alright heres the deal.

what do they really want in a guy??.

in my case, the girl i want, she is a classy type chick...

Do they want u to be nice all the time, do they want u to disagree with them or turn your back on them???

Give me some tips boys and gals on finding the best methods to go out with this babe..

Thanks!

alright heres the deal.

what do they really want in a guy??.

in my case, the girl i want, she is a classy type chick...

Do they want u to be nice all the time, do they want u to disagree with them or turn your back on them???

Give me some tips boys and gals on finding the best methods to go out with this babe..

Thanks!


honestly, it ALL depnds on her personality.
but if you were to generalize, i'd say that most women want a confident man who has a good sense of humor and treats them with respect. at the same time, you have to have your own opinion. it's okay to disagree on something, but if you become an arrogant asshole while disagreeing, most women don;t like that. i would also say that men who try to play hard to get by not calling the girl when they are really interested are just stupid. if you like the girl, you have to let her know. playing games isn't fun for anyone.

i would also say that men who try to play hard to get by not calling the girl when they are really interested are just stupid. if you like the girl, you have to let her know. playing games isn't fun for anyone.

Sweetie I think you're mistaking hard to get for not having a pair.

And the rest of your post was right on the money.

But then you have to remember if youre always calling the girl up and saying how much you like her, depending on the girl, they will take advantage of this and play you about.

But then you have to remember if youre always calling the girl up and saying how much you like her, depending on the girl, they will take advantage of this and play you about.

How can she play you if you're always on the phone with her, or aspiring to see her at the next soonest possible time?

If anything she's playing whoever she was involved with. You become that mysterious phone call person that every guy want's to murder.

Because she knows she has you so she can **** you about

thanks for your responses!

the deal is, i havent seen her in like 4 years since i finished school.

i hooked up with her the other day and the interaction was good... maybe too good.. (i think i was i alittle too nice). anyway she is always keen to see me, but im hopefull that my first impression of being that nice didnt put her off...
ps i am usually always a nice person. haha

thanks for your responses!

the deal is, i havent seen her in like 4 years since i finished school.

i hooked up with her the other day and the interaction was good... maybe too good.. (i think i was i alittle too nice). anyway she is always keen to see me, but im hopefull that my first impression of being that nice didnt put her off...
ps i am usually always a nice person. haha

nothing wrong with being nice. honestly. we like nice guys ;)
just be yourself. be confident.

Sweetie I think you're mistaking hard to get for not having a pair.

And the rest of your post was right on the money.

i have often heard men giving other men advice not to call a girl right away after getting a phone number or after the first date. i never quite understood the logic in that. :thinking: :dunno:

nothing wrong with being nice. honestly. we like nice guys ;)
just be yourself. be confident.

I always thought that the whole "girls only go for assholes" argument is no more than an excuse, kinda like "yeah I did not get the girl but thats because I am a nice guy and that stupid whore like the bad ones".

I always thought that the whole "girls only go for assholes" argument is no more than an excuse, kinda like "yeah I did not get the girl but thats because I am a nice guy and that stupid whore like the bad ones".

i would say that women do not like men who act like arrognat pricks; however, if they are extremely good-looking or rich, many shallow women will tolerate it. i would say that it is the women with unresolved issues that are attracted to the men that are not nice and treat them poorly.

i would say that women do not like men who act like arrognat pricks; however, if they are extremely good-looking or rich, many shallow women will tolerate it. i would say that it is the women with unresolved issues that are attracted to the men that are not nice and treat them poorly.

Well, Fiesty, thats the whole'nother argument, but my point was that women dont usually go for a guy whose dominant property is prickiness, or if they do than I am going monk

Well, Fiesty, thats the whole'nother argument, but my point was that women dont usually go for a guy whose dominant property is prickiness, or if they do than I am going monk

lol! you are correct :D

lol! you are correct :D

Yes, we agree on that, so how is life?

girls are so hard to get?!

I disagree.

