My Mother was 46 when she passed and my best friend was 18 and I was 17 when it happened........They say the good die young.

My Mum died when I was 10 and she was only 35. Two years later one of my friend committed suicide over the fact he didn't want his parents finding out he smoked. My mums death had a much bigger impact on my life as, I was taking my year six SATs at that point and because of her passing I really didn't do anything to revise. So I passed with a mediocre grade and went more and more downhill. I picked up again in time for my GCSEs and became average again, so it's all good.

Death is never an easy thing to recover from (ha the way I worded that is funny), What I mean that when someone you know has died, you tend to see things in a different light. I definitely saw people in a different way. I noticed that a couple of week after the death they are very kind and see you everyday, but after that you don't hear from them at all.

Now I'm not sure if I'm reading it right, But your friends mum died and he's still depressed and his tutors is being a prick. If so tell your friend that all you gotta do is to be strong about it and try not think about it all the time.