what would it take for you to disown your child? (pretend you have a child)

what would it take for you to disown your child? (pretend you have a child)

i would never disown either of my kids. i would love them always no matter what they did, however, if one of them became a junkie and stole from me to support their habit, became a rapist, or murdered someone - that would not be accpetable. they would have to seek help/turn themselves in, truly change and regret what they did before i could let them back into my life.
basically if they were hurting themselves or others, i would have to keep my distance, but i would still write letters to them to let them know that i love them but encourage them to do what is right.

I wouldn't turn against them for being a Junkie. that is probably when they need my support the most. I know people who have been addicts and stuff and they came thruogh with help from their family

I wouldn't turn against them for being a Junkie. that is probably when they need my support the most. I know people who have been addicts and stuff and they came thruogh with help from their family

if one is truly a junkie, they won't get clean just living with me. an addict going cold turkey is brutal, but i would certainly support either of my boys and encourage them to go to a rehab. however, if they wanted to keep using and come to sunday dinner high - forget it. :nonono:

Yah. Have you seen that 'tv junkies' with rick Kirkham. Puts you off hard drugs.


I know people who were herion addicts and their family got them off that. But with rehab I think

if i had a kid i dont think i could turn my back on them ever , they never asked to be brought into the world and i will always offer my guidance

if i had a kid i dont think i could turn my back on them ever , they never asked to be brought into the world and i will always offer my guidance

absolutely

I would disown them if they are junkie. Because it like a cancer it could effect the others but I would still try to help him from a different way.

another thing I could kill him and alway bring more and tell the others how and idiot the first one was :D

but truthfully Fiesty you are asking if you got a child but usally when you have too many emotions and pressure on you back it hard to think what is right. It just hard in those sitaution like if you daughter was preganat before marriage or if you son smook crack.

But as they say preventation is better than the cure so it better to prevent things from happening

I would disown them if they are junkie. Because it like a cancer it could effect the others but I would still try to help him from a different way.

another thing I could kill him and alway bring more and tell the others how and idiot the first one was :D

but truthfully Fiesty you are asking if you got a child but usally when you have too many emotions and pressure on you back it hard to think what is right. It just hard in those sitaution like if you daughter was preganat before marriage or if you son smook crack.

But as they say preventation is better than the cure so it better to prevent things from happening

prevention--- that is true. i can only hope that we are raising our kids right so i won't have to worry about such things.

no but if they did something really really bad then maybe (i dont have kids btw)

prevention--- that is true. i can only hope that we are raising our kids right so i won't have to worry about such things.

that is what I want to do, because then I wont have to worry in going into a sitaution like that.

that is how not to get into trouble in anything in you life

what would it take for you to disown your child? (pretend you have a child)

I would never, disown our children.:D

The only possible thing I can think of is if he killed my wife/parents/other child. (If I had them)

i would never disown either of my kids. i would love them always no matter what they did, however, if one of them became a junkie and stole from me to support their habit, became a rapist, or murdered someone - that would not be accpetable. they would have to seek help/turn themselves in, truly change and regret what they did before i could let them back into my life.
basically if they were hurting themselves or others, i would have to keep my distance, but i would still write letters to them to let them know that i love them but encourage them to do what is right.

If any of my kids committed a serious crime or hurt anyone then I would disown them!

My brother attacked my dad badly, after I had sorted it all out I basically disowned him. This is off the back of him spending years lying, stealing and doing various unsavoury things to friends and family.

His wife encouraged us to assist her to get away from him, so I did which again ended in violence between me and my brother. She then went back to him and told a huge pack of complete lies about the entire family. Obviously we have nothing to do with her either. The sad thing is that there are children involved.

My point is I think is that there is a point to which we all cannot go beyond regardless of whether or not they are blood.

If my kid was black,asian,indian,gay,ugly,female I'd disown it

If my kid was black,asian,indian,gay,ugly,female I'd disown it

you should see Me,Myself and Iri the charater of Jim Carey he had three black and he didnt disown them

I would never disown my Kids.

Unless they became a rapist or terrorist or something along that line.

never never dis-own a child, never. only people who are allways there are the parent(s), dont let your child loose all hope, help and home.

what would it take for you to disown your child? (pretend you have a child)

Disown the only thing on this planet that I can truly call my own? Are you ****ing serious?

Disown the only thing on this planet that I can truly call my own? Are you ****ing serious?

as shocking as it may be, for some it would take next to nothing.

i would never disown my kid; however, i would never "enable" him to do things that hurt other people either (rape, murder, etc). i would support him and try to get him help.

Disown the only thing on this planet that I can truly call my own? Are you ****ing serious?

some people will do it just based on who their offspring chooses to date. as a matter of fact, some people will kill their offspring over that.