All you need is a hammer and a big trunk.

i wrote this in another thread on another topic also..

ok, sure chicks want a challenge and not a man thats easy to get..
but what kinda challenges are they after????

ladies on BS might be best to answer this....

alright heres the deal.

what do they really want in a guy??.

in my case, the girl i want, she is a classy type chick...

Do they want u to be nice all the time, do they want u to disagree with them or turn your back on them???

Give me some tips boys and gals on finding the best methods to go out with this babe..

Thanks!

Just be yourself. If the girl likes you great, if not, then that's not the girl for you.

Most of the time women just want your attention. Don't make it too complicated.

On finding the best methods to go out with the "babe". I suggest you start with a "Hi. My name is _________." Then go from there.

Hope it helps.
Good luck.

The point about waiting to call is spot on. If you really like her then just call. It will show her that you like her and not leave her wondering/possibly thinking you're not interested and going out with someone else. Just make sure you're not creepy when you call.

Yes, we agree on that, so how is life?

life is good.
how about for you? got a steady girlfriend yet?

life is good.
how about for you? got a steady girlfriend yet?

not really, but I am working on it.

Because calling them right away may make you sound desperate. And it will make them wait longer.

I dont like games like this but I think calling straight away I dunno, Id leave it a few days maybe

Sneak up behind her, slap on a rear naked choke and go to town.

Textbook rape right there.

i have often heard men giving other men advice not to call a girl right away after getting a phone number or after the first date. i never quite understood the logic in that. :thinking: :dunno:

Women want what they can't get.

That's what I've always gone by, my mate wanted to call a girl as soon as he got home when she gave him his number, I told him to chill out and wait a while longer, but not long enough to the point where she thinks you aren't interested and gets somebody else to fill the spot.

just treat em well n thell be good 2 u

All girls are ****ing jokes. THey say they want this and that, but once you get with them, they tend to take everything back. As in if a girl is looking for a guy to treat her nice and he does, they go on and say he to soft. They girls want to and say that to argue is a good thing. What the **** ya want? Im to nice then im soft, Im not nice im grimey.

That's why you have sex with them and leave them. Let them learn! Girls says "I want a man whos gonna treat me nice" The bitch gets the man and now gets tired of him. Trust no bitch. Use what god gave you. Enjoy the thrusting! haha

SUAVE!

Well, Fiesty, thats the whole'nother argument, but my point was that women dont usually go for a guy whose dominant property is prickiness, or if they do than I am going monk

nah, u never have to worry about this chopobollokov. i'm an asshole, and i'm almost always single. i don't think girls just go for assholes, if that were true i'd be getting laid every night but i'm alot closer to monk than u are. odin/ oleg, with your looks, u could be an asshole and still hook up with some fine women

Through my years of experience, I have found that you have to be an ass hole at least part of the time. Girls that I treated well always seem to walk all over me. Girls that I treated like shit for at least half of the time, I couldn't get rid of.

Women should come with a caution lable. Or at least common sense. :)

As a girl I can say I perfer a aggressive/assertive male thats confident and responsible. Not overly cocky but some cockyness is fine. I can say I'd like some sort of balance from a guy. You know, lustful, but also romantic and did I forget to say lustful? Women are different from men. I know there are some women outthere screaming equal rights. While I do agree with that, we're equal (rights wise) but different. I can speak for myself, I like the idea of just cuddling with a guy, then the next, my hair wrapped around his hand and bent over- ;) I can simply go from one to the other. You just have to know men. They really like a girl thats loyal to them. I don't get jealous quickly, or at least I don't show it. Men look at other women, they talk about other women, their will always be other women. And there will always be bossy bitchy ordering around spineless men. Or spineless women being owned by a man fists of fear of being alone. (sigh)
Ladies just need to know men, and men need to know the ladies.
What do women want? The world may never know. But I know what I want LOL

