okay here's the thing.. I been chillin with my girl every night, i take care of her, etc.. im a good b/f. But before I went into this relationship i told her that fighting and training came before her, and she respected that because she knew what it takes to win.

So today I tell her durrin the day I'd chill with her tonight, like I do every night just about. but when I leave training, my coach tells me to go to the gym and do 30 minutes of running, 45 minutes of the bike, and lift a lil weights. So i come home, eat dinner, then call my girl up to tell her, "Hey, I can't chill with u tonight cuz my coach told me to do this and i wont have time to chill with u because of it."

then she gets all "No you need to be a man and live up to your word and come hang out with me.. I come before your coach and fighting.. its not a sport, its just an excuse to hit people.. you're brainwashed.. now i ask myself if you're really at teh gym?..you're too young to understand.. we could have a beautiful relationship.. one day of not doing what he says wont hurt your training.. u will see when your mom dies, that you should have spent more time with her and less time training..u dont understand"

Theres more.. but right about then I was like what the ****? .. yes, training comes before anything for me.. i train to be the best, i want to win and be a champion therefor i do everything my coach tells me to do. Then she says "If you don't call me when you come over tonight, (cuz u are comming over tonight), then dont ever bother calling me again." .. lol

So ofcourse i didnt call her. I had to go to the gym because my coach told me a specific regiment to complete before i went to bed. You know.. even if she calls tomorrow appologizing to me, I'm goin to tell her it's completely over. i dont need this ****, im not ***** wipped, .. and im a ****ing fighter. I dont need this **** standing in the way of it.

So for anyone who cares.. thats the latest of my drama bull-****. I am now single, once again... why cant girls ****ing understand this ****? .. one a these days imma find a girl who actually understands that in order to compete, I NEED TO TRAIN.. and actually do what my coach tells me to do.

dude, not cool.

You told her up front what the deal was and she got crazy. Not cool.

besdies, u can get other girls.

She is a woman what do you expect. I bet some good **** would cheer her up.

Then again dude she could have really been looking foward to chillin' with you. She prolly loves you dude, or some form of that stupid ****ing word.

Yea.. but to hold on to them once they find out I fight and train my ****ing ass off is the hard part.

I hate women but I love them at the same time. They give you so much **** for BS but man it seems worth it. I miss my girl...

Not my most recent g/f the one before that. My last girlfriend, we were only together for 2 months but I dumped her because I saw a bunch of those red flags that say "GET THE **** OUT" She was hot too. Wanna see a pic?

****in' guilt riden, power trippin, mind games piss me off more than anything in a relationship. It is just so unnecessary.

Ill send my sympathies to you Matt, but I'm more proud that you would not allow this girl to stand in the way of your dreams.

Only been date'n this damn girl for a month.. shes told me she loves me, but i dont tell her it back.. god damnit, u cant love someone when u've only known em for a month. this is way to much dramma from a girl after one ****ing month.

yea, way to stand up.

Aww **** I forgot where I put it. Well her name was candi she was asian and ****ing hot.

Originally posted by Matt Jensen
Only been date'n this damn girl for a month.. shes told me she loves me, but i dont tell her it back.. god damnit, u cant love someone when u've only known em for a month. this is way to much dramma from a girl after one ****ing month.

Holly ****. That's a red flag.

Originally posted by Matt Jensen
Only been date'n this damn girl for a month.. shes told me she loves me, but i dont tell her it back.. god damnit, u cant love someone when u've only known em for a month. this is way to much dramma from a girl after one ****ing month.

Two weeks ago, I was half-heartedly proposed to after 3 months of casual dating.....scared the living **** out of me and now I am a complete emotional basketcase. I don't care if I ever get serious again. I suck at relationships.

will u mary me?

lol.. ok ok bad joke.. wrong time, wrong thread. Yea.. I'm really good in relationships. I listen, i talk, I make time for my girl almost every day.. i take her out, i even hold the door open for her.. i dont rush anything.. im sweet and carring.. open minded.. treat her real good.. i make them cumm soo many times each and every time me and a girl has passionate sex .. but they cant deal with the training and fighting.. GOD DAMNIT!!!!!

Where the **** are you right now, Matt?

LOL yea matt, I wana cum too!

Matt, I feel your pain. G/f's are ****in crazy and way to time consuming while training. I also completely agree you can't love someone after a month its just unrealistic. I ran into similar problems with the X. She never believed iwas training when i was. Crazy *****. Bit props for standing up for your beliefs its definately hard to do with women. If you need a shoulder to cry on I'm here for ya man.

You, sir, are a real man!

Don't let that woman push you around. Show her who's the boss! If she mouths off at you, sock her one in the teeth.

That'll learn her!