The only thing that would make me disown a child is if he/she was a definite danger to me or other members of my family (violence, sexually abusive etc.) and at that point I would still pray for them, but would feel helpless to interact with them responsibly

what would it take for you to disown your child? (pretend you have a child)

-hit his mother
-rape,murder,molest child

i'm sure i'll think of more

some people will do it just based on who their offspring chooses to date. as a matter of fact, some people will kill their offspring over that.

it'd take a lot less than that for some parents. i was disowned by my own family for telling my dad's wife to **** off after she spent two or three hours telling my sister and everyone else at a family renunion what a loser i am. i really lost my temper with her that day, i'd actually put up with that **** since they got married when i was 5 or 6 years old, right after my dad ****ed off on my mom. my dad and his ***** were very abusive, both physically and mentally when i was growing up. now if i see them, i no longer speak to them after that incident. i could still choose to talk to my dad, if i wanted to, but i just don't. except for hate i really feel nothing for my parents. it's funny because buddy chacon always was very interested in my dad becasue he's "famous" but i don't think the fact he was nominated for a juno award ( but didn't win) cover up the fact that he is a big part of the reason i still have no self esteem as an adult.

i don't have kids, i am divorced, and purposely didn't have children because i think i would be a monster with them. if i had children, though, coming from the perspective i come from - always being seen as a monster or a **** up, i'd love them no matter what they did, unless it was ****ing little kids or killing people for pleasure.

it'd take a lot less than that for some parents. i was disowned by my own family for telling my dad's wife to **** off after she spent two or three hours telling my sister and everyone else at a family renunion what a loser i am. i really lost my temper with her that day, i'd actually put up with that **** since they got married when i was 5 or 6 years old, right after my dad ****ed off on my mom. my dad and his ***** were very abusive, both physically and mentally when i was growing up. now if i see them, i no longer speak to them after that incident. i could still choose to talk to my dad, if i wanted to, but i just don't. except for hate i really feel nothing for my parents. it's funny because buddy chacon always was very interested in my dad becasue he's "famous" but i don't think the fact he was nominated for a juno award ( but didn't win) cover up the fact that he is a big part of the reason i still have no self esteem as an adult.

i don't have kids, i am divorced, and purposely didn't have children because i think i would be a monster with them. if i had children, though, coming from the perspective i come from - always being seen as a monster or a **** up, i'd love them no matter what they did, unless it was ****ing little kids or killing people for pleasure.

damn dude..your depressing me. Sorry you went through that

i wouldnt be able to accept if my child was gay or a rapist or a drug addict

what would it take for you to disown your child? (pretend you have a child)
If it turned out to be Anorak.

if i had a kid i dont think i could turn my back on them ever , they never asked to be brought into the world and i will always offer my guidance

i agree with you

damn dude..your depressing me. Sorry you went through that

i didn't think anybody reads my posts or i never would have put all that personal **** in there. i feel bad for depressing u / shattering your ilusions about me - haha dave, now u know i'm ****ed up. this place is my escape from real life, that's why i never talk about that stuff here, except for one other post in the training section that was an answer to this kid who wanted to kill himself because his parents are like mine and why he shouldn't do it. i'm almost as successful today as a writer as my dad is, and everybody told me i was a waste of skin. anyways, sorry dave, i didn't mean to ruin your day, bro

also, what i meant to say about the buddy chacon comment is this: buddy wants to worship my dad or something because he's been borderline sucessful at being famous, but my perspective ( and i actually know the man ) is that my dad is a piece of **** and my life would have been better if i never knew him. i'm not slamming u chacon, i'm just saying u shouldn't make judgements on people without knowing all the facts

Filthy. That was some hard **** to read. That type of brutal honesty kinda hits home. I feel for u matey. I could tell u tales of my life and dad but feel kinda weird doing it here.
The main thing tho is that i just watched Dawn of the Dead and lost my Sarah Polley virginity. Couldnt help but think about Dr Filth and his obsession. Id fight u for her.

...i will never disown a child of mine no matter what..i believe, it's a gift from my God...:bottle:

i have a goddaughter who is only 3 ,id die for her and treat her as my daughter

i dont think i could turn my back on her

Filthy. That was some hard **** to read. That type of brutal honesty kinda hits home. I feel for u matey. I could tell u tales of my life and dad but feel kinda weird doing it here.
The main thing tho is that i just watched Dawn of the Dead and lost my Sarah Polley virginity. Couldnt help but think about Dr Filth and his obsession. Id fight u for her.

that part where sara is on the roof with her hair in the two little golden braids and she's telling steve ( the yuppie ) off, if i'd been there i would have raped her until she was dead. i love sara polley, there's a scene in the weight of water ( a film where she does a lot of perverted sexual things ) where a puppy licks her face, i'd give anything to be that puppy

i would never disown my child (if i had one) because thats a part of you, id rather die than anything happen to him or her.

I was nearly ready to disown our Nigel two minutes ago! He churned the butter for 20 minutes less than we had asked him to; it was as lumpy as Helga the Martender's custard last wednesday!

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I'm glad Jr found me here. He's become a king around here, and rightfully so. Legend in the makin. :D

He is the future. :grouphug:

:mangler:

he would have to post on a boxing forum and call himself mangler the strangler