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THE REAL NINJA
12-31-2006, 07:38 PM
This is what I look for first in people .
Self respect...If you do not respect yourself then neither will I.
Honesty.....I can't stand people that lie and steal responsibility....This is people that don't take care of their kids and the other important things in life.
Determination....I respect people that give everything they have to achieve a goal.
dependability....People that say they will do something but never get it done tick me off .
intelligence...This just depends on the person and how they carry themselves.
Manners....People that are just plane nasty or always butting in your convos . kindness
veiw points/world affairs ect....People that say things like "Forget about the innocent ,kill everyone." Just makes you sound dumb imo.
looks ...I really try not to look down on people for their physical appearance but honestly we all do sometimes . This is more of how people dress . Why do big girls always try fitting into cut off shorts ?

Smokin'
12-31-2006, 07:40 PM
This is what I look for first in people .
Self respect...If you do not respect yourself then neither will I.
Honesty.....I can't stand people that lie and steal responsibility....This is people that don't take care of their kids and the other important things in life.
Determination....I respect people that give everything they have to achieve a goal.
dependability....People that say they will do something but never get it done tick me off .
intelligence...This just depends on the person and how they carry themselves.
Manners....People that are just plane nasty or always butting in your convos . kindness
veiw points/world affairs ect....People that say things like "Forget about the innocent ,kill everyone." Just makes you sound dumb imo.
looks ...I really try not to look down on people for their physical appearance but honestly we all do sometimes . This is more of how people dress . Why do big girls always try fitting into cut off shorts ?

girls......
1. looks
2. clothing/sense of style/status
3. likeability factor (personality)
4. confidence

.....that's it ladies and gentleman.

THE REAL NINJA
12-31-2006, 07:46 PM
girls......
1. looks
2. clothing/sense of style/status
3. likeability factor (personality)
4. confidence

.....that's it ladies and gentleman.

I'm talking about peeps in gen . What makes you like or dislike a person ?

Smokin'
12-31-2006, 07:50 PM
I'm talking about peeps in gen . What makes you like or dislike a person ?
Whatever we have in common. Respect is a big value for me...as long as you respect me I'll respect you and vice versa. Loyalty and Honesty are also big values because if a friend doesn't have your back then he's not a friend, he's a *****.

Other then that, a lot of my friends are ****y ****s and that's just me.

neils7147933
12-31-2006, 08:32 PM
My first reaction of people is usually in regards to hygiene and apparent intellect and, if I get a good clue, their values/morals...

eazy_mas
01-01-2007, 02:00 AM
these thing is a combonation of everything you said and more because truthfully you wont be friend with someone who is loyal but disrespectful as well as you wont be friend with a sneaky guy but he respect you.

The Noose
01-01-2007, 03:20 PM
Sense of humor.
If somone doesnt share a similar sense of humor, then its most likely we wont become good friends. In fact, its just irritating wen people tell jokes that arent funny.

Consideration and the inconsiderate.
I find people who seem unaware of the people around them annoying. Basically, people who are inconsiderate piss me off. And i like very much people who have that type of intelligence where they try to see a situation through the eyes of other people. Especially in a argument. I like people who try to understand others, and are sensitive to the world around them.

Open mindedness.
From the people ive known, it seems those with an 'open mind' are more accepting to diversity and less judgmental. They are less critical with what somone else is wearing and dont put to much emphasis on things that are so superficial.

phallus
01-03-2007, 12:21 AM
I'm talking about peeps in gen . What makes you like or dislike a person ?

Sense of humor.
If somone doesnt share a similar sense of humor, then its most likely we wont become good friends. In fact, its just irritating wen people tell jokes that arent funny.

Consideration and the inconsiderate.
I find people who seem unaware of the people around them annoying. Basically, people who are inconsiderate piss me off. And i like very much people who have that type of intelligence where they try to see a situation through the eyes of other people. Especially in a argument. I like people who try to understand others, and are sensitive to the world around them.