- The Jake

PS: Takes heart to be able to do that to someone. A weaker man would have buckled. Just remember that Rocky didn't stop when Adrian told him not to train. And he went on to make five movies!

about the 1 month love thing.it can happen.chances are this chick says that to all steady boyfriends.a lot of them do.you feel like you can not fall in love that fast cause you have not met her yet. when it happens, you will surely know it and you will be feeling it sooner than a month.you may not see it, but you will feel it,

then cut her up and eat her

Jerk off, less bull****, less time, less money. You can do it before training, after training, in the shower. You don't need a woman when you've got a hand.

OOOOOOOOOOHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OOOH OOOOH OOOOHHH OOOHHHHHH!!!!!!

Sore subject!!! Because I dated a girl once who had the exact same thing to me!!!!!!! ****, does that **** piss me off!!!!!

She said you were brainwashed?!?!?!?! **** that!!!! If some chick told me I was brainwashed into believing I was going to be the best fighter in the world, I'd tell her I was no more or less brainwashed when I was thinking she was a quality catch. OoOoOoOoohhh.... that's right missy, take that one to the bank and don't wait around on the interest.

Your girl should understand that in order for you to fulfill yourself as a person (which eseentially, is necessary for you to be able to fulfill anyone else), you need to expand yourself as you see fit... and for her to say that she's more important on a short term basis than your long-term expansion, THEN to compound it by offering you some ****ed-over line about you being brainwashed and mislead down your path to glory, is just plain ****ed. If this is the chick that I was wishing you good things for, perhaps I spoke too soon... you're way too ****in good at what you do for anyone to tell you that you're brainwashed or incapable of achieveing what you work for. **** that. That's some dangerous **** to be caught up with, man.

I just split with my lady too, and in her absence, I plan on training like a beast. You should do the same... not saying you didn't already, but perhaps use that time you spent with her to push yourself a little bit harder. You've got a lot going for you, and I admire your ability to prioritize your career before your personal life at such a young age. You wouldn't believe how many weak-suck ****s I know who, even pushin 30 years old, can't do the same. Good ****.

You always give awsome responses, lol.. that makes me feel better, all of this makes me feel better...

sorry to hear that Matt...but you need someone who understand YOUR GOALS anyway

...this is true..

A good woman will value and appreciate your will and desire to be the best you possibly can on your chosen path.

This should motivate you if nothing else, in 5 years when you're world renowned champion Matt Jensen, she can look back and see how ****ing stupid she was.

Yeah... what all of them said.

Better yet, you can eat garlic without some chick *****in about your breath. Garlic is good for your blood, and good blood = good fighter.

yea true.. focus more on fighting.. train more.. etc. But there's still a part of me that wants a girl in my corner along with my team. Im like the fighter that craves a loving relationship, ****ing sux. But i could do with out it for a while and just focus on training i guess.

wow matt and dave are heartbreakers, both your girlfriends love youguys after a month,Thats crazy

It's cuz we're desireable.

Matt, you're a good guy... you can find a caliber chick no problem man, same with me if I had the time/ patience/ motivation/ desire to be with a woman that much. Fact is, I spent too long with a girl who really went out of her way to **** me over, and it's because of this that I realize how much more effective I can be when my only guiding light is the one I offer myself.

This last girlfriend I had was the best I'd found in months... many months... years, even, probably the smartest and most insightful person I've met in years... and sure, part of me regrets breaking up with her, but another part of me is still seething over all the **** I had to put up with as a result of being with her, and for now, that feeling is driving me to train, get under 190, and be all I can be in the cage or ring. When I want a girlfriend, I'll probably get one.

SOme people just aren't meant to be in a relationship.

SOme people just aren't meant to be in a relationship.

***** I know you're not talkin about me. Love/sex/ladies is a part of me i can never let go. I am meant to be in a relationship. But I'm meant to be in a relationship with ladies who actually understand that I need to train and fight, which is hard to come by for me. )= ...but eventually I'll find a lady who doesnt mind.

I'm not talking anyone in particular, just throwing out an observation.

BTW- Thou art the pee-pee head!

I've yet to meet a lady who doesn't mind her fighter boyfriend being a ripped killing machine. If you find one, shoot her my way, and tell her to take off the Nun's shawl before we meet, cuz I'll bag that **** quicker than that cute little blonde chick at the supermarket bags my groceries when I tell her I prefer plastic and give her that look.

Well all the ladies I've dated in the past hate it. They dont hate how i treat them like queens, or that im honest and will never cheat, and they dont hate how I'm just about a perfect b/f.