As a girl I can say I perfer a aggressive/assertive male thats confident and responsible. Not overly cocky but some cockyness is fine. I can say I'd like some sort of balance from a guy. You know, lustful, but also romantic and did I forget to say lustful? Women are different from men. I know there are some women outthere screaming equal rights. While I do agree with that, we're equal (rights wise) but different. I can speak for myself, I like the idea of just cuddling with a guy, then the next, my hair wrapped around his hand and bent over- ;) I can simply go from one to the other. You just have to know men. They really like a girl thats loyal to them. I don't get jealous quickly, or at least I don't show it. Men look at other women, they talk about other women, their will always be other women. And there will always be bossy bitchy ordering around spineless men. Or spineless women being owned by a man fists of fear of being alone. (sigh)
Ladies just need to know men, and men need to know the ladies.
What do women want? The world may never know. But I know what I want LOL
been there done that, i remember the time i was ****ing my girl and talking to my mom on the other side of the door lol that was some funny shit and i almost got caught
:thinking: :thinking:

I was going to ask disfranchised to marry me until that second bit

I took this name from my brother since he aint wanna use it. Note the difference in the typing grammer.

I took this name from my brother since he aint wanna use it. Note the difference in the typing grammer.

riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. lol. ;) :rolleyes:

Tottally ruined it. Ill find another member to wank over

Tottally ruined it. Ill find another member to wank over

there's always Rainbow Smite, i'm always wanking over her, when i'm not wanking to my bettie page collection or watching maribel verdu ( the most beautiful woman alive ) in y tu mama tambien and wanking. damn, matty, no wonder i have such strong wrists

Get paid Get laid. Women want strong powefull and rich types to look after them. They say i'm independent yabayabayaba they ain't. They just to dog ugly to find anyone that wants to feed them.

honestly, it ALL depnds on her personality.
but if you were to generalize, i'd say that most women want a confident man who has a good sense of humor and treats them with respect. at the same time, you have to have your own opinion. it's okay to disagree on something, but if you become an arrogant asshole while disagreeing, most women don;t like that. i would also say that men who try to play hard to get by not calling the girl when they are really interested are just stupid. if you like the girl, you have to let her know. playing games isn't fun for anyone.

^^^ exactly! Especialy the bottom part..who want's to be played?? :rolleyes:

I dont know, the girls do it all the time.

girls are not hard to get, its finding one thats worth keeping thats the trouble...........Rockin'

Good looking girls want a well rounded man.....

Great looking girls love a man with money, good looks, and a big penis.

girls are not hard to get, its finding one thats worth keeping thats the trouble...........Rockin'

i think thats the winner.

Don't go for gals that you don't have anything in common with. Communication is so important that you guys have to have a common ground. There needs to be at least one thing that you guys really like talking to each other about. It can't be sex either. That's right, you guys have to be able to talk about something that is not related to sex.

If you aren't nice, be respectful. There is no gaurantee that she thinks you're a keeper either.

its all about confidence...

Make it easy on yourself and come to Thailand. MOST Western women are stuck up little bitches. Though come to think of it, Thai girls want the same thing Western women want - confidence & cash (and at least half way decent looks help), it's just cheaper and easier in Asia.

you dont necessarily need cash to get women (though if you wear expensive clothes and sunglasses, you will get women). what you really need is confidence. take the pussy off the pedestal and realize that you have just as much to offer a girl as she has to offer you.

if someone can't "get" a girl, it is usually because they are picking the wrong kind of girls (bitches or just girls out of their league, so to speak) or the guy has nothing to offer that is immediately evident.


if you are not especially attractive but have a wonderful personality and the girl doesn;t give you a chance, she isn't someone you would want any way.

As a girl I can say I perfer a aggressive/assertive male thats confident and responsible. Not overly cocky but some cockyness is fine. I can say I'd like some sort of balance from a guy. You know, lustful, but also romantic and did I forget to say lustful? Women are different from men. I know there are some women outthere screaming equal rights. While I do agree with that, we're equal (rights wise) but different. I can speak for myself, I like the idea of just cuddling with a guy, then the next, my hair wrapped around his hand and bent over- ;) I can simply go from one to the other. You just have to know men. They really like a girl thats loyal to them. I don't get jealous quickly, or at least I don't show it. Men look at other women, they talk about other women, their will always be other women. And there will always be bossy bitchy ordering around spineless men. Or spineless women being owned by a man fists of fear of being alone. (sigh)
Ladies just need to know men, and men need to know the ladies.
What do women want? The world may never know. But I know what I want LOL

Bitch, this ain't Match.com. They've got Craigslist for cheapskates like you. Quit posting personals on Boxingscene please!

nothing wrong with being nice. honestly. we like nice guys ;)
just be yourself. be confident.