Open mindedness.
From the people ive known, it seems those with an 'open mind' are more accepting to diversity and less judgmental. They are less critical with what somone else is wearing and dont put to much emphasis on things that are so superficial.



i don't have a list that people i meet have to measure up to to be worthy, or whatever... i can get a feel of what someone is like by talking to them.

anyway, what really guarantees that i'm not gonna be spending a lot of time with someone is the **** that comes out of their mouth. once i hear ignorance / racist **** or otherwise narrow minded opinions from someone it deosn't matter how physically attractive they are. certain types of people, overly conformist types that expect everyone to live the way they live, i just know we're gonna end up fighting with each other.

selfishness isn't living how u want to live, it's expecting everyone else to. i hate selfish people

The Surgeon
01-03-2007, 08:55 AM
This is what I look for first in people .
Self respect...If you do not respect yourself then neither will I.
Honesty.....I can't stand people that lie and steal responsibility....This is people that don't take care of their kids and the other important things in life.
Determination....I respect people that give everything they have to achieve a goal.
dependability....People that say they will do something but never get it done tick me off .
intelligence...This just depends on the person and how they carry themselves.
Manners....People that are just plane nasty or always butting in your convos . kindness
veiw points/world affairs ect....People that say things like "Forget about the innocent ,kill everyone." Just makes you sound dumb imo.
looks ...I really try not to look down on people for their physical appearance but honestly we all do sometimes . This is more of how people dress . Why do big girls always try fitting into cut off shorts ?


Girls? If im being honest looks do play a large part for me. Not enough on there own tho! Peeps in general? I can respect and like people for many reasons but if im gonna be kickin it with them on a daily basis like i do with most of my mates then a good sense of humour most definatley is 1st priority

K-DOGG
01-03-2007, 04:46 PM
1. honesty
2. morals
3. self-esteem
4. character....do they have it or not?
5. self-reliance
6. compassion
7. reliability


There might be more; but that's all that comes to mind for now.

SonnyG8R
01-03-2007, 11:15 PM
The first things I notice when I meet a person are looks and personal Hygiene. Looks are nice but not necessary for me to befriend them. Hygiene is a lot more important. If the person has rotten teeth, matted hair and atrocious body odor I am going to have a hard time getting close to them no matter what other characteristics they possess.

Once I meet a person the most important thing for them to possess is a kind heart. This characteristic is much more important than looks. If the person is a stuckup, selfish ******* they might be good for a one night stand, but no way could they become a real friend. Then of roughly equal importance is a sense of humor and intelligence. Having one without the other often makes a person more obnoxious than anything else. One might be good if your tripping acid and the other will come in handy if you are studying for a test, but as a serious friend...no way. Once a person has actually become a friend honesty, loyalty and reliability become very important. I would do almost anything for a true friend and I would expect the same of them.

American_Ninja
01-04-2007, 02:48 AM
I have a pretty off the wall sense of humor. Basically I get along with just about anyone. People who are real, not fakes who think they are better than others. I love flirty women too.

Scottie2Hottie
01-05-2007, 07:12 PM
things thatll make me like you off the bat are a good sense of a humor, keen street smarts, and knowing how to party.

things thatll make me hate you are **** talkin, especially if its about someone that isnt there, bragging, and disrespect.

K.O
06-10-2007, 02:57 PM
R>E>S>P>E>C>T..It comes in many forms

MANGLER
12-25-2009, 04:39 AM
This is what I look for first in people .
Self respect...If you do not respect yourself then neither will I.
Honesty.....I can't stand people that lie and steal responsibility....This is people that don't take care of their kids and the other important things in life.
Determination....I respect people that give everything they have to achieve a goal.
dependability....People that say they will do something but never get it done tick me off .
intelligence...This just depends on the person and how they carry themselves.
Manners....People that are just plane nasty or always butting in your convos . kindness
veiw points/world affairs ect....People that say things like "Forget about the innocent ,kill everyone." Just makes you sound dumb imo.
looks ...I really try not to look down on people for their physical appearance but honestly we all do sometimes . This is more of how people dress . Why do big girls always try fitting into cut off shorts ?


Good list. Thorough and on point. **** is the truth homey.This is pretty much applicable to personal and professional interaction.

In a business settin, I don't over analyze tho. I try not to get too personal wit clients or my business partners.