They just hate how I love to kick ass in competition, and hate that i have to work out and stay fit, and they hate how I haveto train for long periods of time in order to win my matches. I keep hearing about girls that dig this ****, I just never meet them or date them, wtf? you would think girls would feel safer with me, and would want me to keep training and fighting?.. one of these days ill meet a chick that digs fighters for real , then ill be set.

i Say you guys are young life is to short have fun being single..it gets lonley, i should no, but **** it

Sounds to me like Matt and Dave should hook up. You can train together, eat together, lift together, sleep together, and at the end of your long hard days training you can give each other back rubs.

I'm the type of person that needs a lady in my life.. whether it be relationship, g/f, friend with benefits, etc.. it helps me maintain balance and keep sanity. I cant be all hate, or a ****ing training/fighting machine.. i need some sort or form of love and contact with females.

Yeah... and hookers don't like to snuggle.

My recent X was totaly ok with it in the begining. she actually encouraged me but that all changed.

wow. if it helps...

i love you, matt :lovers:
i will stand in your corner baby

i hate relationships,they bite ass

Originally posted by Matt Jensen
Well all the ladies I've dated in the past hate it. They dont hate how i treat them like queens, or that im honest and will never cheat, and they dont hate how I'm just about a perfect b/f.

They just hate how I love to kick ass in competition, and hate that i have to work out and stay fit, and they hate how I haveto train for long periods of time in order to win my matches. I keep hearing about girls that dig this ****, I just never meet them or date them, wtf? you would think girls would feel safer with me, and would want me to keep training and fighting?.. one of these days ill meet a chick that digs fighters for real , then ill be set.

Feelin that ****.

I'll massage your rectum if you ask nice.

I've begun to think that you live too close to Tanner for your own heterosexual good.

You will never hear me and Matt exchange euphenisms about rectal rubs or butt darts. Instead, we will talk about women and the divinity of our appreciation for them, while you and Tan man talk about massaging asscheek and being backdoor bandits.

Jake's post made me **** my pants. I think I'm going to have a good signature for a change now...

They call me Superman
Leap tall hoes in a single bound, I'm single now
Got no ring on this finger now
I'd never let another chick bring me down
in a relationship, save it *****
Babysit? You make me sick
Superman ain't savin ****
Girl you can jump on Shady's dick
Straight from the hip, cut to the chase
I tell a muh'****in slut to her face
Play no games, say no names
Ever since I broke up with what's-her-face
I'm a different man, kiss my ass
Kiss my lips, ***** why ask?
Kiss my dick - get my cash?
I'd rather have you whip my ass
Don't put out, I'll put you out
Won't get out, I'll push you out
Puss blew out, poppin ****
Wouldn't piss on fire to put you out
Am I too nice, to buy you ice?
***** if you died, wouldn't buy you life
What you tryin to be my new wife?
What you Mariah? Fly through twice

Dave, narcissim is homosexuality in its own way.

Originally posted by Lei Tong
Dave, narcissim is homosexuality in its own way.

You're supposed to defend GhosT^x0!!!! Tanner's the one who left you outside the stripclub till sunrise, not me.

i'll defend u dave... :) Not that you need your little sister to defend you, but i can talk som ****, so what do u say........lol

Tanner's the one who left you outside the stripclub till sunrise, not me.

Damn thats rough.

Lei Tong is no challenge for you. Wanna hear a funny story though?

We all went to UFC 36 in Vegas and Lei Tong was with us. I guess that group of people (Tanner, Sabretooth, couple of Tanner's friends and Tong) decided to go to the stripclub. The only problem is that Tong is only like 12 years old, so he had to kick rocks in front of a ****ing strip club while the rest of the boys got to slip dollar bills down the g-strings of some top notch Vegas strip coot. They didn't come out till sunrise. They found his ass sleeping against a wall when they came out like 6 hours later.

Originally posted by GhosT^x0
Lei Tong is no challenge for you. Wanna hear a funny story though?

We all went to UFC 36 in Vegas and Lei Tong was with us. I guess that group of people (Tanner, Sabretooth, couple of Tanner's friends and Tong) decided to go to the stripclub. The only problem is that Tong is only like 12 years old, so he had to kick rocks in front of a ****ing strip club while the rest of the boys got to slip dollar bills down the g-strings of some top notch Vegas strip coot. They didn't come out till sunrise. They found his ass sleeping against a wall when they came out like 6 hours later. MAKES ME LAUGH EVERYTIME I HEAR THIS


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA

Yeah, but I got 2 of those bastards back.

How?

Damn thats some messed up ****.... Lei Tong you should have shook the spot and not waited in front of a strip club that long, you should have at least gone to sleep in a damn bed....

I'd rather not say in public, lest my supple, 12 year old ass be marked for death.

I would want to have to go Steven Seagal on somebody...

And by that I mean crying and sobbing to the grandy jury.

Originally posted by Lei Tong
I'd rather not say in public, lest my supple, 12 year old ass be marked for death.