Girl, all of you advice is non sequitur. You don't even know what you want. Check it:

Confidence = Arrogance = Jerk = Prick = Asshole = Game

Nice Guy = Shyguy = Soft = Doormat = Pussy = No Game

All in all, Confidence breeds assholes, and being nice breeds pussies who sleep alone.

NO GOOD DEED GOES UNPUNISHED!

Bitch, this ain't Match.com. They've got Craigslist for cheapskates like you. Quit posting personals on Boxingscene please!



Girl, all of you advice is non sequitur. You don't even know what you want. Check it:

Confidence = Arrogance = Jerk = Prick = Asshole = Game

Nice Guy = Shyguy = Soft = Doormat = Pussy = No Game

All in all, Confidence breeds assholes, and being nice breeds pussies who sleep alone.

NO GOOD DEED GOES UNPUNISHED!
there is a difference between confidence and just being an asshole.
i need a man with confidence but i never dated any assholes. i won't tolerate that, but that's just me :o

GiantWang live is a bit of a binary world.....

alright heres the deal.

what do they really want in a guy??.

in my case, the girl i want, she is a classy type chick...

Do they want u to be nice all the time, do they want u to disagree with them or turn your back on them???

Give me some tips boys and gals on finding the best methods to go out with this babe..

Thanks!

dude, it's not the girl...it's you! You're probably not creating tension inside her. Nice guys to girls = wuss bag! Girls ARE NOT attracted to nice guys, they would rather go out and spend time with someone who is cocky and makes them laugh. You may come off as a jerk to some, but they will have you on thier minds when they go to bed at nite.....that is a female for ya! Buying her things, and being this nice guy ALL THE TIME will only have her put you in her "Friend" category. Don't over stay your welcome and be first to hang up the phone, let her know you got a life and are busy. Calling her everyday = stalking, desperate, unsecure = WUSS BAG!

Take charge, take her to a place where lots of girls know you, just the "hey what's up, dude!" type. Ay, Dancer, letting her know that you are confident and don't sweat any girl, will have her finding you attractive and you'll come off as a real man.

Dude....bust her balls! And by all means don't act like a wuss.

dude, it's not the girl...it's you! You're probably not creating tension inside her. Nice guys to girls = wuss bag! Girls ARE NOT attracted to nice guys, they would rather go out and spend time with someone who is cocky and makes them laugh. You may come off as a jerk to some, but they will have you on thier minds when they go to bed at nite.....that is a female for ya! Buying her things, and being this nice guy ALL THE TIME will only have her put you in her "Friend" category. Don't over stay your welcome and be first to hang up the phone, let her know you got a life and are busy. Calling her everyday = stalking, desperate, unsecure = WUSS BAG!

Take charge, take her to a place where lots of girls know you, just the "hey what's up, dude!" type. Ay, Dancer, letting her know that you are confident and don't sweat any girl, will have her finding you attractive and you'll come off as a real man.

Dude....bust her balls! And by all means don't act like a wuss.
That was probably the best answer ^^.

On a side note... I went for a girl I thought was out of my league and realised she was out of mine. Looks can be deceiving.

It's plain and simple. If you think girls are too hard to get, you're either
1. Too ****ing picky
2. Too ****ing ugly
3. See #2

Some of you cats have been reading dating tips or some shit way too long.......real women don't like 'assholes', as some people claim they do. They like a man who is confident in what he does, isn't afraid and fearful to do shit, and good looks are a plus too.