I would want to have to go Steven Seagal on somebody...

And by that I mean crying and sobbing to the grandy jury. TRANSLATION:

I didnt do **** about it.

As it was, Tanner had made a complete and utter mistake while booking the trip, and we would not have a room for another 8 hours.

It was not a good trip for me, considering Rampage's mental mugging of me. However, I could have had better luck with the ladies than Tanner did (had I chosen to), who acted as nothin more than a **** blocker.

Well, one thing I did do actually became meta-payback, although that was thanks more or less to the inconsiderateness of Tanner's friends, who would let him be labled a **** smoker for about 6 hours.

awww Matt sorry to hear that~~~

ya need to find yourself a girl that'll say "OK, have fun honey, I'll see ya when you get home. I'm going dancin'!" :noangel:
Heh heh, that's what I say...of course, the Man doesn't always like to hear that...

That doesnt bother me. If i found a girl that actually understood that I need to train, i wouldnt even care if she went out clubb'n or whatever while I was training. To find a girl that actually understands that I'm a ****ing fighter that needs to train my ass off, is extremely hard to come by. It's not like I'm spending time with other girls, just that I'm training and not spending every waking minute with her, (all my g/f's are like that). god damn!! I know a lot of fighters that have good steady g/f's and wifes.. so i know its possible.

thats a real bull**** reason to trip on a dude even more cause she new what she was getting in to, are you sure its just not that time of the month for her????

I don't know what to tell you. I'm not getting laid at the current time. so I will say go to hell *******.

No, she's not on her period. And yea, I tell all the girls i date that I'm a fighter.. im training to be the best i can be, and i need to train my ass off with my team.. (i even invite them down to watch me train if they dont ****ing believe thats where im at!!). She just doesnt get it, like most girls now adays. But whatever, my passion and bigger goals come before anyone.

Thats good that u think of ur self first, so what is it does she think u cheat on her or is she just plan out trippin?

Yes, they are out there. You'll find one one day.

No this girl is straight out trippin over nuthin. But she's done after this lil episode, **** this ****. She doesn't like how I did what my coach told me to do last night before i went to bed, instead of goin over to her house and watching t.v. with her. That's it. There's nuthin else to it. She doesn't like how I train, how much time i spend training, and how i do everything my coach tells me to do. lol, stupidest **** in the world.. but a lot of girls cant hang with that, so i dont blame her. But shes gone.

well im sure u will find a girl that will be cool with how you do things, i mean ive gone off on my man for the stupidest **** but this one i gotta tell u is waaaaaaay out there

So i just got outta training.. bout to go to the gym and go on the bike and lift a lil bit for the rest of the night.. I get out of training and i have 32 missed calls, (all from her durring the duration of my training session)... then i come online and i get and e-mail.. "I'm not a psycho like u think I am.. but I'm going to keep calling you until U talk to me again." .. oh my god. .. im goin to call her back.. she doesnt get it.

HEADBUTT!!!!!

No ****...in my nearly 27 years, I have learnt one thing...women are shrewd, conniving and ruthless when it comes to getting what they want. There are exceptions to the rule for sure, my current girl doesn't stress about whatever I do which is good, she does her thing, I do mine, but a vast majority of all previous have had serious issues with what I did when they weren't around. All I can say is good luck Matt finding someone that gets you and what you are about. If you find her, hang on to it, cause it is worth it

shes sprung

The sexual tension between PA and Matt is so intense I just got wood.

Yeah, I bet they ****.......

In answer to your sig, yes, yes I am.

Originally posted by LukeDothSucketh
The sexual tension between PA and Matt is so intense I just got wood.


You have problems

Originally posted by kaps
Yeah, I bet they ****.......


and you have problems just as well

Originally posted by Matt Jensen
u cant love someone when u've only known em for a month.


I think that is totally wrong. I have loved ALL kinds of women that I only knew for an hour or so. BTW I think Rich is single, you to would make a good couple.



Wilhelm

..ur a ***. i stuck my dick up it and rich screamed like a dolphin and sea-world when you try and **** their breathing-hole. I'm ready for April 6th.

Originally posted by Matt Jensen
..ur a ***. i stuck my dick up it and rich screamed like a dolphin and sea-world when you try and **** their breathing-hole. I'm ready for April 6th.

I just printed 100 copies of that and I am on my way to drop them off at Chillers as I type this.



Wilhelm

Bring it.

and i meant "at Sea World" .. not "and Sea World"

awww, I think a month can be long enough~:lovers:

Originally posted by Valerie
awww, I think a month can be long enough~:lovers:


Shut up what do you know?


:lovers: "peeleft:


Wilhelm

:mad: waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!

I know enough

did I mention that Wilhelm is a very mean man??!!!