These 'assholes' you speak of can probably bang some decent bitches but the type that they can have fun with are the type that will cheat on you, cheat on you some more, and cheat on you some more. Those types of hoes aren't worth it one bit....

real women know how to treat a man and are kind, sweet, opinionated when they need to be, etc etc...real men are actually decent, good guys with values and morals but also with an edge and can be an asshole when they need to be..

just my two cents fellas.

It's plain and simple. If you think girls are too hard to get, you're either
1. Too ****ing picky
2. Too ****ing ugly
3. See #2

nah thats not true....i know very good looking dudes who can't keep a girl for the life of them.

alright heres the deal.

what do they really want in a guy??.

in my case, the girl i want, she is a classy type chick...

Do they want u to be nice all the time, do they want u to disagree with them or turn your back on them???

Give me some tips boys and gals on finding the best methods to go out with this babe..

Thanks!


That question always depends on the girl. If she truly is really classy then you should go the indirect route. She dosen't want to be picked up, she wants a friendship that will develop into more. Try to find common interests, genuine common interests, the more "classy" a girl is the sharper she is at seeing where your coming from when your being fake and she won't judge you for it, she'll just move in the other direction (figuratively). Find a common interest and just be her friend, make sure your a good listener too and don't try too hard, just relax.

nah thats not true....i know very good looking dudes who can't keep a girl for the life of them.

You better be a chick! haha

Naw, but I know where you're getting at though.
Those guys just suck, I mean you like me got the looks :afro: .. Damn, go get the hot chicks and **** her and get a new one haha!

naw... wut it is.. about 95% of chicks are too shy or old fashioned to come up to you and make the 1st move.. girls still think the guy is the one who has make 1st move.. youll get a very select few outspoken girls who will come up to you no problem and say what there thinking (these ones are ususally the dirty sluts).. but thr the majority of girls: she can be checkin yer sh!t out all night and you would never know it.. as soon as you look at her they be lookin away all snob like they dont give a fuk to look at you... its abig game really.. they think you gota straight up notice them and know what there thinkin.. in the end, if you attracted to some chick, just go and talk to her.. its what she's waitin for...

lol women...:rolleyes:

Some of you cats have been reading dating tips or some shit way too long.......real women don't like 'assholes', as some people claim they do. They like a man who is confident in what he does, isn't afraid and fearful to do shit, and good looks are a plus too.

These 'assholes' you speak of can probably bang some decent bitches but the type that they can have fun with are the type that will cheat on you, cheat on you some more, and cheat on you some more. Those types of hoes aren't worth it one bit....

real women know how to treat a man and are kind, sweet, opinionated when they need to be, etc etc...real men are actually decent, good guys with values and morals but also with an edge and can be an asshole when they need to be..

just my two cents fellas.
Yo, you're so right Smokin! The thing is...that is MARRIAGE MATERIAL that women look for! THAT is the kind of dude they want to "MARRY"! Until i kept making the same mistakes, over and over again, I found that girls want to "GO OUT" (key words) with, as you say, a confident fella that knows what he wants, but NOT a dude who is "TOO NICE"! You gotta find a balance in there somewhere.

Girls are not hard to get as long as you adopt one simple philosophy, you are better then them.



Sometimes it does not work, but the trick here is talk, talk is cheap.

Girls are not hard to get as long as you adopt one simple philosophy, you are better then them.



Sometimes it does not work, but the trick here is talk, talk is cheap.



Haha. If i was dating the modern 20 year old female that would probably be my approach too...still even here there are some girls that are different.

wow!

i posted this bad boy like 8 months ago and boy do things change..
I thank yall for all of your responses but the truth is never black and white
and there most definitly are variables to consider when hunting for the girl you want.. basiclly, girls arent all the same and the saying is true... Be yourself.

I wasnt gonna go out of my comfort zone and put on some show that elevates my 'prick-o-meter' beyond a tolerable level..

I just tweaked my communication skills and made myself more comfortable to be around...

thats the real secret

Just be your self thats why the girl likes you for being you ...dont try to be some one else

honestly, it ALL depnds on her personality.
but if you were to generalize, i'd say that most women want a confident man who has a good sense of humor and treats them with respect. at the same time, you have to have your own opinion. it's okay to disagree on something, but if you become an arrogant asshole while disagreeing, most women don;t like that. i would also say that men who try to play hard to get by not calling the girl when they are really interested are just stupid. if you like the girl, you have to let her know. playing games isn't fun for anyone.

Agreed.........

Girls aren't hard to get. For me, i just be myself. I almost act the same as when i'm with my boys (not to that extreme, but almost). You know, if i agree with a chick, then i agree with her. If i disagree with her, then i disagree. If i disagree with her all the time, she's not the girl for me. It's that simple. Just be yourself. The best game is no game.

how u act depends on whether ya wanna just get with her
or ya wanna be with her
if ya wanna get with her
just tell her what she wants to hear
whatever makes her smile
dont matter if ya dont mean it
just say it
if ya wanna be with her
tell her how ya feel and hope for the best
give your real opinions and thoughts
its much easier just to get with them
cuz once it falls apart and they see what your about
they want out
and well if your smooth enough
ya got what ya wanted
plus nowadays some chicks just wanna fuk too
dont be afraid to lay it out there like that

step one: smile..

step two: eye contact..

step three: show swagger, moxi, confidence.. dont be a prick.. just be comfortabl.

if you're not confident in yourself that you can get this girl.. why would she be confident in thinking being with you is the right choice.. this is why girls go for the assholes..

p.s. get your heart broken once or twice before you try settling down or whatever.. makes you a stronger person.

step one: smile..

step two: eye contact..

step three: show swagger, moxi, confidence.. dont be a prick.. just be comfortabl.

if you're not confident in yourself that you can get this girl.. why would she be confident in thinking being with you is the right choice.. this is why girls go for the assholes..

p.s. get your heart broken once or twice before you try settling down or whatever.. makes you a stronger person.

good shout

good shout

thank you ;)

I always thought that the whole "girls only go for assholes" argument is no more than an excuse, kinda like "yeah I did not get the girl but thats because I am a nice guy and that stupid whore like the bad ones".

i think in general, women don't go for the assholes, but it really depends on the girl's personality. some women like cocky assholes. i personally prefer the nicer guys. i don't like whimpy ass kissers with no opinions of their own, but i don't like the guys that are selfish and treat women with blantant disrespect.

oh and game players are the worse. i refused to date anyone who played games.

i think in general, women don't go for the assholes, but it really depends on the girl's personality. some women like cocky assholes. i personally prefer the nicer guys. i don't like whimpy ass kissers with no opinions of their own, but i don't like the guys that are selfish and treat women with blantant disrespect.

As much I am sad to say that but girls to like to be put down. Put her down(subtly, girls don't like a direct and blatant disrespect) but at the same time treat her with respect and tell her that you love her no matter all her shortcomings and it usually works. But the key here is to concentrate on the girl's shortcomings, make her feel even less secure but still tell her that you love her no matter what.

As much I am sad to say that but girls to like to be put down. Put her down(subtly, girls don't like a direct and blatant disrespect) but at the same time treat her with respect and tell her that you love her no matter all her shortcomings and it usually works. But the key here is to concentrate on the girl's shortcomings, make her feel even less secure but still tell her that you love her no matter what.

maybe for the chicks you meet, but that would never fly with me.
guess it really depends on the kinds of girls you are associating with.

maybe for the chicks you meet, but that would never fly with me.
guess it really depends on the kinds of girls you are associating with.

Heh, I agree, it is much more interesting to deal with women who like to see themselves as equal.
But most of the girls to their own tragedy like their men to be dominant.

And besides, we are talking "girls" here, not women and as one of the posters here once said "girls are dumb, but women are extremely smart".

Heh, I agree, it is much more interesting to deal with women who like to see themselves as equal.
But most of the girls to their own tragedy like their men to be dominant.

And besides, we are talking "girls" here, not women and as one of the posters here once said "girls are dumb, but women are extremely smart".
not all women. lol!
but you are right, age definitely plays a part.


you can;t make generalization, but if you looked at an individual and dissected who they were, it would be quite easy to determine why they are having "girl problems", then the advice giving is so much easier.

not all women. lol!
but you are right, age definitely plays a part.


you can;t make generalization, but if you looked at an individual and dissected who they were, it would be quite easy to determine why they are having "girl problems", then the advice giving is so much easier.

True, there are no concrete rules to dating and hooking up and anyone who says otherwise is a damn noob.

And no generalizations are possible either, the most you can do is put people into different groups but every case is unique.

As much I am sad to say that but girls to like to be put down. Put her down(subtly, girls don't like a direct and blatant disrespect) but at the same time treat her with respect and tell her that you love her no matter all her shortcomings and it usually works. But the key here is to concentrate on the girl's shortcomings, make her feel even less secure but still tell her that you love her no matter what.

Smokin' posting here...

You read too much dating shit on the net man...don't worry I used to be the same and even put into practise some of the bullshit I 'learned' from the net...most of it is crap, except you have a little of a point. The 'putting down' as you call it basically just shows the girl that you're not scared or intimidated of her and it puts you up a notch in her eyes....but be careful you don't do it too much. I was working it beautifully on this one really hot girl and I kept it going and kept it going....she ended up literally hating my guts just one day with a passion.

The best is just to be yourself. I used to put on this wack ass cocky front and used to talk shit (lie, try to be super outgoing and funny)...it worked ****ing well and I attracted a couple of really, really hot girls whom I would fool around with. Yet, after a couple weeks they would find out my true personality and I was basically friendzoned.

So yeah, I'm ranting right now but the best advice someone can give is be yourself and stand up for yourself...if a girl can't appreciate values of honesty, integrity, etc etc (like myself ha ha), then she's a dumbass hoe who will learn later in life after she goes from dickhead to dickhead, losing her self confidence in the process.

Heh, I agree, it is much more interesting to deal with women who like to see themselves as equal.
But most of the girls to their own tragedy like their men to be dominant.

And besides, we are talking "girls" here, not women and as one of the posters here once said "girls are dumb, but women are extremely smart".

You're right. (Smokin' here again, cock ****)

I'm wondering when I am actually going to meet a real woman, and not a stupid little dumb girl who likes dudes that don't respect her. I'm not saying I'm a doormat nice guy piece of shit because I can definitely be an asshole, but it seems when I used to put on a wack ass arrogant front, I could get loads of girls...

The past couple months I realized how wrong I was in my actions and started actively changing myself for the better...i didn't like how I lied to get girls, how I always talked shit about others, how I was an arrogant cock **** who thought I was better looking and smarter then everyone, my dishonesty, etc etc..I changed myself and now I actually have morals and values, yet I don't attract the dimpieces.

****, where are all the real women, *****s.

True, there are no concrete rules to dating and hooking up and anyone who says otherwise is a damn noob.

And no generalizations are possible either, the most you can do is put people into different groups but every case is unique.

I hate when people nerdify dating and hooking up, too...only call her after 3 days, what the **** is that shit, if you like the broad and are interested in her then set something up, you're not going to look like a desperate goof, just interested.

maybe for the chicks you meet, but that would never fly with me.
guess it really depends on the kinds of girls you are associating with.

What makes things more confusing is that girls more than usually never hone up to what they're about. While all girls aren't the same, they share a common thread that compels them towards the same directions.

What makes things more confusing is that girls more than usually never hone up to what they're about. While all girls aren't the same, they share a common thread that compels them towards the same directions.

which would be? i am a little confused, asian. could you explain a bit more what you mean? :)

People are like magnet.

usally people who are alike attract each other.

without you know a girl which has some idea and princple will come toward you.

Another thing is the place were you meet them. It also relates to the my first point because if you go to the club to have girl then you will have a one night stand type or the demanding type if you go to other places of your interst there is usally girl who will be there with you interst.

There is alway someone for somebody it just where you look at them